Grandma died in 97 at the age of 66, she had a sudden stroke, and when I heard the news, although I was small, I was shocked, because my grandmother was usually in good health, and I was only in the fifth grade of elementary school at that time. Grandpa left in 2017 at the age of 87, and died without illness, and when Grandpa left, he had already seen his fourth-generation grandchildren.
Because grandparents were farmers, marriage in that era was mainly blind dates. Therefore, there is no emotional love at all. As for whether there is emotional love in the relationship after marriage, this is also unclear. But at that time, rural marriage, as long as you get married, is a lifetime. So grandparents have also gone through a lifetime together.
When the grandparents got married, it can be said that the family is surrounded by four walls, there are only two rooms, and as the children are born, the grandfather also began to build a house, there is no homestead, so he had to dig out a large homestead with a hoe in the middle of our small hillside. Later, our family's house was continuously expanded on the basis of grandpa's homestead. The grandparents had seven children, five daughters, and two sons.
The marriage of grandparents for a lifetime can be said to be a noisy and noisy life. Since I understood things, my grandparents at that time were already fifty or sixty years old. All the seven children, except for the youngest sister-in-law, who are not yet married, are all married and have their own families. Grandparents are also physically tough, usually in addition to doing farm work, it is a small quarrel for three days, and a big quarrel for five days. It seems that their life has always been like this, and this is how life is lived.
I remember once, the quarrel was about to turn upside down. What exactly is the reason for the noise, I don't know. It was noon one day, I was playing at the home of my little friend 100 meters away from home, and I heard the quarrel at home in the distance, fighting and killing. There are also many neighbors who are fighting. Such a big quarrel scene, in the end, it is not over. Maybe this was the family marriage of their time. Whether it's a fight or a fight. It's just life, and no one between husband and wife will think of divorce, perhaps in their conception, marriage is originally a lifetime. No one has ever thought about divorce.
After Grandma died, our descendants knew that Grandpa missed Grandma when he left. Sometimes when I go to see Grandpa, the scene that often appears is: Grandpa is drinking a little wine alone, and a person is quietly watching with a picture of Grandma. Sometimes I would mumble grandma's name and say why did you leave so early and leave him alone...
This is the marriage of grandparents, noisy and noisy all their lives, but they have long been deeply rooted in each other's marital feelings.
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