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Cai Lan said:
The same is life, why do some people live out the way thousands of people expect, but some people are linked to lifelessness, complaining, not thinking of making progress, and lifeless?
A high praise replied: "How you treat life, life will reward you." ”
Life is like a game, and the process determines winning or losing. What kind of process should we pursue in order to win life and not waste this life? The following summarizes 5 high-end lifestyles, 3 of which are, please give yourself an encouragement.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >01, the simpler, the happier</h1>
Ancient poems have clouds:
The cave room stopped the red candle last night and waited for Xiao Tang to visit his uncle.
Makeup whispered to the husband-in-law, and the depth of the thrush was not there.
I always thought that the number of people in the circle of friends exceeded 1,000 people, the class reunions were attended every year, the cabinet was stuffed with designer clothes, marriage and love were the peak of success in life, and I also envied these people who had a wide range of contacts in life, who personally operated everything at work, and who were busy with various sources of information every day.
As I grew older this year, I realized that the true meaning of life is that the simpler you are, the happier you are.
Whether it is shopping, or relationships, marriages, careers, you need to break away from each other often. Cut off the powerless things, give up friends who never contact and those meaningless meals, leave the troubles and obsessions in your heart, and make yourself a warmer person.
"Life Needs to Be Broken" said that the more simple life is, the richer the heart. Leave aside all distractions, return to basics, and let life return to the simplest and most comfortable state.
If there is no disconnection, life will be an aimless wandering, consuming time and energy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" >02, know how to score inches, win respect</h1>
In "Ideal City", when Su Xiao, who had just joined the company, took the bill of materials for the Project of the Benxin Art Museum to Chen Siming for signature, Chen Siming said that after signing it himself, he directly helped her transfer it to the Manager Wu of the Materials Department who would meet later.
But the truth is that Chen Siming turned his head and put the bill of materials into the shredder and destroyed it. Afterwards, Su Xiao found this bill of materials from the shredder cardboard, but she did not rush to find Chen Siming's theory, but chose to be patient.
As the saying goes, if you can't bear it, you will be chaotic.
Leaving room and knowing how to score inches are the traditional virtues and wisdom of life handed down Chinese.
Su Xiao knows that even if you confront me, you can't get a proper name, even if you prove your innocence, there is no need to push Wang Jiong and Chen Siming to the point where I don't have you, she considers the overall situation of the company, acts and does things to leave room for others, and finally with ability and personality, she is promoted to the third level and wins respect.
As "Cai Gen Tan" said, the path is narrow, leave one step and walk with people; when the taste is strong, minus three points and taste.
Life needs a sense of proportion, a good scale, and a good understanding of the best distance between people, which is the top emotional intelligence, but also the minimum etiquette, but also the style of the king.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="25" >03, a sense of ceremony, and live your life as a work of art</h1>
After seeing the prosperity of the world, the disturbance of personnel, and all kinds of life, I also gradually understood the value of ritual.
My husband and I are about to celebrate our 10th anniversary, and we will go to the photo studio every year to take commemorative photos on the same day, without advancing or postponing, witnessing from love, marriage, pregnancy, to a family of three and a family of four.
Many colleagues envy my feelings for my husband and me, so they asked, will the usual love anniversary, hand-in-hand anniversary, wedding anniversary, and proof anniversary be planned?
Of course not.
True mature love is about putting the other person in your heart, rather than asking for more and demanding. Every precious moment can have a unique sense of ritual, as "Your Life Needs a Sense of Ritual":
"Take a group photo with your loved one and give them a hug when you leave your parents." Because, life needs some sense of ceremony, which has nothing to do with mannerism.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" >04, interesting, is a preservative of life</h1>
"A good-looking skin bag is not as good as a funny soul" says that in the ordinary world, it is necessary to find extraordinary fun.
Bing Xin and her husband Wu Wenzao, whether in chai rice oil and salt, or in the difficult years, both of them have lived a beautiful picture and a poem. Even after the death of her husband Wu Wenzao, Bing Xin still maintains an "interesting soul", continues to create, and is happy to be with the cat.
Interesting people can be humorous and funny in the world of chicken feathers, but also dress up life in loneliness and fight for themselves.
Don't live a casual life, be sure to toss life into the way you want it to be.
Writer Ma Boyong chose to resign in order to create excellent works, and in the interaction with fans, real and interesting words made them more familiar with each other.
For the rest of your life, be a fun person.
Writer Jia Pingwa said, "People can be ignorant, but not boring", life is not easy, please put fun often in your heart, show the charm of personality.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="40" >05, say goodbye to procrastination, and take control of your habits</h1>
What is procrastination? Psychologist George Harrison said, "Procrastination is a mental state that cannot act according to one's own wishes, a manifestation of a lack of willpower." ”
"The Reasons for Procrastination Are The Same, and the Self-Disciplined Beliefs Are One in a Thousand" has this story:
The students who are about to graduate are faced with two choices, one is to stay in school, stable but limited in development, and the other is to go abroad for further study, which is very difficult but there will be more room for development. Both options require a lot of information to be prepared.
He spent the middle school day after day in hesitation, and the instructor urged Yuanshan to submit the materials for staying in school, but he did not think about it well, and symbolically prepared a little.
Later, he saw that some of his classmates had already received offers from famous foreign schools, and he began to prepare materials for going abroad and prepare for language tests.
Time is tight and the task is heavy. He has been wandering between staying in school and going abroad, helpless, unable to sleep at night. In the end, the language test was not passed, and the opportunity to stay in school was also missed.
There are many reasons to procrastinate, but in the final analysis, there is no sense of crisis, no habit of self-discipline. If you don't want to look up to others, I highly recommend this set of books:
Including "Life Needs to Be Broken", "Life Needs a Sense of Proportion", "Your Life Needs a Sense of Ritual", "A Good-Looking Skin Bag Is Not as Good as an Interesting Soul", "The Reasons for Procrastination Are The Same, and the Belief of Self-Discipline Is One of The Best".
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