Thank God for taking care of this little girl who was hurt The child was sent by God to heal our ignorant parents.
Knowingly, there is a hot topic: how much impact does parents quarrel all day long on children?
One of the highly praised answers was:
What does the child really want? I don't know if any parents have really reflected, which is more important to earn money or accompany children?
01 Children are more sensible than adults
Parents quarrel all day long, the deepest hurt is the child, the child should not pay for the unfortunate marriage of adults, the child should not be the victim of the parents who do not understand things.
The misfortune of many left-behind children and the misfortune of marriage are because parents do not understand things, they always think that trying to earn money to give their children the best life, to give children a life that others do not have is the best, but in fact, in the eyes of children, whether it is a poor or rich life, as long as there is a sensible, loving parents, a family living in harmony is to give them the best life.
In the parent-child relationship movie "What Maech Knows", Maech lives in a family where his parents argue all day, his father is a businessman, he travels for more than half of the year, and there is very little time to go home, but it is difficult to go home and argue with his mother, his mother is a rock singer, every day work is also very busy, many times he can't take care of Metch, Maechi always eats alone, plays alone, sleeps alone, but mom and dad always say to Metch guiltily afterwards. They all love Metch very much, and they all hope to give Metch a better life, obviously neither of them has time to take care of Metch, but when they divorce, they have to fight for The custody of Metch, Mech does not understand, and is accustomed to the phenomenon that they quarrel over a little thing, and they have become extra sensible and well-behaved.
Every time when her mother broke down and cried, Meech was always like an angel, using her kindness to comfort her mother, knowing how to understand and take care of everyone's emotions, only she became less likely to laugh or talk.
02 Children know more about love than adults
Children's love is simple, simple, as long as the other party is good to themselves, accompany themselves, even if it is a small thing, even if they live a life of poverty and displacement, they are happy and happy, they know how to use their love to heal and soothe the wounded heart, and adults often do not know how to love, their love is purposeful, it is complicated.
The final verdict of Maech's custody was that Mom and Dad each took Maech for ten days, and when she went to Daddy's side, she met Marg and her life began to change.
Marg is the former nanny of the family, and now with her father, she is not angry at all, nor is she surprised, because she knows that this is her father's choice, but also because Meg likes Marg, Marg takes care of Meg like a real mother, sleeps with Metch, chooses a beautiful dress, plays with Metch, when she finds that Maech secretly threw away the flowers sent by her mother to hide, she is not angry or reproachful, but she is very careful to tell Meg to make the flowers into specimens to keep the flowers longer. She used a little patience and love to protect the injured Metch. Later, when her father hurt and abandoned Marg, Metch also accompanied Marg silently, touching Marg with kindness.
Ten days later to go to the mother's side, the mother because of the suspicion that the father is a cheating nanny in marriage, sued the father again to the court, want all the custody of Metch, at the same time he also found a boyfriend, the war between the father and the mother is not over, and the mother because of the performance, can only throw Metch to his boyfriend Lincoln, who is not very familiar with him, Maech seems to have long been used to it, Lincoln is also very attentive, very patient to take care of Metch, he will be like all normal fathers, send Metch to school, pull Metch across the road, When the mother is out of control, take Metch to the kitchen, make her food, chat with Metch, Metch likes to chat with Lincoln, she said that she has to make a lot of money, so that maybe Mom and Dad will not always quarrel over their busy hard work, and the sensible Metch makes Lincoln very distressed.
03 Don't let your child completely disappoint their parents
When Maech went to his father's side again for ten days, his father did not come to pick up Metch because he was on vacation, and finally Lincoln took Metch home, and when he returned home, Meech didn't say anything and obediently wrote his homework, at this time Lincoln was very sad, he said to Metch's mother that he wanted to be Metch's real father, wanted to give Metch a complete home, but this caused strong opposition from his mother, thinking that Lincoln wanted to rob his daughter, she said that her daughter was her own, and she could only love herself. No one is allowed to share this love, after a big quarrel, the mother began to complain about the unfairness of life in front of Maech, complaining that Maech's father was an asshole who had harmed him for decades, Maech did not say a word at this time, Metch was like a garbage can, and was dumped by her mother into all kinds of complaining garbage. Or maybe Metch was already disappointed in her parents, and she didn't want to say anything, but she suffered in silence.
04 Children want just simple companionship and love to live in harmony
Mom once again threw Maech to Lincoln for a show, and during that time they did all the things that Dad hadn't taken her to do, Lincoln played hide-and-seek with Metch during the day, raced in the park, made a single pole with his arm, played in the water under the bridge, took Maech to the bar to work at night, and handed Maech to a colleague to take care of and sleep, Lincoln loved the scarred little girl with everything he could.
Maech's life went on like this, back to his mother's house again, one night his mother received a call to perform, two words did not say, once again left Metch in the door of the bar where Lincoln worked, but today Lincoln did not go to work, Metch had no choice but to sleep with a strange colleague in the bar for one night, looking at Metch hiding in the bed and crying, really distressed, fortunately the next day Marg came to pick up Meg, Marg took Meg to the country, and at this moment Lincoln also rushed over after knowing, they lived in the country, here next to the sea, They ran by the sea with Megch together, caught starfish together, played games together, looked at the blue sky and white clouds of the sea together, and Lincoln promised to take Metch out to sea by boat the next day, what a beautiful picture, if everything stopped at this moment, but at night the mother came angrily to take Metch, this time the obedient Metch began to resist, she did not want to go with her mother, nor did she want to live with her mother, her mother was very angry, and finally looked at Metch compromised, she left alone, the story ended here, The next day Metch happily ran to the docks, and Lincoln and Marg happily followed behind, how happy they were at this moment.
05 Children who are too sensible are always extremely distressing
In fact, Meech knew everything from beginning to end, she knew that her mother did not love herself, that her father would not take her away, and that only Lincoln and Marg truly loved her, and that she was the perfect girl from beginning to end, a girl who was hurt by an unfortunate marriage, a little angel who healed and infected everyone around her with her kindness.
Parents quarrel all day, unhappy marriage, can end and then choose again, but the child is hurt can not make up.
If "The Little Girl Who Sold Matches" could also meet the kind person in her life and bring herself into a warm room, maybe this kind and hurt little girl would not die in the cold winter.