Recently, Xue Jiayan held a "100-day banquet" for her grandson, and she invited relatives and friends, as well as the company's senior management, to celebrate together.
On that day, Xue Jiayan held her grandson in her arms, and her mouth could not be closed with happiness, while the baby looked white and fat, very cute, and her small face was fleshy, much like Xue Jiayan.
Seeing Xue Jiayan smile so happy, the whole person is radiant, as a movie fan, I am really happy for her.
71-year-old Xue Jiayan, is a well-known old drama bone in the entertainment industry, she is good at acting, singing well, helping others, has always been keen on charity and education, and is affectionately known as "Jiayan Mother" by fans.
However, Xue Jiayan, who always laughs on the screen, the real life is actually full of thorns, her husband cheated on the family, after the divorce, she pulled three children by a woman, life was difficult, forcing her to once want to jump off the building to commit suicide.
But for the sake of three young children, Xue Jiayan had to be strong, she worked hard, experienced countless winds and rains, and now finally kept the clouds open to see the moon.
Before meeting her husband Shi Baoqing, Xue Jiayan's life can be described as smooth sailing!
In the 1950s, Xue Jiayan was born in a well-off family, at that time, many people preferred sons to daughters, and their thinking was rigid, but Xue Jiayan's parents were not like that, they sent Xue Jiayan to learn to sing Cantonese opera, dance ballet, cultivate their daughter's artistic cells, traditional culture and Western culture.
In the process of studying, Xue Jiayan slowly fell in love with singing and dancing, and she became an active literary and artistic element in the school.
When she was 8 years old, Xue Jiayan took the stage to celebrate her grandfather's birthday, she sang in front of many guests, without fear of the stage, and the performance was innocent and cute, which won a round of applause.
In this way, the young Xue Jiayan was photographed by the staff of the TV station.
9-year-old Xue Jiayan officially debuted, she has successively filmed "Big Sister", "Tianlong Tips" and other film and television works, and Xiao Fangfang, Feng Baobao and other child stars to form the "Seven Princesses", active on the screen.
At the TV station, Xue Jiayan also met another child star, Bruce Lee, who was about the same age and often met together for dinner and partying.
Later, Bruce Lee went to the United States to develop a career, while Xue Jiayan continued to shoot and sing, she formed the "Jiayan A Go Go Band", launched songs such as "Reading Music" and "That Girl Is Not Affectionate", which became extremely popular and won the honors of "Top Ten Most Popular Stars" and "Top Ten Singers" for many times.
If Xue Jiayan continues to work this track, the future achievements are unlimited, but there will often be accidents in life.
In that conservative era, when women were old, they had to marry and teach their children, and Xue Jiayan was no exception.
At the age of 34, Xue Jiayan married Shi Baoqing, who was doing business in the United States, and for love and family, she decided to give up her career, "I feel that if I really get married, I will be a good housewife."
Before marriage, Xue Jiayan was always busy with work, she could not cook at all, after marriage, for her husband's preferences, she specially went to learn to cook rice and practice her cooking skills.
Three years after marriage, Xue Jiayan gave birth to three children, fed and changed diapers every day, which was very fortunate.
Unfortunately, Xue Jiayan's sincerity was finally wrongly paid, and shortly after the birth of his little daughter, Shi Baoqing cheated and played missing, and he took the family's property with him, leaving Xue Jiayan helpless.
"I can't figure out why the person I love the most did this to me."
"I was on the 25th floor... My legs were almost about to cross the railing, my eldest daughter came up to me and my son said Mom, do you want to eat fries, it's delicious. I looked at them and my tears flowed down, and if I went they would be pitiful. ”
For the sake of her three young children, Xue Jiayan finally dismissed the idea of suicide. At the age of 40, she returned to Hong Kong with her children and started all over again.
Once Xue Jiayan was a popular girl, playing the main role in all plays, and cooperating with first-line stars such as Chen Baozhu and Shen Dianxia, the limelight was no different.
But after the comeback, Xue Jiayan can only start from supporting roles, playing the big mother, playing the big aunt, where is there any protagonist aura?
In the face of the real situation, Xue Jiayan did not complain, she gritted her teeth, forced herself to be strong, while filming, while taking care of her three children, an average of only 4 hours a day.
And her efforts have been rewarded, the family's economic conditions have slowly improved, Xue Jiayan's acting career has slowly improved, and the audience has recognized Xue Jiayan's acting skills and likes to watch her perform.
In 1996, just as the popular Zhou Xingchi invited Xue Yanjia to play the role of a referee in "God Eater", Xue Jiayan had another masterpiece on the screen.
In 2001, she took over the costume drama "Everybody Is Happy", which became popular after its broadcast, and Sai Fenghuang, played by Xue Jiayan, won the TVB "My Favorite TV Character" award.
Xue Jiayan's career is getting better and better, she is acting while hosting the show, and slowly becomes the "treasure of the town station" of TVB.
Today, Xue Jiayan is still active on the screen, hosting variety shows such as "50 Years of Popular Classics" and "The King of Daily Luck", and is called "Jiayan Mother" by fans.
In addition to work, Xue Jiayan's children have slowly grown up, and now, the eldest daughter has entered the entertainment industry as an agent, the second son works in the company, and the younger daughter has studied and obtained a master's degree from the "University of Hong Kong".
The three children are very filial, work and live in a down-to-earth manner, and have not failed to live up to their mother's cultivation.
More fortunately, Xue Jiayan met a boyfriend of 17 years younger than herself after the divorce, although their age difference is relatively large, but they have become soul confidants, after falling in love, they have a stable relationship and have also been blessed by their children.
For this relationship, Xue Jiayan is very low-key, and occasionally mentioned in the interview, she said this:
"I really thank God for arranging such a friend for me, which is actually very rare. The year before, he had told me the love story of Tianti, but I said that I would be old one day, and he said no, you are not old. ”
Today is different from the past, as long as two people are truly in love with each other and have not hurt others, even if their age difference is relatively large, it does not matter!
As Xue Jiayan sang in the song: "In a lifetime, looking for more emotions, laughing is mourning and calculating the accident" The most important thing is to work hard to live and grasp the present.