【Author:Ye Ye Gongzi】
I. Guo Xiaodong's history of "poverty" struggle
In 1977, when Cheng Lisha was born, "straight man of steel" Guo Xiaodong was three years old.
Cheng Lisha was born in Wuhan, Hubei Province, to a family of civil servants, and has no worries about food and clothing since childhood, and is a complete little princess.
Guo Xiaodong, on the other hand, was born in a rural family in Linyi, Shandong Province, where there was a lack of clothes and clothing, and even food and clothing were a problem.
In Linyi in the 70s, it was closed and poor, and the parents got up early and worked greedily, and the annual income was only 500 yuan.
Guo Xiaodong and his brother Guo Xiaofeng, from a young age, have to help their family pull grass, herd cattle, and collect cotton, and are completely poor boys.
In the early 1980s, when the countryside would occasionally show some open-air movies, my father would push the two brothers to watch them, even if they walked 20 miles.
After watching the movie, the brothers were excited, would imitate the characters in the movie, and planted the seeds of the movie in their hearts.
After going to school, the brothers were both literary and artistic activists in the school, and often participated in literary and artistic performances, which left a deep impression on the teachers.
Unfortunately, the family was too poor to afford the tuition fees of the two brothers.
In 1989, after his brother dropped out of school, Guo Xiaodong also dropped out of school because of the tuition fee of 34 yuan, and has since embarked on the road of part-time work.
In the years since, Guo Xiaodong has dug sewers, worked as a printer, worked as a waiter, and lived on a salary of 15 yuan a month.
At this time, Cheng Lisha was learning dance and piano under her mother's arrangement, and she could not imagine that her future husband would be a poor boy.
In 1992, Guo Xiaodong saw the news in a magazine that "the Beijing Film Academy held a summer camp", resolutely resigned, and took the borrowed 120 yuan and stepped on the train to Beijing.
Participating in this summer camp, Guo Xiaodong only communicated with his brother Guo Xiaofeng, and his parents at home did not know at all.
Guo Xiaofeng was very supportive of his brother's decision, but when his parents learned about it, they thought that their son was "not doing the right thing" and was very angry.
The half-month summer camp opened a new door to Guo Xiaodong's life and strengthened the idea of taking nortel.
Because he had no money, Guo Xiaodong rented a moldy basement in Haidian District, went out to work during the day, ran dragon sets, and studied culture classes in the damp basement at night, persevering.
Unfortunately, heaven did not take care of Guo Xiaodong.
In 1993, Guo Xiaodong took nortel's art exam for the first time, and he was brushed off without even passing the initial exam.
In order to accumulate performance experience, after falling off the list, he insisted on squatting in front of the North Film Studio and Bayi Studio, no matter how small the dragon set he picked up, and slowly accumulated performance experience.
At that time, the salary for a busy day was only 20 yuan, but Guo Xiaodong was very happy and felt that he was getting closer and closer to his dream.
At this time, 15-year-old Cheng Lisha, under the cultivation of her parents, also became interested in acting and decided to apply for art colleges in the future.
Second, become a classmate of Zhao Wei and Huang Xiaoming, and promote his brother
In 1995, Guo Xiaofeng, who worked as a truck driver in Zhejiang, was also infected by his brother's passion, gave up his job as a driver, and also went to Beijing to make dragon sets, and the brothers began to set out for their dreams.
The two rented a basement together, squatted together during the day, and supervised each other's studies at night, which was difficult and happy.
In 1996, with the encouragement of his brother, the 22-year-old Guo Xiaodong sprinted for Nortel again and was successfully admitted, becoming a classmate with Zhao Wei, Huang Xiaoming, Chen Kun, Zu Feng, Yan Danchen and others.
This year, Nortel has just been restructured, the tuition fee has risen from more than 1,000 to more than 8,000, and the brothers have started to worry about tuition fees.
In order to save enough tuition, the brothers worked as cleaners, painters, toilet dredgers, postmen, etc., and they were busy every day, and finally made up enough for Guo Xiaodong's tuition.
