Listen to | at night, stop saying whose fault it is that makes everything go to ashes
Some people say: I think that love can fill the regrets of life. However, what creates more regrets is love itself. It is said that listening to Fang Jiong's "Regret", 99% of people will think of their predecessors.
I have a case on hand:
Both the guys and the girls were friends of mine, used to get along but broke up three years later. They were married within half a year of leaving, the girl's daughter is now 3 years old, and the boy had a son last year. Even if friends usually gather, one of them will always deliberately avoid, and the two have never appeared at the same time. Friends around me also understand this embarrassment and never point to the excuse of their absence.
It is said that they have not seen each other in recent years, and WeChat has not blocked but never contacted. Until last year's National Day, the boy's hair married the girl's cousin, and on the night of the wedding banquet, the two met in a narrow way, passed by, and the electric flint was like 0.01 seconds of staring... That night, the boy was drunk and crazy, called all the people they knew, ignored the girl's WeChat message and ran to the other party's circle of friends to leave a message (so we all saw): Have you ever loved me? If there was another life you would marry me... A whole bunch of words like that. The girl left a message before blocking each other: We can only meet strangers in the future! There won't be any intersection or emotion, and if there's a next life, it's best that we don't meet anymore.
Afterwards she said to us, we asked her: Do you want to be so desperate? Don't meet it in the next life? She said: It was he who first destroyed the "ecological balance", and now they have families and lives, even if the past memories are very good, they should not be hurt by two defeats or even four defeats (including lovers) and six defeats (including children), it is better to strangle and break off the thoughts early. I asked: If there really is a next life...She laughed and said: The cruelest place in the world is that there is no if, so there is no room for mistakes and risks...
In fact, we all know that she is still very sad and lost at that time, in this world, there are many regrettable things, but the regret left by partial love is the most regrettable and faintly painful.
If you were not willful at the beginning, if you could have more patience and tolerance, if you could not lose your temper and not quarrel, if the hurtful words were not spoken, if you stood in each other's perspective when you were together, wouldn't your life be different later? However, there are not so many regrets in this world.
So there is this "Regret" sung by Xu Meijing and covered by Fang Jiongyong.
Text/Shi Lei