The two new hit dramas "Perfect Relationship" and "AnJia" have been released for some time, and although the two dramas tell different stories in different industries, they also have a silly white sweet character.
The difference is that at the beginning, the silly white sweet Jiang Darlene in "Perfect Relationship" makes people feel good, but as the plot develops, it becomes more and more annoying.
The silly white sweet Zhu Shanshan in "An Jia" did not make the audience like it at first, but became more and more cute in the later growth.
Why is it that in the later stages, glitter is loved, and Darlene is hated? I analyzed the following reasons.
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Play different social roles,
Audiences have a different sense of anticipation for their performance
Jiang Dalin is an overseas student, a master of public relations, because of her father's accident, she was ordered to return to China to take over her own large public relations company Darlene Communications, became the chairman of Darlene Communications, shouldered the heavy responsibility of saving Darlene Communications and leading Darlene Communications out of the predicament.
At the beginning, in her inaugural speech, she was questioned by reporters for being too young, and she was angry with reporters and domineering.
"Kangxi ascended the throne at the age of eight; Ganluo paid homage to him at the age of twelve; Huo went ill at the age of seventeen and defeated the Huns; Joan of Arc was only seventeen when he led his soldiers to relieve the siege of Orleans; Zuckerberg was only twenty when he founded Facebook."
It looks domineering and leaky, quite a king's style, and has also won the applause of the audience, so that the audience has more expectations for her performance.
Zhu Shanshan, at the beginning, was a small employee of a real estate agency store, who had not opened a bill for two years, but was still mixed in the store.
The first time you appear in front of the audience, you are constantly wearing makeup and looking in the mirror during working hours, and anyway, except for not working, everything else can be done.
She came to sell the house for one purpose: to find a satisfactory boyfriend. In the store, it is only the identity of a mascot.
At first, the audience did not have a very good impression of such a girl who was useless except for being beautiful and not seeking advancement, and did not have any big expectations for her, after all, she was dispensable for the store.
These are two different social roles, Jiang Dalin's social role is the chairman of a large company, and Zhu Shanshan is an insignificant small employee of a real estate agency store.
At the beginning, the audience liked Jiang Dalin because her inaugural speech allowed the audience to see the boldness of a domineering young female chairman, which met people's expectations of the chairman.
And the audience hates Zhu Shanshan, but also because she behaves without professionalism, temperament, and does not seek advancement, unlike a newcomer to the workplace who comes out to work, but like an idle person.
As a result, with the development of the plot, Jiang Dalin's behavior is far from the chairman of a large company, there is no professionalism, no consciousness and attitude as the chairman, and even she is an obstacle to the company's progress; on the contrary, Zhu Shanshan is not as pretentious as at the beginning, she can bear hardships and is willing to make progress.
The audience's preferences were then directly adjusted. Therefore, the social roles played by Jiang Dalin and Zhu Shanshan are different, and the audience's sense of expectation for their performance is also different, and whether it is in line with the social role directly affects the audience's likes and dislikes.
Different social roles, different responsibilities to bear, different social norms and moral standards.
Each of us has a different social role to play, but it is our unshirkable responsibility to play each of our social roles.
As the saying goes, if you are not in his position, you will not seek his government, but in his position, he must seek his own affairs, and if he is in his position, he must fulfill his responsibilities.
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Self-righteous people are annoying,
Reasonable girls are what people like
Because Jiang Dalin is young, the company's old heroes are not very convinced.
She was lonely in the company, so she invited Wei Zhe, a gold medal independent publicist, to join the company to help herself, and at first, the whole company sided with Wei Zhe alone.
But she couldn't even listen to Wei Zhe's opinion, wei Zhe told her that the chairman of a company should distinguish love from work, and she said that Wei Zhe was interfering in his private affairs.
And he was used by his boyfriend-to-be Tan Xinkai, and despite the fact that there was evidence, he listened to Tan Xinkai's instigation and ran to argue with Wei Zhe and his mother.
It feels like it's self-righteous, unreasonable, unemptiful, preconceived, stubborn, and unable to listen to opinions.
Looking at Zhu Shanshan again, the store manager Fang Xiangjin asked her to wear a stinky "tigger" dress to hand out flyers, although at first she was very resistant and threw all the leaflets into the trash.
But after being criticized by Fang Zhijin, she began to slowly get serious, and Fang Zhijin told her that "every 100,000 leaflets can be sold 1 order", and she worked harder.