The elder brother Guo Xiaofeng, in order to alleviate his brother's worries, took the initiative to undertake the task of making money, and never cried bitterly tired.
To the left and right of the front row are two brothers
And Guo Xiaodong, who also understands his brother's difficulty, never spends money indiscriminately in school, and is ridiculed by his classmates as "too picky".
Later, the class teacher Cui Xinqin learned about Guo Xiaodong's situation and began to take the initiative to help him get advertisements and pick up activities, and gradually solved Guo Xiaodong's urgent needs.
In the four years of college, Guo Xiaodong was taken care of by Teacher Cui Xinqin, successfully graduated, and was assigned to the Bayi Studio.
Subsequently, Guo Xiaodong participated in "North Country Wind", "Warm", "New Marriage Era", "The Colonel's Daughter", etc., and slowly gained a foothold in the show business circle and became a down-to-earth actor.
After Guo Xiaodong became popular, he did not forget his brother Guo Xiaofeng, as long as he filmed, he would fight for the role of his brother, and also invested more than half of it to help his brother buy a house in Beijing.
In 2004, he also encouraged his brother to enter the Nortel Directing Training Class, and Guo Xiaofeng also participated in "The Great Qing Salt Merchant", "Red Radio Wave", "The Pretender", "Under the Golden Dress", etc., and his acting skills were highly recognized.
Cheng Lisha, on the other hand, was also admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy in 1997 and became a student of the Acting Department.
Her classmates, including Tong Dawei, Feng Shaofeng, Yan Kuan, Yang Rong, Li Lin, etc., later became well-known actors.
After graduation, Cheng Lisha, who has a good appearance, has also starred in "Love Code", "Heaven Does Not Hide Adultery", "The Secret History of Taizu", "The Last Gege", etc., step by step towards the goal.
The fate of Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha has come in 2002.
Third, the origin of Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha
In 2002, director Huo Jianqi took a fancy to Guo Xiaodong's "straight man" temperament and invited him to star in the movie "North Country Wind".
In this play, Guo Xiaodong is dressed in a military uniform and is upright, attracting the attention of a supporting actress.
This supporting actress is Cheng Lisha.
As Miss Qianjin, Cheng Lisha just entered the group and put forward various requirements for clothing, props, accessories, etc.
When Guo Xiaodong saw the situation, he labeled Cheng Lisha as "Mother of Things".
After the filming of "Northern Wind", Cheng Lisha "glued" Chen Xiaodong, took the initiative to chase backwards, took care of the whole process, completely disregarded his face, making Guo Xiaodong very embarrassed.
Before that, Guo Xiaodong had never been in love, and he knew nothing about feelings, and he didn't know how to face Cheng Lisha.
If it were not for Cheng Lisha's initiative, it is estimated that this relationship would end without a problem.
In Cheng Lisha's eyes, Guo Xiaodong is a "straight man of steel"; in Guo Xiaodong's eyes, Cheng Lisha is still a "mother".
On their first date, Guo Xiaodong wore a suit and tie; Cheng Lisha stepped on high heels and wore a one-step skirt; obviously they all attached great importance to it.
However, the "straight man" Guo Xiaodong chose a very small hot pot restaurant to eat, resulting in the failure of the romantic date between the two, and also made a hot pot flavor.
After the two exchanged, Cheng Lisha's first birthday, Guo Xiaodong sent a necklace, but the box carried an invoice, making Cheng Lisha cry and laugh.
Later, Cheng Lisha learned that Guo Xiaodong did not let her see the price, but told her: I attach great importance to you, and the gift is not a stall.
The first time the two quarreled was at the subway station in Dongzhimen, arguing that the subway was coming, Guo Xiaodong immediately squeezed up, leaving Cheng Lisa alone to be stupid.
Cheng Lisha didn't understand: "I'm so uncomfortable, how can you squeeze the subway yourself?" ”
Guo Xiaodong thought: "The girls in this city are too unsure, the subway tickets have been bought, and they are not in a hurry to come up!" Come up and continue to argue, too. ”
The two went out to dinner, and No matter how difficult the day was, Guo Xiaodong would definitely insist on paying the bill, and would definitely not take advantage of Cheng Lisha because of her good conditions.
