Ma Yili once said that Guan Hu is a talented director, but he is particularly childish in life, and he needs to be taken care of and accommodated by others everywhere.
Once Guan Hu came back from filming and found that Ma Yili had not washed his clothes, so he went to question her.
Ma Yili said, "Why should I wash?" ”
Guan Hu replied: "My woman should take good care of me and take care of the home." ”
Guan Hu is a traditional man who wants his wife to be a "virtuous wife and good mother" type, while Ma Yili is a career woman.
In the end, the two ended their 4-year relationship due to personality incompatibility.
A year later, Guan Hu turned around and married Ma Yili's girlfriend, Liang Jing.
This famous "triangle relationship" finally ended with Liang Jing's victory.
Guan Hu was born in Beijing in 1968.
His father was the performance artist Guan Zhongxiang, and under the influence of his father, Guan Hu liked movies from an early age.
When Guan Hu was born, his father was already 40 years old, and he did not want to give birth to him, but at that time, the society was relatively chaotic, and he was born in order to escape the blow.
However, she was still sent to the Northern Wilderness Labor Reform, and her mother was sent to Qinghai.
Before the parents left, they entrusted Guan Hu to the neighbor uncle, who promised to leave for more than ten years.
Guan Hu, who has no parents to control, has been mischievous and mischievous since he was a child, and he often wanders around in the Beijing hutongs and becomes the chaotic demon king of that area.
When he was 8 years old, he was also sent to the police station by his teacher.
At the age of thirteen, Guan Hu was already a junior high school student, but he still did not know that his father was an actor.
In 1980, when his father returned from exile and returned to the Beijing Film Studio, he followed his father to the film studio and saw a full range of film shooting equipment.
At that time, I just thought it was funny, and I didn't think that I could control them later.
In middle school, Guan Hu studied very poorly, at first he casually applied for a science class, and finally he could not learn before he transferred to a liberal arts class, fortunately, his history and language were not bad.
During the college entrance examination, Guan Hu applied for the Beijing Film Academy for his film dreams and pursuit of art, but he did not expect to really let him be admitted.
At Nortel he has the nickname "Pipe Stick". At that time, he was thin and tall, still a stunned young man, causing trouble without a word, and remembering three major transgressions.
Although he is not popular, his creative talent is gradually revealed, and from time to time there are some wild ideas, in the eyes of his classmates, he is a geek.
During college, he had a relationship, and because he was too poor at the time, he had to calculate when he ate with his girlfriend. Over time, the girl can't stand it, and the relationship before graduation ends.
In 1991, Guan Hu graduated from Nortel, and he learned that some of his classmates drove cars by filming film, television dramas and advertisements.
So he was also moved, and took the script to raise money everywhere.
A year later, he finally planned to shoot his first film in his life, "Hair Messy".
In order to save budget, the lead actor found classmates Kong Lin and Zhang Jiayi, who had just debuted at that time, and the other lead actor, Geng Le, was still in school.
Guan Hu, who is only 24 years old, is full of literary and artistic style.
During the filming, he had a secret affair with Kong Lin, and Geng Le and Zhang Jiayi also became good buddies, and several young guys supported the entire crew.
Born in a literary and artistic family, Kong Lin played Gong Li's maid in Zhang Yimou's movie "The Red Lantern Hangs High", and is also a rising star.
Because Guan Hu is young and vigorous, this movie completely follows his own ideas, so after the film was filmed, there were many problems during the review period, and it was deleted and corrected countless times before it was successfully released.
The final presentation of the effect is not good, there is no benefit, Kong Lin became guan Hu's only gain during this time.
And one of the leading actors, Geng Le, was caught on fire because of his participation in Jiang Wen's movie "Sunny Days".
In 1996, Guan Hu invited his girlfriend Kong Lin and Xie Dong, who became popular by singing "Smiley Face", to shoot the movie "Romantic Street".
After the shooting, Guan Hu learned that his girlfriend was with Geng Le.
The broad-minded Guan Hu accepted all this calmly.
After geng le and Kong Lin were together for seven years, their feelings broke up due to the appearance of Ke Lan, and they finally broke up.
In 1997, Guan Hu came to the Shanghai Theater Academy to select actors for the movie "Night Walker".