This shows that Zhu Shanshan is a reasonable person, she knows that what she is doing is not right, and she is willing to change.
Jiang Dalin is not only self-righteous, but also unable to distinguish between good and good, Wei Zhe reasoned with her, but she always stood on the commanding heights of morality to refute; Zhu Shanshan was willing to listen to the opinions of people who were more professional than herself, which was the basis for her growth.
The audience naturally does not like the unreasonable person, and even is very angry and disgusted by Jiang Dalin's unreasonable teasing, but instead prefers to change it when it is wrong, and the reasonable Zhu Shanshan.
As the saying goes, "reasonable people go all over the world, unreasonable steps are difficult", self-righteous people are difficult to make people like, it doesn't matter if they don't understand, it doesn't matter if they make mistakes, but they must be humble, they must be reasonable, they can distinguish between good and good, and they can listen to opinions.
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Too willful and selfish and no one loves,
Girls who are not selfish are heart-wrenching
Jiang Dalin's words that often hang on her lips are "how I", "I can't help it", "I feel", she attaches great importance to her personal feelings.
As a B B, she receives a call from her prospective boyfriend, puts down the meeting with Party A, and runs out; as the chairman of a large company, dating her boyfriend is more important than having a meeting with a partner.
Once after dealing with a layoff incident, she and Wei Zhe were eating in foreign restaurants, encountered a gun robbery, she took a knife to cut steaks, Wei Zhe asked her if the family had a gun, what do you do with this? She replied I didn't care. Just ask you if you are willful.
The robbers asked her to remove the necklace around her neck, but she covered it tightly, saying that it was her father's and not giving it, forcing Wei Zhe to fight two gunmen with his bare hands. And because she is in love, there is no distinction between public and private, and when she ignores the interests of the company, she can no longer remember that her father is still wandering. Do things entirely on your own.
Jiang Dalin likes to start from "me" when considering the problem, not from the company and the interests of the partners, which seems willful and selfish.
Looking at Zhu Shanshan again, the store manager Fang Xiangjin was sick, Zhu Shanshan handed out flyers for her, and privately replaced the contact on the flyer with his own phone.
After Fang Zhijin saw it, she thought she wanted to pry the order and was very unhappy. However, Flash clearly sorted out the contact information of each customer in a form, handed it to Fang Zhijin, and also helped Fang Xiangjin make an appointment for a centralized viewing of the house on the weekend.
It can be seen from here that Twinkle is not only not selfish, but also very considerate and attentive.
As the chairman of the company, Jiang Dalin should have put the interests of the company and partners first, but she put her love first, and the willfulness of no matter the occasion was even more annoying to the audience.
But Zhu Shanshan, she willingly helped the sick Fang Xiangjin, and was almost misunderstood, making the audience cry out in pain, and the bullet screen said that it was fortunate that She was stupid, otherwise it would be more sad.
La Roche Fuco said: "It is like a trickle disappearing in the sea, and virtue is lost in selfishness." ”
Selfish girls are not recognized even if they act in the banner of morality; people who truly think about others are even more cute.
In general, Jiang Dalin's stupidity stems from her always "out of the situation" look, which is not clear between work and personal feelings, and does not conform to the personality of a chairman; while Zhu Shanshan is silly and cute, and her stupidity is because she is very simple and does not think of people as very complicated.
Equally stupid and sweet, Jiang Darling in "Perfect Relationship" is stupid and willful, self-righteous, stupid and not self-aware, unwilling to listen to the opinions of others, including her self-centered way of thinking is difficult to accept.
And Zhu Shanshan in "An Jia", stupid and naïve, stupid enough to be easily persuaded, her optimism, cheerfulness, generous and considerate but infected many people.
Therefore, it doesn't matter if you are a "silly white sweet", but you can't be unreasonable and self-righteous, you can't be willful and selfish, only if you are not selfish and reasonable can people like it.
In addition, it is quite important to play their own social role, social psychology believes that each social role represents a set of social standards about behavior, is the division of individual functions, it points out the position of the individual in society and the connection between social relations, but also represents the identity of each person.
Whether our behavior conforms to the setting of these social roles is particularly important, and it is very important to whether we can be accepted by people.
Author: Rui Ge'er, a student of Tang Xiaoxiao's writing class.
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