Sayings：
I believe that many people are still lamenting this news:
Yu Yuexian, the actor of Xie Dazu in "Country Love", died in a car accident in Inner Mongolia. She is 50 years old.
A message about her was posted on Weibo:
"In the middle of the month, the jade girl smiled and left, and the big feet of the human world became immortals."
Many of the stories of her life are connected with Xie Bigfoot.
She wore 15-year-old size 40 shoes, which were the size of Bigfoot Xie's. She herself has small feet and wears a size 37.
She and Xie Bigfoot also have a lot of similarities, the birthday is the same day, both love beauty, love to wear brightly colored clothes.
Zhang Ji, the screenwriter of "Hometown Love", described that beauty as "the beauty that people are willing to approach.".
Whether it is Yu Yuexian or Xie Dazu, there is a sense of intimacy in his body:
She's like the most capable aunt around you. There was a man in the family who was not very good, and she was the leader of the family.
Earning money depends on her, human relations depend on her, and children's marriages also depend on her.
She can take care of everything, and without her, a meal between relatives can't be organized. A family is like a scattered sand, empty.
Xie Bigfoot is so.
All of ivory's big stories take place in her commissary. Everyone's worries are willing to come to her and nag.
The same is true of Yu Yuexian.
She likes to say "I wrapped up", brother's surgery fee, she wrapped up. Mother's pension, she wrapped up. Screenwriter Shi Hang said she was the load-bearing wall of their home.
But Yu Yuexian and Xie Dazu are very different:
Yu Yuexian is the eldest sister in the family. She spent many years protecting her mother "from being poked in the spine."
She wanted to prove that she could be used as a man, like a horse riding her home.
At the age of 34, she wanted a child. But I was afraid that I would stop, and I couldn't pull the whole person, and I didn't want it.
Many people say that Yu Yuexian has an old-school family view.
This made her and bound her.
Xie Bigfoot lived more intensely. She was married three times. She was on her own, and she dared to pursue it too.
One reader described her as "the feminist enlightenment of northeastern girls."
One reader, Yu Yuexian, was reading the story of Xie Bigfoot two hours before his death, and was "super sad" about this departure.
I'm also super sad, and at the same time a sentimentality:
Yu Yuexian had lived a life of hard work and achievements.
But I also wish so much,
Yu Yuexian could live like Xie Dazu.
There are always people who say that there is a lack of attractive mature women on the Chinese screen.
Wrong.
Bigfoot was missed.
She is beautiful, the kind of beauty that is rich in the countryside, and visually very infectious.
Liu can rank the appearance of women in the village and strongly maintain the status of the goddess in her heart:
"The first recognized person is Bigfoot Xie."
Xie Bigfoot's main business is to open a commissary, a side business as a matchmaker, and a hidden profession:
Head with goods blogger.
The clothes she wore, the accessories she wore, and the lipstick she wore were soon imitated among ivory women.
There was a national vote for the Northeast Goddess event,
Xie Bigfoot was indeed the loudest.
Xie Bigfoot's marriage did not go well.
The first husband was a scumbag.
Spend her money, live in her room, beat her when she drinks, and ask her to spend 3,000 yuan to redeem her when she prostitutes.
The torment a woman has to go through before she divorces, she goes through almost all of them:
Her husband spied on her and slandered her private life.
Forced to sleep with her, she was so frightened that the villagers launched the "Bigfoot Protection Society" to watch over her home all night.
But she survived:
Fight with your husband and insist on divorce.
She was not afraid of the threat of reputation and warned her husband:
"If you really want to find stubble, I'm not afraid of stubble."
Indeed, Xie Dazu was not afraid of stubble.
Xie Dazu is the woman with the richest love history in ivory village. Gossip too.
A lot of men have shown affection for her.
Let's talk about Liu Neng first.
When Xie Dazu got married for the third time, Liu Neng delivered a famous heartbreak speech:
"Here, I have seen Li Fu and accompanied Chang Gui,
You marry a friend, and my heart is broken.
reunion. ”
There is also a rich man, Wang Dana, who can upgrade her commissary into a chain supermarket.
But Bigfoot Xie firmly chose her love:
The chairman of the village committee is Chang Gui.
She has a lot of autonomy and is also very bold. In this relationship, Changgui has been retreating backwards, afraid of wind and rumors, afraid of being affected by his career.
Only then did Bigfoot's feelings become strong:
She's not afraid.
She just loves.
