Whether young men and women should live together before marriage has always been a hot topic of discussion. Moreover, the two sides of the dispute are both holding on to each other's opinions. In fact, it is undeniable that compared with boys, girls should think carefully and make decisions on this topic.
Not every boy is Yanagishita Hui can sit still, of course, not every girl can be tempted to stay like a jade. Therefore, there are always girls who say on the Internet that they were cruelly abandoned after living with their boyfriends, and persuade others not to live together easily. There are also wise netizens who commented that in fact, you should be more fortunate to yourself, before you marry him, you can clearly see his personality rather than after having children after marriage. Of course, everything has two sides, and some experts and scholars say that women must not only learn to be spiritually high, but also maintain physical purity and not live together at will, in order to better find a person for a long time.
From the perspective of women, many Korean female celebrities have expressed their views in this hot topic, let's take a look at it. After all, those who know women better than men must be women.
South Korea's top female star Lee Hyo-ri is a proper winner in life in the eyes of many people, whether it is an acting career or a happy marriage. However, her love affair with Li Shangshun has caused great controversy. After all, the two people are not very compatible with outsiders in terms of career and appearance, one is a top female star with super high looks, and the other is an unknown and average-looking musician. However, Li Xiaoli tried to defy the public opinion and Li Shangshun successfully entered the wedding hall, and thus withdrew from the show business circle. Now that they have been running for 10 years on the road of marriage, they are still sweet and sweet, which shows that the two people are really soul mates.
In fact, in the face of true love, there is no such thing as a match or an unworthy, only love is not loved, love is not deep, and how deep it is. The more mismatched others see, isn't it a testament to the fact that they love more deeply? At the same time, it also confirms such a sentence that there is no so-called general match or unmatched relationship of feelings, only suitable and unsuitable, and general matching is the achievement of love, not the premise.
Li Xiaoli once shared her views on the topic of whether young men and women should live together in a variety show, and she said that many people will find it inappropriate to live with someone after marriage, so it is important to spend some time before marriage and live with them to understand each other. And Li Xiaoli bluntly said that she and Shang Shun had already lived together two years before their marriage.
Speaking of newcomer actor Li Yilin, many people may not be familiar with it, but her father is the famous Korean variety show godfather Lee Kyung-woo, and friends who are familiar with Korean variety shows may have some understanding. It is worth mentioning that he has also starred in the ace variety show "Running Man" as a guest for many times, during which the national MC Liu Zaishi and the members all have great respect for this big senior. And during the period when "Running Man" was at a low in the ratings, Li Jingkui still chose to star in the show, which can be described as full of righteousness. After all, it is easy to add icing on the cake when the scenery is beautiful, and it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow when you are down, and the luckiest thing is that when you are at the lowest point of your life, someone is willing to reach out and pull you.
When Li Jingkui and his daughter Li Yilin talked about the topic of living together before marriage in a show, Li Jingkui shared his views, in order to make his daughter wait until after marriage to live with others, he said so, you may lose respect for him after living with a person for three days, and so on. But daughter Li Yilin's response is that you can only understand this if you live with that person for a while. Had to give a thumbs up to this little sister.
It is undeniable that Li Jingkui is highly respected in his field of work, and he also has his own very successful way of dealing with the world. But in answering this question, he may take the position of a traditional parent, perhaps he feels that cohabitation before marriage may be an immoral behavior, but is this really the case?
In the Korean entertainment industry, female singer Jessi can be said to be the current female star, in the past 2020, whether it is the release of songs or the variety shows starred in can always trigger the hot search of the topic, especially with the national MC Liu Zaishi's many cooperation, during which the two are also full of tacit understanding. Jessi has become a little fan of Liu Dashen, and has never hesitated to express his love for the god in public. Of course, who can not love such a perfect person as Liu Zaishi.
Growing up in the United States, Jessi is very liberal and open in some ways, and has always been known for being outspoken on many sensitive topics. Such a personality is very attractive at the same time, naturally will also attract a lot of insults. Jessi is no exception on this topic, saying that it is too normal for young men and women to live together before marriage. After all, she has been accepting Western ideas since she was a child, and compared to the more traditional Eastern ideas in some aspects, it is naturally difficult for her to accept.
As a new-age woman, you must dare to love and dare to hate. We must be as brave as Li Xiaoli in pursuing love, and do not fear the eyes of the world. Be sure to be like Li Yilin, bravely say no to traditional parents like Li Jingkui, after all, even great parents make mistakes, even if they feel that they are right. At the same time, you can also be like Miss Jessi to accept some advanced Western ideas and abandon some old ideas.
All in all, on the question of whether young men and women should live together before marriage, as a wise woman, don't let the immorality in the eyes of others constrain you to pursue happiness, even if it is the parents who love you the most. After all, sometimes moral education that encourages people to sacrifice is often immoral. Of course, after living together before marriage, as a young man and woman with hormone explosions, we must do a good job of protection measures at that time, especially girls, we must not believe some stinky men's lies, and we must pay attention to protect ourselves.