Doing things seriously will make it possible: People often say that you must be willing to do things to be successful, right? Why?
I think that you must be willing to do things, which is very true, because only willingness is the source of motivation for doing things!
First, why is it said that doing things willingly is the source of motivation?
From a socio-behavioral point of view, people are social animals with feelings. People's behavior is dominated by the spirit, people want to do something, whether they can succeed, the key lies in whether they are willing to do it, if they are not willing to do it, they will certainly not succeed, because they have resistance in their hearts, and when they encounter difficulties, they are not trying to find a way, but to find reasons; on the other hand, if they are willing, he can selflessly dedicate, regardless of himself, then when he encounters difficulties, he will try his best to solve them, and once the subjective formation of spontaneous efforts, then his potential will be exerted to the extreme. Then everything is much easier.
On the contrary, what you are not willing to do, forced to do, can only get by, the probability of success is very small, even if it is successful, it is also luck. This is the difference between subjective causes and objective reasons, subjective effort or not is the key to the success of things, and things that are not willing are much more complicated. Just as in the 50s, we Iron Man Wang Jinxi said, there are conditions to go up, and there are no conditions to create conditions to go up, which is the performance of subjective willingness. This is not only an attitude, but it is also the source of motivation for people to do things.
Second, why is it said that it is possible to succeed if you do things willingly?
From a psychological point of view, man is a high-level animal, the reason why it is different from other ordinary animals is because people's IQ and emotional intelligence are high, in other words, if people are willing, he is willing, how can they find ways to work hard? What cannot be done will also be done in every way, will never wait to rely on, difficult and difficult attitude, he will fight hard, do his best. On the other hand, what people don't want to do, they can cope with it willingly, they can make superficial articles, and they also try to find reasons by all means...
His eyes are full of difficulties and problems, he will ask you for treatment, make things more complicated, how can what he does succeed? In daily life, we can see this kind of person, you let him play games, he can not sleep, night and day at all do not feel tired; in turn, you have to let him go to work, he cramps and bones, trying to find reasons to avoid responsibility. Because playing games is his willing thing, doing work is what he is not willing to do, just to earn some wages. Therefore, it is possible to do things willingly and successfully!
All in all, it is possible to succeed if you are willing to do things yourself, and this sentence is absolutely true. Anything that you are not willing to do, it is impossible to succeed; because willingness is the source of motivation for your subjective efforts, only if you are willing, can you selflessly dedicate, regardless of yourself, will you find ways to do things well, and only in this way can you succeed. On the contrary, if you are not willing to do things, you will have the psychology of coping with confusion, and when you encounter problems and difficulties, you will not find a way to find reasons, do you say that he can succeed?