Today I want to share my views from a woman's perspective.
Ren Jialun's excellence is obvious to all, he is a high-quality idol, handsome and charming, such a handsome person is still so responsible and responsible, and many fans fall into his pit and can't get out. Until he announced the woman behind him, Nie Huan, at the time of the fire, fried the pot in the entertainment industry. At that time, I didn't know Ren Jialun, but after reading the news, I thought in my heart: This little fresh meat is really brave and commendable, and at the moment when everyone is vying to become the princess of Guangping, he dared to announce his love, which is really brave! I had a little good feeling for him in my heart, and then I searched for his information out of curiosity and felt that he was not easy.
In fact, if you think about it, everyone envies Nie Huan, in fact, the happiest should be his fans. Fans can feel the enjoyment brought to you by his works, can feel the happiness brought to you by his variety show activities, can feel his wit during the interview, his humor, his composure, his steadfastness and his love for fans, can be poured out for his talent, can praise his character, can be fascinated by his charm, this is the power that the idol brings to himself, and then plunge into his own life, each has its own life track, running to its own happiness.
Nie Huan can't, his husband is Ren Jialun, and she also has to carry a lot of things that come with her while enjoying the aura. They must advance and retreat together and resist foreign gossip together. When the love affair was first announced, jealousy made some "girlfriend fans" look beyond recognition, and they took off the powder and stepped back, all kinds of fabrications, all kinds of insults, all kinds of "conspiracy theories", forcing Nie Huan to close Weibo, and a woman had to fight back against rumors during the confinement period. The world is too crazy, the same woman, very sad for her.
I asked myself if I were her, I might not be able to withstand this huge pressure, so I could only be an ordinary person, not all of whom deserved Nie Huan. She is strong and psychologically strong. Don't understand what's wrong with some people? Without Nie Huan, you can ascend to the throne? If you love your idol, he finds true love, shouldn't he be blessed? He's happy, isn't that yours? When he was unknown, she was with him, where were you at that time? There's something between them called experience, do you have it? If you are disappointed, do not love, silently walk away is, why do you want to destroy him if you can't get it? Fortunately, they survived, and from this point of view, Nie Huan was completely worthy of Ren Jialun.
Maybe I have a moral purity, I never bump into real people, especially married actors, I think it's immoral. Acting is just a profession, and after acting, he still has to return to his family, and he is an ordinary person in private. As a woman, if others say that you are not worthy of your husband, and you want your husband to be with which girl, empathy, how uncomfortable do you have to be in your heart? Listening too much may cause you to lose confidence in your marriage. Some people watch the drama too much into the drama, the CP in the drama is not enough, it must extend to the outside of the play, saying that they are handsome and beautiful, the outside of the play is a pair of good, and then a variety of comparisons, saying that the original wife is ugly, unmatched and so on. Whenever I see this, I feel all kinds of discomfort. Nie Huan is the wife of the star is not false, but she is also a woman, women will be jealous, how uncomfortable it should be to see these remarks, you are a moment of hi, but it causes harm to people, maybe some people say that this is what she should bear, but if we are all kind, the harm will be less. Marriage is not more beautiful, not two bright handsome men and beautiful women together is the most matched, what is the use of appearance, suitable for their own is the most suitable.
To love your idol is not to possess him, but to admire him from afar, to love the people he loves, to be happy with his happiness. He is happy, the whole person will shine, will be more charming, this is also your happiness.
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