At a glance in the crowd, Ma Yili was pure and lovely, although Ma Yili was only a supporting role, but it still made Guan Hu remember it vividly.
Immediately began a famous "love triangle".
On the eve of Valentine's Day, Ma Yili sent a message to Guan Hu, intentionally or unintentionally mentioning:
Tomorrow Valentine's Day, no one will spend with me.
Guan Hu heard the sound of the strings, and immediately replied: With me here, how can I let you spend Valentine's Day alone.
Guan Hu took the flowers and came to the door of Ma Yili's dormitory.
Ma Yili looked at Guan Hu's talent, Guan Hu looked at her young beauty, and with the day and night when they cooperated, the two naturally came together.
In order to please Ma Yili, Guan Hu took out 8,000 yuan to buy a diamond ring for her and said to her: "In the future, the money I earn will be spent for you." ”
For his girlfriend's pampering, Guan Hu not only said in his mouth, since Kong Lin, he has been accustomed to letting his girlfriend participate in his own works.
Not only can you connect feelings, but you can also win a girlfriend, and you can be beautiful in both worlds.
Therefore, during that time, Ma Yili became the royal heroine of his works.
In 2001, Guan Hu tailored the movie "Xi Shi Eye" for his girlfriend.
Ma Yili performed well in this film, and Guan Hu was also shortlisted for the most popular film of the film festival with this film, and his fame and fortune were both gained.
In 2000, Guan Hu collaborated with Huang Bo on "Get on the Bus, Let's Go!" This is Huang Bo's first film, but the response is mediocre.
Then Guan Hu began to challenge the TV drama industry again, so the script "Black Hole" appeared.
When preparing for the filming of this drama, Guan Hu first found Ma Yili, and later contacted Kong Lin and Liang Jing.
Not long after, ex-girlfriends Kong Lin and Liang Jing came to the crew, when Liang Jing quit to host the job and wanted to step into the film and television circle.
A man and three women get together in a play, thinking about it is embarrassing, Guan Hu does not think so, for the sake of art, nothing matters.
When Guan Hu first saw Liang Jing, he almost burned her with a cigarette butt, and the two fell into embarrassment for a while.
At that time, Ma Yili was still Guan Hu's legitimate girlfriend, and although Liang Jing admired Guan Hu, she did not dare to think differently, and she and Ma Yili also became good girlfriends.
During the love between Ma Yili and Guan Hu, the strong personality is gradually exposed, the two always have conflicts due to some small things, Liang Jing also has to reconcile in the middle, and the picture of the three getting along has no sense of violation.
After the TV series "Black Hole" was broadcast in 2002, it won a full house of popularity.
Guan Hu then made several more dramas and quickly gained a foothold in the TV drama industry.
Ma Yili also received more roles, including "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3".
She became popular with the role of "Ziwei" in this drama, and she and Guan Hu lived in two places for their respective careers, and their feelings slowly faded.
In life, Ma Yili, who has a strong personality, cannot meet Guan Hu's requirements for "a good wife and a good mother".
So in 2004, after living together for 4 years, the two chose to break up.
It didn't take long for Guan Hu to be with Liang Jing.
Liang Jing is a hundred times gentler than Ma Yili, tender as water, and very concerned about people.
Many people say that Guan Hu empathized and abandoned Ma Yili, but Guan Hu and Liang Jing only got married after a year together, and the real situation is unknown.
But the only thing that can be confirmed is that Ma Yili and Guan Hu have been together for 4 years, and Liang Jing has also had a crush for 4 years.
Just because of her girlfriend, she chose to wait silently, which shows Liang Jing's deep affection for Guan Hu.
Liang Jing once commented on Guan Hu:
"On the shooting scene, I immediately felt the charm of this man, at that time he was completely in the state of an artist, his charm was in his persistence, and then I knew that the man I wanted to find was like him."
In 2005, at the strong request of Liang Jing, Guan Hu was dragged to the Civil Affairs Bureau and went through the marriage formalities in a vacuum.
The man that Ma Yili had not received for 5 years actually achieved positive results with Liang Jing.
After marriage, the two had a son and a daughter.
In fact, Guan Hu had no intention of getting married at that time, and even had some fear of marriage, thinking about a long life in the future, so he was bound by marriage, and he was quite unwilling.