And Cheng Lisha, in order to reduce Guo Xiaodong's burden, wanted to pay more, but was blocked by Guo Xiaodong again and again.
In the whole process of communication, Guo Xiaodong has always been very inferior, feeling that he is a poor boy and is not worthy of "white rich beauty".
And Cheng Lisha, don't care about paying, apologizing and redeeming, just wants to continue this relationship.
The two fell in love and struggled at the same time, and in 2004, they still couldn't stand the pressure and broke up.
Fourth, the companionship after a brief separation
After the two broke up, Cheng Lisha filmed four plays a year, rooted in the crew, and did not dare to think of Guo Xiaodong.
And Guo Xiaodong, because of the filming of "Beijing, My Love", met the Korean actress Han Caiying.
Although he did not announce the relationship, many years later, when Guo Xiaodong participated in a variety show, he exposed the relationship.
This relationship was very short, because of the differences between China and South Korea, the differences in life, temper and so on, and eventually parted ways.
Subsequently, Guo Xiaodong found that Cheng Lisha was still suitable for him, so he turned his head and pursued Cheng Lisha again.
This time, the roles of the two were reversed, and it became Guo Xiaodong's pursuit of the whole process, and Cheng Lisha enjoyed the feeling of being pampered.
In November 2007, the two finally got married.
Guo Xiaodong demanded that the wedding must be held in his hometown, and Cheng Lisha handled the whole process, which became a lively event in eight villages in ten miles.
Because of Guo Xiaodong's star status, on the wedding day, the roads in the village were crowded, and the villagers of the eight villages in ten miles flocked to the streets to see the stars.
And Cheng Lisha, who did not care about this crowding, got out of the convertible car and gave candy to the fathers and villagers in the village.
On the soil kang of Linyi's hometown, Cheng Lisha officially became the daughter-in-law of Shandong.
After marriage, Guo Xiaodong handed over the bank card to Cheng Lisha for safekeeping for the first time, and had no reservations about his wife.
However, Guo Xiaodong's "steel straight man" temperament is also more obvious, requiring Cheng Lisha to "not wear revealing clothes, wear a swimsuit must wear one-pieces, wear skirts can not reach the thighs" and so on, very strange.
But Cheng Lisha believes that these are related to personality, but they are also expressions of love, so they accept unconditionally.
Although Guo Xiaodong's "straight steel" temperament has been dissed by netizens many times, Cheng Lisha understands her husband very well and does not feel inappropriate.
Every Spring Festival after marriage, as long as Guo Xiaodong has no job, the couple will return to their hometown in Linyi for the New Year.
Although she is not accustomed to the soil pit in the countryside and is not used to the birth of the seven aunts and eight aunts, for the sake of Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha can endure the whole process and find fun in it.
Guo Xiaodong's father, who died in 2003, left his mother alone in his hometown.
In order not to let the mother-in-law live by herself, Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong took their mother to Beijing, although living together needs to be run-in, but the filial piety to the elderly has not changed.
In order to support Guo Xiaodong's career, Cheng Lisha retired after marriage and concentrated on taking care of the family; Guo Xiaodong was also grateful to his wife, who had never let him go out with the key for ten years.
However, this marriage also has entanglements.
With the popularity of Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha herself spent more and more time at home, and often felt sad.
After Guo Xiaodong learned about it, he began to encourage his wife to go out to work and enjoy the fun brought by work, and also let Cheng Lisha find her own value.
On February 20, in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves 2", Cheng Lisha was finally eliminated, and Guo Xiaodong posted that "you can go home and cook", which made netizens very uncomfortable, thinking that he had buried Cheng Lisha's talent and was ridiculed by the group.
Although there are many misunderstandings about Guo Xiaodong in the outside world, I think that such an actor who is "filial to his parents, promotes his brother, loves his wife, does not stir up gossip, does not go on variety shows, and does not find gimmicks" is already very rare, even if it is a little macho.
It's better than those actors who stir up gossip and toss around all day!
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