"Dad! Mom! I am back! At 21:30, Fu Li came home from work at the pharmaceutical factory, and the moment she opened the door, she saw her father, who was suffering from terminal uremia, lying on the bed watching TV, smiling and nodding to her... The shoes did not take off and trotted to the back room, the paralyzed mother in bed struggled to raise her head to "be touched", the moment she was touched by her daughter, the old man's face showed a childlike smile... Seeing that her parents were all right, Fu Li's hanging heart finally let go.
Fu Li is 36 years old, and two years ago her mother was bedridden with encephalopathy, and her father's late uremia was accompanied by high blood pressure and deafness. The burden of life did not crush her, in the past year, she will record and her parents' daily life video posted on Douyin accidentally became popular, gained more than 400,000 fans, everyone's encouragement and appreciation made her more motivated to continue to go. She often said: "I hope my parents can live a few more years, with my parents here, I will have a home!" ......”
Fu Li helped her mother do rehabilitation training.
Mother after illness,
More like my angels
On the morning of the 19th, the reporter pushed open the door of Fu Li's house, and she was taking blood pressure for her father. The 40-square-meter room is slightly crowded, and the reporter saw that the word "turn off the fire" was all posted on the door of the home, on the water pipe in the house, on the window and on the refrigerator. "My dad has a bad memory now, he often falls asleep with hot dishes, and once he blackened the pot." Fu Li said that when she was a child, her parents were worried at home, and now she will worry about the "old children" at home when she goes out...
In Fu Li's memory, she was with her parents until she was 8 years old, and then after her parents started a small business selling shoes, she began to live with her grandparents and came home every weekend. "When I was a child, my family had color TVs and tape recorders, and my parents tried their best to meet my needs."
The family, which was relatively wealthy, gradually declined when her mother first came into contact with liquor. Because of the stalls outside, Fu Li's mother Shao Yaying wanted to drink liquor to warm up her body, in order to save money to buy a bag of liquor for 2 yuan to drink, a drink is more than ten years. In 2012, Shao Yaying suddenly developed a "strange disease" of uncoordinated limbs and chaotic hands and feet, and went to the hospital to check and was diagnosed with alcoholic encephalopathy and accompanied by cerebellar atrophy. At that time, Shao Yaying was 56 years old, because of her addiction to drinking, the family's electrical appliances were secretly sold by her for money to exchange for alcohol.
Fu Li joined the pharmaceutical factory at the age of 18 and became a worker on the assembly line, leaving early and returning late every day. Until 2018, the mother was paralyzed, and the father's diabetes also worsened to uremia...
Faced with such a heavy family burden, Fu Li said: "My mother after the illness is more like my angel." ”
Fu Li's husband, Wang Jinbao, cut her mother-in-law's hair.
Before they were parents,
Now they're all "kids."
In order to take care of her parents, Fu Li applied to the factory to change from going to work every day to working every other day, and it was almost midnight before leaving work. During the break, she got up at 6 o'clock every day, first wiped herself with warm water for her mother, changed the diapers, and her father was responsible for going downstairs to buy breakfast.
"You see, my TV loops 'Country Love' because my mom loves to watch it!" After everything was packed, Fu Li began to put on the "harness" for her mother. The reporter saw that Fu Li used all her strength to flip her mother to ensure that the strap was tied solidly, "My mother often said that she was too fat, if she was thin, she could save some energy." Fu Li smiled and said that she did not dare to lose weight, for fear of getting thin and not being able to hold her mother. The shifter was lifted upwards, and Shao Yaying on the bed was directly "dragged" like a "puppet" to begin the day's rehabilitation training. Shao Yaying, who was "dragged", laboriously moved her feet forward. Forward, backward... More than a dozen times, Fu Li moved her mother to a chair, and with the "pull" of the shifter, Shao Yaying could sit comfortably and watch TV for a while.
"Dad, it's time to go to dialysis after taking your medicine, I'll measure your blood pressure first." Every time she talked to her father Fu's family, Fu Li almost always yelled by the neck: "My father's ears are deaf, and he can't hear him at all." ”
After settling down with her parents, Fu Li began to wash the clothes and sheets that her mother had changed. "Many times, I am particularly envious of other people's homes, when I come home, my parents prepare hot meals, and my parents come out to help. They used to be my parents, and now they are all my 'children'. Fu Li said that thinking about herself is happier than many people, because there are still parents.
Wasn't it when I was a kid
This also made my mother coax
"In fact, some people say that your parents will not live for a few years, and then you will be liberated..." Fu Li said, when she heard someone comfort her like this, her heart was particularly unpleasant.
Fu Li was worried as soon as she arrived at work, and every time she got out of the elevator after work, she would always take a deep breath and open the door again, seeing that her parents were safe, and her heart was not to mention how happy she was. "Have you experienced it? When I got home, my father was unconscious because he forgot to take antihypertensive drugs, and his mother fell off the bed and crawled on the ground..." Fu Li told reporters that she never wanted to experience such a scene again.
