This article is original by @Ye Xi, plagiarism or washing must be investigated.
Writing this, just because I chatted with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, she sighed: Do I have the anxiety of middle-aged women?
Anxiety in middle-aged women? To tell the truth, or to reject from the bottom of my heart the fact that we are included in the "middle age", without looking at the ID card, I always thought that we were still the two smallest girls in the class, and the seats occupied the first row for a long time.
But I have to admit that we have all begun to fall into this anxiety, whether it is life or work, it has shown a weak state.
Recently, I watched back the old movies, three of which, coincidentally, explore the different stages of everyone's growth, from children, teenagers to adulthood, from family affection, love to personal growth, quan should be a review of their past life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Raymonda and sister Ramona and Beezus (2010).</h1>
Douban: 8.0
9-year-old Ramona, a little girl who often has a big brain, is eccentric and energetic, and often does not play cards according to common sense: wearing a blue helmet and heavy rain boots, not using the words prescribed by the teacher to make reports, creating words that do not conform to the rules of grammar; her imagination can cross the whole Of America, until the Sahara and the pyramids on the other side of the world, flying in the air to touch the rabbit-like clouds; raw eggs dripping all over her head, turning the uncle's baby jeep next door into a colorful Easter easter egg...
In short, she felt that her existence was to set off her sister's intelligence, well-behaved, and beautiful, for which she was jealous, sad, tantrum, and ran away from home. The ending of the story is also very simple, and in the end, Raymonda also grows up and understands the love of her parents and family.
Familiar, isn't it that simple when we were kids? Happy to laugh, sad to cry, good old times. If I go back to my childhood and ask me what I want to be when I grow up, I will definitely say, "I want to be a baby when I grow up" (anyway, other wishes have not been fulfilled).
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > fluttering Flick (2010</h1>).
Douban: 9.0
"Heartbeat" is a story about first love, but it is more than that, about pursuing your dreams, respect, hard work, how to look at poverty, how to accept disabled family, how to maintain your self-esteem.
The little boy Bryce's family moved to the town, and the little girl Julie fell in love with him at first sight. As neighbors, the two grew up playing and playing until elementary school, and began to change. It also started from here that made me feel very deeply.
Teenage Jolie, with an amazing sense of introspection, will seriously examine whether the person she loves is worthy of love. As soon as her self-esteem was touched, she immediately decided to give up on the boy.
The "love" in our culture seems to be low to the dust, giving up self-esteem is called love, and it is true love to fight for oneself and forget oneself. And Julie is like the tree she has always insisted on, even if it does not have to be low into the dust, it can still bloom brilliantly.
There's a classic line in the movie: But every once in a while you find someone who's iridescent, and when youdo, nothing will ever compare. Han Han translated it into Chinese, which is a very popular sentence on the Internet: If the Si people are rainbows, they will know that there is a party when they meet them.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > The Nanny Diaries (2007).</h1>
Douban: 6.8 points
Annie is a child education major at New York University, and her mother wants her to go to a finance job with the goal of becoming a CFO. During the interview, HR asked her to introduce herself and describe "who is Annie the hell?".
After a bout of jamming, she dropped a sentence of "I didn't know at all" and fled.
She understood that HR was just trying to know the simplest personal information, such as name, birthday, economic structure, etc., but what made her panic was that she didn't know who she was, what she would do in the future, and never knew the answer.
Walking down the streets, she saw single mothers, divorced fashion designers, lesbian lawyers, homeless homeless old ladies, stay-at-home mothers of the upper classes (though she didn't have children)... Will she also be one of them?
By chance, she became a nanny in a wealthy family. Of course, this was only a short experience, and it was this experience that gave her a glimpse into the real life of the upper class, and she finally found her own position in life.
The ending line of the movie: You have to be completely immersed in an unfamiliar environment to fully understand yourself.
But most of us, just study, graduate, work, get married, have children... With a unified pace, can our lives be a little different, can we also stop, think about it and start again?
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
It is undeniable that these three movies all have the taste of chicken soup.
Watching the process may bring tears to people's eyes, or bring some warm comfort. It's over, tomorrow the sun will rise as usual, and we will continue our mediocre lives.
But I still hope that from this second onwards, we will take every step in the future bravely and steadily.