Wen © Qin Mu Feng
People have two extremes,
Those who can't earn money will always think that other people's money is not clean;
Earn money, accustomed to educating others with a didactic tone;
The former is jealousy, the latter is showing off!
—— Qin Mufeng
Post-90s girl, born in the cold door, became a talented girl of Peking University, a super speaker, with an annual income of tens of millions, and brought over 100 million goods through live broadcasting.
If such a label is attached to you, it is estimated that there will be green smoke on the grave of the ancestors. And these labels appeared on the body of Liu Yuanyuan after the 90s in Hebei.
Some people questioned, some people enthusiastically embraced. So, is Liu Yuanyuan an exquisite egoist, or is she vain?
In 1991, Liu Yuanyuan was born in rural Hebei Province, and in her words, she was not born in a cold door, because her family did not have a door at all. The implication is to tell everyone: I was born poor, do not rely on money status, do not fight for my father, through my own diligence and hard work, I have today's achievements, how good am I?
Was Liu Yuanyuan really born in the cold door?
Liu Yuanyuan's mother was a farmer, while her father was a soldier and had a high school education. According to such conditions, their home cannot be cold.
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According to the calculation of his father's time as a soldier, he should have enlisted in the army around 80 years, and after he was discharged, he was almost an iron rice bowl. Even if the mother works as a farmer at home, the conditions at home are definitely not bad.
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At that time, in the era of family planning, there were already 2 brothers in the family, and she was already a supernatural.
In that era, the supernatural life was either the family had money to pay social support, or there was a background.
Liu Yuanyuan said that her parents preferred sons to daughters and did not even want her to go to college.
So the question is, since there are already two boys, why did you give birth to her at the risk of being fined?
If it is a poor family, there are two boys, and it is enough to raise them, who will have a supernatural life?
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The family's two older brothers both graduated from college. The eldest brother is a graduate student of Southwestern University of Finance and Economics, and the second brother is also a high-achieving student at a university.
According to Liu Yuanyuan's age calculations, his brother should be after 80, go to college around 2000, and can still go to graduate school, if the family does not have this economic strength, can they afford it?
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According to Liu Yuanyuan, when she went to college or even applied for Peking University, the eldest brother and second brother had already joined the work and already had income. And her parents sent her to the best high school in Handan City to study, which is the same as the current aristocratic school, can she afford to go to the aristocratic school, can it be a cold door?
That is to say, Liu Yuanyuan did not know what a cold door was at all? She also didn't understand what a cold door was.
So why did she package herself as a cold door?
There are two reasons for this:
1, more than the upper deficiency than the lower.
In fact, in her opinion, her family's poverty is actually a different reference for choosing.
The cold door in our impression may be that we have eaten the last meal without eating, not being clothed, and even unable to afford to go to school. Not to mention going to college, going to graduate school.
The cold door in Liu Yuanyuan's eyes is a comparison with the rich and a comparison with the giants.
We have a saying that there is more than enough than the upper than the bottom, and Liu Yuanyuan is compared with the best.
For example, if you have 10,000 yuan now, you compare with people who have millions of deposits, that is, poor households.
If you have 100 watts and compare that to a billionaire, you're a poor household.
Therefore, rich and poor are relative.
In our young hearts, no matter how good our own home is, we always feel that other people's homes are good.
2, in order to create their own personality.
I have to say that Liu Yuanyuan is very smart.
She knows what kind of means can be used to win everyone's attention, and what means can be used to gain the support of others.
Bitter love drama is undoubtedly the best means.
If Wang Sicong, who was born with a golden key, even if he earns millions a year, or has given any speeches, others think that it was thrown out with money.
And a woman born poor, if she can do this, it will be considered to be her own effort, and it will bring positive energy to people.
This kind of means is used today when self-media is so developed.
Use their poverty, divorce, illness, and tragic encounters to resonate with the public, win their tears, and exchange for tips from netizens and pay bills.
And Liu Yuanyuan, why not?
I listened to her talk, listened to it for less than 2 minutes, and then quit.
Turning over and over are those empty clichés, telling everyone to have dreams, to be a hard person, to persist, these truths, even three-year-old children know, no nutrition. But she was still praised by the stars, in fact, this is the result of the bitter love drama she directed.
After graduation, I started to start a business, but my career was not as wonderful as I said in my speech. One failure after another, a lot of debt. The online education that I have engaged in has been tepid.
I am not here to adapt to society, but to change society!
Such a big breath.
This sentence is exactly what Liu Yuanyuan said on the stage of the super speaker, and many people were shocked.
I think this is a very remarkable girl, but the truth is punched in the face again and again.
In the end, Liu Yuanyuan also became the fate of being an Internet celebrity, relying on her previously built good personality, as well as those empty and useless principles, opening live broadcasts, selling goods, and overdrawing the emotions of netizens.
Of course, all this stems from everyone's attraction to the positive energy of the girl from the poor family and hard work.
It is undeniable that Liu Yuanyuan is indeed harder than many people.
But Liu Yuanyuan ultimately failed to change society, but went with the flow.
Perhaps, Liu Yuanyuan wants to be a woman like Deng Wendi, but she lacks the opportunity of Deng Wendi, and even more lacks the wrist of Deng Wendi.
In a "None of You" column, she asked many entrepreneurs a question:
What will your business look like in two years and what will it look like in ten years? What kind of way will it be achieved?
The question is his rebuttal to the business owner's question for job seekers, and I think it's funny when I listen to it? It can be said that Liu Yuanyuan does not understand business at all.
Why is it controversial because it brought 100 million goods in September?
According to business logic, selling books for 1 yuan is unfair competition.
This is the opposite of the culture and values she emphasizes everywhere.
Selling books for one dollar is the strangling face of traffic on the book industry and the blasphemy against creators.
In fact, as a personal person, no businessman should regard culture as a business, just as education cannot be regarded as a business.
To digress, even if a dollar book is favored by the majority of readers, everyone can easily buy books, but it will not fall in love with reading with the decline in book prices, and even make people improve their knowledge literacy.
I never think that many people are uneducated, that they don't have money to buy books, but that they don't have time to read, or that they are too lazy to read, or even that reading is useless.
On the contrary, many people try to buy books cheaply, not to read books, but to pretend to be cultural people.
So, putting your hand in the book industry is not just a blasphemy against readers, but also for authors!
Of course, she is just an Internet celebrity, for the traffic, in order to make money, walking in the front of the traffic, that's all.
But drama, there is always a day to end the curtain.
I don't want anyone to be unlucky, I just think that after the drama is over, it's fake!
What do you think about that?