As a single person, watching the friends around you get married and have children one after another (although many people do not contact, but you forget that you have a period of time to dry wedding photos and then a few months to dry your belly and then post a baby to ask for praise) You are so high-profile and red fruit to show off your happy marriage, so how does Lao Gu think!!!
I've been looking at you coldly with these titanium dog eyes, from the honeymoon to the seven-year itch of your new marriage. In order to analyze your marriage from a psychological point of view, it is possible to start my marriage. Because he is made up of many big things and small things. As big as having a child and buying a house into the ancestral grave, as small as buying soy sauce and buying a set to make nails. In the middle there is also a mouth to buy gifts stone scissors cloth to go to who's house for the New Year. It's too cumbersome, and I don't even think about who cooks and washes the dishes and takes out the garbage. There is also seeing if the other person is snoring and grinding their teeth before getting married in the name of cohabitation. By the way, test whether that aspect is still satisfied. After examining it, it can be ok, but it cannot be flashed. The premise is that cars and houses and the like, occasionally replaced with feelings.
After watching my friends for so many years, they have made up a complete marriage encyclopedia, there are happy and unrelated, some are plain, some make up a day is a day, some always consider divorce is impossible, and there are already started to get married immediately. There are also those who take it back and remarry after starting it. More to go. Marriage follows the character, and those who pay attention to it will be done. There are those with gold necklaces and green hats, and there are those who look for 2.3.4.5.6.7... Walk into a smooth son. Of course, some people think that the two divorce certificates are Wang Fried, so some people are worried about some people being crazy. Marriage becomes a landlord, we must position the husband and wife are both peasants, life is the landlord, if you change, the marriage is still happy to speak of?
Regarding the matter of trying love before marriage, I would like to add here that although you are all married, you can say that you can give it to your children, and I do not charge. Love this thing has been said and done (the table is messy, broadly, you think about that small part) three minutes of hot women definitely do not like three minutes to finish the man right, but the slow child of the woman also dislikes the slow child does not take the initiative of the man right. Therefore, personality complementarity or similar attraction is still a proposition that varies from person to person. Not all the little sisters like little hooligans, there are also people who like glasses Sven men, not all literary and artistic women like Xu Zhimo, people Lin Huiyin followed Liang Sicheng, Zhang Ailing liked big traitors, Schopenhauer's husband Chen Xiying did not go through with Lu Xun as well? Not all peasant women like city people, and my cousin's daughter-in-law is the peasant woman of her duty. Not all the girls in the city have to do dowries in high-rise buildings, and some marry into the peasant family because of love. It's not necessarily worse than anyone else. Love eventually became marriage, all because the seeds were planted and sprouted. As for how long it is, it is how two people operate. A seed grows in the heart, a seed grows in the womb. The tree in the heart is called love, which is watered by the other party, and the baby in the womb needs to work together. A lot of people have planted these two trees, and some of them are very good.
Some two people forgot the big tree in their hearts because of the small tree, and some simply let one person water both, one was exhausted, and the other was on a getaway. Others feel that they have enough nutrients, and they still have the strength to water other people's trees. Others go directly to a forest. As a single dog like me, I am also yearning for marriage, but I am not afraid of marriage or worry. The key is to find the right person and then a lifetime. From the beginning, it will be anxious, and it will be nonsense for a lifetime. I'm also not a perfectionist in marriage, and it's also emotional to be noisy. Just don't do it. A woman, in her twenties, with a third-class posture, diligent limbs, five grains, six arts, seven emotions, eight small dishes, nine points of kindness, October can conceive, it is enough.
I accidentally changed from a technical sticker to a marriage sticker, sorry for you. Who made me a dirt dog! Never seen the world. Finally, I want to tell people who are single that marriage can't be too casual, after all, it is a lifelong thing. Come on!!
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