No matter who it is, life cannot be smooth sailing, there are always some things that we can't do, there are always some people, we have nothing to do.
Why are some people poor, often not sad, always so happy?
Why do some people continue to suffer disasters, but never complain, always full of energy?
Cai Lan once said: In addition to the physical pain of people is real, everything else is brought to you by your values.
Bitterness comes from the heart.
There is a saying in "Cai Gen Tan" that says it well: "All the world is happy, and suffering is born from the heart."
In life, we must learn to subtract from the heart, always go to the sun, and keep the heart warm.
01, the heart, to be quiet
Learn to meditate on yourself, and no matter what happens, you must deal with it calmly.
In this life, things have happened that we do not want to encounter, and you are upset, upset, sad, and painful, and you can't solve it.
Only by calming down, dealing with it slowly, stepping out of the haze step by step, and growing toward the sun, can it be possible to find the direction, accumulate strength, and break through obstacles!
02, the heart, the situation
The state of mind is actually a person's thinking. Some people encounter difficulties and think about why the heavens are like this, complaining about the heavens and the people, and complaining about themselves.
Some people are in trouble and think about how to deal with it, which is more beneficial to themselves!
Never let yourself be in a sad mood, too long! A good state of mind is the premise of happiness, which requires people to withstand hardships and needs people to continue to practice!
03, the heart, to be pure
Be a person, be frank, do things, really reliable!
No matter what others do to you, we refuse to be kind and go on without hurting us because others have hurt us! Everything is not in the heart, and there is no dispute between the length and the width of the world.
Gentlemen are frank, villains are long-standing, and things that are imaginary, don't think about it; don't do things out of nothing.
If the heart is pure, there is a pure land everywhere in the world.
Life is long, no matter what, fill your heart, let your heart be quiet and pure, and encourage together.
(Source: Life Insights into the Wisdom of Sinology)