One reader said that Xie Dazu taught her that women must have their own ideas.
Among the women her age, almost all of them were covered by the name of XX's mother.
Only in Bigfoot's story, she is the protagonist.
Her Bigfoot supermarket, which she owns.
One person moved beer, one person bought goods, and one person expanded the storefront, from "Bigfoot Grocery Store", to "Bigfoot Supermarket", to a new store with mobile payment.
When she didn't like it, she painted the door frame and changed the color.
She did not have a smooth life, the first husband was violent, the second husband died unexpectedly and early,
But she's been supporting her bigfoot supermarket, supporting her own life.
Needless to say, Xie Bigfoot is a woman who is particularly resistant.
The most representative scene in the whole play should be this:
Chang Gui accompanied Wang Da to inspect it.
He whispered a request to Bigfoot to go out and accompany him,
"You take some water or milk, and you'll stay with you for a while."
Directly angered Bigfoot:
"I accompany ah, you take me as a third companion?" Why should I accompany him? ”
This was followed by a storm of resistance.
Chang Gui let Bigfoot be honest, and she directly pulled open her throat and shouted:
"I'm not honest, loud, rolling, unwelcome.
Roll, roll the calves. ”
This is a woman who dares to be angry.
I believe that every girl can understand the value of this anger.
Almost everyone will be attracted to the vitality of Bigfoot.
The scene that touched me very much was the third time Xie Dazu got married.
The four daughters-in-law of the village came to buy wine for their husbands, and in the blink of an eye, they decided to drink a drink by themselves and send blessings to Bigfoot.
This scene is particularly like the Northeast version of "Sex and the City".
They hung up the phone of their urging husbands.
Kicked away the obstructing husband.
In the night, they said admiration for Bigfoot, complained about their husbands, and drank happily.
Almost every woman is inspired by Bigfoot's vitality.
When she divorced for the second time, the other party asked her if she regretted it.
She looked up and said, "My spring is here." Her daughter Xiangxiu divorced and remarried, and she encouraged her daughter to live for her own happiness.
Reader @ Chen Ai said that she likes to see Xie Bigfoot dressed up, wearing big red and purple, with a glove, and has her own aesthetic insistence.
She had a bumpy life, a bumpy love, but never gave up on life.
@Chen Ai's sentence I agree with:
Xie Dazu has chinese women, especially the northern women's strength to resist beatings and not accept defeat to fate.
"Instead of exhibiting a thousand years on a cliff,
It is better to cry on the shoulder of a lover for one night. ”
She is always above her destiny.
Yu Yuexian has been Xie Dazu in a parallel time and space for 15 years.
She said she gave a part of her personality to Bigfoot, worrying about her lungs and being warm-hearted. They both had endless strength and never fell.
But many of Yu Yuexian's choices have been weighted.
She went to play the demon girl in "Journey to the West", this role style, is the opposite, she would have hesitated, but her brother wants to treat the disease, she can get cash.
She wrote her autobiography, "Love and Love, Let's Go Forward", the first chapter of the opening chapter is,
"I am the eldest sister Yu Yuexian."
It almost foreshadowed her whole life.
When she was a child, she wiped the tears of her mother, who was quietly crying. Because she can't give birth to a son, the mother is always being bullied.
When she was older, she had a younger brother, nicknamed "Hukou Book", which meant that she could pass on the generations, and she happily spent all her change to invite her classmates to eat candy.
Later, when her brother fell ill, she earned money to treat him.
She got a "very high" rating,
"The girl who is old in the family, really good, like a son!"
But she also said,
"I thought, I'm just a boy.
You are free to do what you want. ”
Her brother was also indignant about her sister:
"My eldest sister Yu Yuexian,
She was a girl and couldn't get into the family tree.
But she really lifted up our family.
She is stronger than anyone. ”
Goodbye, thank you Bigfoot.
Hard work, Yu Yuexian.
Hopefully, you don't have to be a big sister anymore.
Written by: Dawn Star Wang Xueqin
Editor-in-Charge: Tintin
Some material sources: WeChat public account Gui circle - Tencent News, "Film and Television Storm", "Very Quiet Distance"
Vespers Hours:
Here is a clip of Yu Yuexian's reading at the Drum Tower West Reading Club:
At the end of the green is yellow,
The end of the yellow is red,
The red end is brown,
And the brown end is no longer a color,
It is a leisurely fall and return to the earth.
—Sanger, "Suddenly Lost Summer, Who Do You Want to Keep"