Speaking of hard work and hard work, Fu Li whispered, "How can you not be tired?" Because Shao Yaying often does not squeak after defecating, as a result, her body and quilt are everywhere, and she can only cook and feed her wife at home, and she can only wait for her daughter to come home from work and then deal with it.
A few times, after Fu's family fed his wife, he forgot to install the guardrail next to the bed, and when Fu Li returned home, she saw her mother lying on the ground, and her father sitting next to her...
"Why not be honest and so disobedient?" Fu Li seriously "criticized" her mother, but after a while, she lay down in Shao Yaying's ear and said, "Mom, don't blame me for the heavy tone, I am afraid that you will fall, I am afraid that you will have an accident, I will not have a mother." After saying that, the mother and daughter hugged each other tightly.
Sometimes, Shao Yaying had to shout all night, and Fu Li sat quietly by her mother's bedside to accompany her, "Is it that when I was a child, I also let my mother coax all night like this?" Fu Li muttered to herself. In Fu Li's heart, home is no matter how cold it is outside, looking up at the lights are still on, it is the place where her parents are waiting for her to go back. "I'm especially afraid that one day the lights will go out at home, and no one will wait for me anymore..."
Didn't think the video could catch fire
I want to record my daily life
When the reporter was finished and ready to leave, the door of the house opened, and the corner of Shao Yaying's mouth showed a smile: "My son-in-law is here." "Mom, your hair is grown, I'll cut it for you." Fu Li's husband Wang Jinbao entered the house and took off his clothes, picked up a towel and tools, shaved his mother-in-law's head, shaved half of it and quipped: "Mom, half long and half short is also very good-looking, or is it like this?" Shao Yaying laughed.
Wang Jinbao is 6 years younger than Fu Li, and the two married in 2016, "At that time, my mother was not so sick, and we both wanted to earn more money." "Wang Jinbao is a repairman who repairs tires for big cars, works one night a day, and goes home from work the next morning to make up for sleep. Since Shao Yaying was bedridden, as long as it was the day Fu Li went to work, he had to set an alarm clock to take care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law no matter how sleepy he was, and it was not a problem to change diapers, turn over, and exercise. "He is the only son in the family, and although the conditions are not good, he is also spoiled." But in order to reduce Fu Li's burden, Wang Jinbao also gradually got used to it.
"When I'm really tired, it's nice to have him around to help." For her husband, Fu Li has unspeakable guilt, married for four years, her in-laws especially want to hold her grandchildren, but in this case of her own family, she can only escape again and again...
"Mom, hurry up, wait for us to have children later, help us watch the children." Hearing her son-in-law's "command", Shao Yaying said with great difficulty, "That is necessary." ”
Since last year, Fu Li has filmed such a warm bit of daily life into a video and transmitted it to Douyin, "At the beginning, I didn't think that the video could catch fire, I wanted to record this period of daily life." Fu Li confessed that she did not expect that the story of herself and her husband taking care of her parents was unexpectedly popular, and in less than a year, she had more than 400,000 fans.
No matter how big
Without Mom and Dad, there would be no home
"I just put my mother to sleep and gave my father medicine, and at this time I could hear that the wind outside the window was very strong, and the home in the house was very warm."
"As soon as I open the door, I can see my parents, even if they are not healthy, they can accompany me, at least they are still there, my home is still there."
"At 1:30 a.m., I have to go to work at six o'clock the next day, and when the only child is a child, she gets double love, and when she grows up, she doubles her responsibility, try to live, come on!"
"What I'm most afraid of is that one day in the future, there will be no sleeping father on the sofa when I push open the door, and there is no mother waiting for me in the house, no matter how old I am, there will be no home without my parents!" 」
The words that poked people's hearts touched hundreds of thousands of netizens, and everyone praised this filial couple and sent blessings and encouragement.
Taking care of her mother's daily life, the details of her parents' love, she will make a video. Fu Li said that the most romantic words she had ever heard were that Shao Yaying sat on a chair by the shifter, and Fu Jia was next to him, "Give me my kidneys, don't be afraid." After Shao Yaying finished speaking, Fu Jia gently touched her head...
When she was a child, Fu Li was a child who was out of tune in the eyes of her relatives, and now everyone says that she has changed, and she did not expect that she could be so filial to her seriously ill parents. "In fact, I just want to be a child with parents, and if my parents are there, I have a home."
Shao Yaying suddenly interjected a sentence at the side: "Fu Li is good to me, I listen to the girl, I hope they want a child." Fu Li immediately couldn't stop the tears, she said that although her mother usually booed and asked for warmth, she would never say this, she knew that her parents still had illusions about the future, and did not give up the motivation to live.
Before parting, Fu Li dragged the reporter and said that he would often have a dream, and when he woke up in the dream, his mother was still the mother who could hold me, and my father was still a big hero who was full of spirit...
Source: Harbin News Network - New Evening News