In the time of children, the companionship of adults is the warmest feeling and a kind of dependence. Accompany your children through every spring, summer, autumn and winter, so that children can grow up quickly in a happy childhood.
Children grow up in experience, and it is the responsibility of parents to give positive support and guidance. In this extended version of the holiday, accompany your child to face it, know it, and deal with it.
First, home life, rich and colorful
The essence of family education is life education. During this holiday, we also arranged a variety of family education, such as reading picture books, paintings, housework, sports, reading ancient poems, watching movies, etc. Taking ancient poems as an example, I chose several poems related to Wuhan for him - "Yellow Crane Tower Sends Meng Haoran to Guangling", "Han River Linpan", etc. In the classic culture that has been passed down for thousands of years, he knows the Yellow Crane Tower and Wuhan, and I tell him that there is a virus that is hurting people there, military uncles, police uncles, doctors and nurses and many well-meaning people who stick there, they are ordinary people like their parents, but they are fighting tenaciously against the virus like Ultraman. When the child said "Wuhan refueling, China refueling, Yellow Crane Tower lollipop", the seeds of responsibility and responsibility were planted in his heart.
Second, revere nature and cherish life
In the afternoon, we sat quietly on the balcony and basked in the sun through the glass. I told him that the virus had caused many children to lose their parents, many parents to lose their children, and he asked me why the virus was so bad, and I thought about how to answer his question. He opened his phone to show him koalas scorched by the fire in the Australian forest fires; bats that were being held to show off and about to be devoured; locusts that were raging on the land of East Africa. His expression changed from curiosity to horror to sadness, and I told him that the virus was certainly bad, but it was also nature's punishment for humans. "Take yourself as an example, more waste of paper means that the bald head is stronger to cut down more trees, so will the bear big bear second like you?" He shook his head.
Dad accompanied him to watch the animated movie "Happy Bigfoot 2", in addition to the theme of growth, courage and self-identification, in the story infiltrated a strong sense of environmental protection, especially in the expression of human destruction of nature, the impact on the animal living environment is more intuitive. Later, he painted koalas with his father. When parents are in action, do not forget that there is a pair of bright eyes behind them, which is the child observing and judging.
Third, review the present and look forward to the future
1. Labor participation. I realized my lack of involvement in family work for my children. Labor education is not only to simply urge children to sort out their own toys and desks, but also to let children understand the value of labor and have an interest in participating in labor through vivid and powerful facts. In particular, family work, which is closely related to self-management, focuses on creative guidance and then persists for a long time until it becomes a habit.
2. Emotional management. Looking back on the period since the epidemic prevention, it is exposed that it lacks patience and improper methods. I always want to help my child learn emotional management, but I forget to ask myself if I have done it. If we can calm down to accompany our parents, persuade patiently, and care carefully, then we are also educating our children in a subtle way.
The epidemic will eventually dissipate, and I believe that people's travel, work and study will soon be back on track. After that, as parents, we must still be a good example for our children and grow up with our children. May every child be more positive and optimistic, insist on sports, be serious and responsible, like to read, be good at expression, have the courage to question, and self-manage after the arrival of the new semester!