But Liang Jing, who had reached marriageable age, really couldn't afford it, and she had waited for Guan Hu for too long.
In this way, in order to give this woman an explanation, Guan Hu was forced to accept.
Liang Jing and Ma Yili are completely different, she is a traditional woman who knows the big, gentle, and cares for the family, and is the best candidate to live at home.
She rarely paid much attention to the affairs of Guan Hu, and she did not need to worry about the tiger in the family's laundry and cooking, chai rice, oil and salt, and she arranged Guan Hu's life in an orderly manner.
Guan Hu once revealed a detail in an interview about cooking in marriage.
He said, "Why should I cook?" ”
Liang Jing also echoed: "The matter of chai rice oil and salt is not in the hands of men, and women have to be responsible for the logistics of the family." ”
Liang Jing took good care of Guan Hu, just like a mother to her son.
She believes that it is natural for women to take care of men, and occasionally Guan Hu will say something unpleasant, and Liang Jing will not be like him.
She said on one of the shows: "Women are water, men are containers, and water has to change with containers." ”
After leaving Guan Hu, Ma Yili's career is booming, and she has successfully stepped into the ranks of first-line actresses.
Although he later chose to be with the article of the younger 8 years old, the marriage broke down because of Yao Di.
Because of Guan Hu, the former girlfriends no longer intersect, even if they meet on some occasions, Ma Yili and Liang Jing will try to avoid sharing the same stage.
Emotionally alone, Liang Jing is an overwhelming victory.
Under the care of Liang Jing, Guan Hu has been in the TV drama industry for several years and has returned to the big silver screen.
In 2012, the movie "Killing" turned out to be a success, not only to win the huang bo he brought out, but also to let his wife Liang Jing win the Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actress.
Immediately after, Guan Hu directed the filming of the movie "Cook Drama Leper", liang Jing also fought for her husband, and did not hesitate to play ugly to participate.
In 2015, based on his own personal experience, Guan Hu pulled Feng Xiaogang to shoot the movie "Old Cannon" together.
His father Guan Zhongxiang played the old cannon "second master" in the film, and his wife Liang Jing also played a female old cannon in the film.
Guan Hu won the "Top Ten Film Dramas" with this film, and won the Huading Award for Best Director and the Best Director Award at the Tokyo Film Festival.
In 2020, in Guan Hu's movie "Eight Hundred", Liang Jing also participated, and the two were in the same crew.
Guan Hu said to Liang Jing, "You must not call me husband, you must call the director." ”
It turned out that Guan Hu was afraid that others would misunderstand that he had deliberately taken care of his wife, and he not only did not take care of Liang Jing, but also scolded her when he did not shoot well.
Because he is a director, he can often encounter actors who can't understand his meaning and make some low-level mistakes, but he is not good at directly yelling at actors, for fear of scaring others, so he can only yell at his wife.
However, Liang Jing understands him the most, knowing that Guan Hu is not really scolding, just knocking on the mountain and shocking the tiger, giving the actors who will take their turn next to wake up and let them have a bottom in their hearts.
It is precisely because we understand each other that we can go through so many years hand in hand.
In the recently released "Revolutionary", Liang Jing is the chief producer, while Guan Hu has retreated to the second line to become a supervising producer.
It seems that Liang Jing can not only cure Guan Hu, an unruly man, but also manage the entire crew.
It can be both outside and inside, not only has high emotional intelligence, but also has the ability to see for all to see.
For marriage, Liang Jing herself did not expect to tie Guan Hu's heart:
"I didn't expect to marry him, I love him, just pay for him."
Guan Hu, who is now over 50 years old, has grown from a wild child without parental discipline to a world-renowned "geek director".
In addition to his own tenacity not to accept defeat, his wife Liang Jing also played a key role.
Looking back, Ma Yili and Guan Hu did not come to the end, not necessarily because they did not love each other enough, but Liang Jing was more suitable for Guan Hu than Ma Yili.
Love doesn't come first, timing matters.
The wrong time to meet the right person is doomed to regret; the right time to meet the right person, doomed to stay together.
Love is easy to get along with, in marriage, love alone is not enough to support real life, only the right two people, can go further.
To meet Liang Jing, Guan Hu was lucky.