Last week, Huo Qigang posted a photo of accompanying Guo Jingjing to dinner.
It turned out that October 15 was Guo Jingjing's 40th birthday, married for 9 years, Guo Jingjing gave birth to 3 children for Huo Qigang, the eldest son Huo Zhongxi was 7 years old, the second daughter Huo Zhongyan was 4 years old, and the younger daughter Huo Zhongyi was only 2 years old.
Huo Qigang's sense of ceremony is that every year his wife's birthday is only their husband and wife in the world, every year.
Guo Jingjing also never wears a high heel dress to celebrate a birthday, what she usually looks like on this day, the choice of two people and even dishes is very homely.
Steak, mushrooms, roast duck, salmon, no wine, no cake, visually this meal is around a thousand yuan.
Huo Qigang wrote on social media: Unconsciously, it is the 18th time to give you a birthday, I wish you a happy birthday, always 18 years old!
The evaluation is full of positive energy, and everyone says that "the most connotative and low-key person is really rare!" ”
No one will mock them for "the giants are just like this", and everyone is not even willing to say a word except for likes, lest they disturb the lives of this little couple.
You have to say that doing things for people can reach the position of Guo Jingjing Huo Qigang, responding to the saying: Good woman Wang Three Generations!
Now the Huo family has Guo Jingjing, the daughter-in-law, and the fourth generation and the fifth generation are also stable and happy.
Hong Kong's legendary rich man Fok Ying Tung was very poor when he was a child, and his father was a fisherman.
That year, Huo Yingdong's father suffered from cancer and could not go to the ground, and his mother took his two eldest sons out to sea to fish, encountered a typhoon, and the two sons were buried at the bottom of the sea.
Huo Yingdong became the only seedling in the family.
The father could not bear the blow and cried out for his life.
Huo Yingdong's mother, Liu San, an illiterate widow burst out of her amazing perseverance and determination after grief, she took Huo Yingdong ashore and ran to a new unknown life, creating a generation of Legend of Xiangjiang Giants.
From Liu San to Lv Yanni, to Zhu Lingling to Guo Jingjing, Huo Shi has gone through a hundred years to become a top tycoon, and the four generations of hostesses have their own stories, but they all have one thing in common, which is the secret of the rise of the giants!
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Liu San's fate was bumpy.
Huo's ancestral home is Panyu, Guangdong, a place with developed shipping, and many local people have lived by fishing for generations.
But fishermen are at risk, poorly equipped, and it is difficult to survive in the event of an accident.
On the day of the accident, the family could not open the pot, and the outside was already cloudy, and everyone did not dare to go to sea.
At this time, a businessman offered a high price to receive goods, Liu San looked at a small family, sick illness, she gritted her teeth to take this errand, people will win the day did not stage.
This grit of the teeth, lost two sons, one 13 years old and one 11 years old, the bones of the bones did not exist.
Huo Yingdong's father was aggravated by this stimulus and died half a year later.
After handling the funeral, Liu San took Huo Yingdong and his two daughters ashore and lived in a slum.
She didn't admit it!
Poverty plagued them all the time, and Liu San worked day and night.
In the room of more than 20 square meters on shek Shui Qu Street in Wan Chai, divided into the size of a pigeon cage, lived more than fifty people.
Liu San lived here with his children for six years.
In the past six years, I have seen the world hot and cold, sad and happy.
She made a decision to make sure to send her children to school. She always said to Fok Yingdong, "We are very poor now, but as long as we work hard, we will not be poor all our lives." ”
At the age of 13, he was admitted to the famous Huang Jen College and became a classmate of Sun Yat-sen's alumnus and "gambling king" Ho Hung-sun.
Fok Yingdong's excellence shocked many people.
Her mother, Liu San, worked harder and harder, and she felt that she would not earn much money from odd jobs, so she resumed the business of running boats.
Liu San said that credit is heavy commitment, and slowly some old patrons specially handed over the goods to her to transport, and what she could not do was distributed to others to earn commissions from it, and the days gradually got better.
In 1941, when the Pacific War broke out in full swing and the Japanese army invaded Hong Kong, Liu San's business could not be done, and Fok Yingdong's books could not be read.
The family is in trouble again.
Seeing that his mother was at a loss, Huo Yingdong proposed to do coolies to earn money.
For more than ten years, life has been hard, but Liu San has been fully responsible.
In fact, Huo Yingdong could not pick his shoulders and could not lift his hands.
He was always disliked by the foreman for doing hard work, and once almost broke his finger.
He went to learn to repair the car, found that the driver made more money, so he secretly learned to drive, but crashed the car and was fired again.
Liu San knew that the situation had never complained about him, let alone let him be satisfied with the status quo, Liu San always said, "A man who does a good job and does not want to make money is called a man!" ”
For his mother, Huo Yingdong never kept it. He found that the dock where they lived was particularly crowded, but life was not convenient.
He and Liu San discussed, do you want to open a grocery store?
Liu San felt that there was a drama as soon as she heard it, she sold all the valuable things and the funds were still not enough, and she asked all the old patrons to make up money, and everyone cooperated to open this grocery store.
This should be the earliest crowdfunding.
After the grocery store opened, the customers came like clouds, and Huo Yingdong worked very hard, opening the door at 6 o'clock every morning and closing at 10 o'clock at night, and then sorting out the goods, cooking the sauce, and returning home at 12 o'clock.
365 days a year, no matter the wind and rain, every New Year's holiday, he never closed the door, never stopped working.
Years later, Fok Yingdong recalled those days, "That was the best time to exercise business and manage... Developed a tenacious will and perseverance... In those days, I understood that entrepreneurship should strive for the big place, and also be frugal in the small place..."
Four years later, the war ended.
A lot of military supplies were auctioned off, which had nothing to do with the Huo family, who was in the grocery business, but Liu San keenly felt that this was an opportunity.
She sold the grocery store and scraped together a deposit of 100 yuan to give Fok Yingdong the right to participate in the auction.
Huo Yingdong won the bid in one fell swoop, and he sold 40,000 yuan of the target 40,000 yuan to other companies, and made 22,000 yuan at once.
At 22,000 in 1945, Fok Ying Tung was no longer a poor child.
He has already got the entry chips and is about to make a big show.
After that, Liu San chose a wife for Huo Yingdong, Lu Yanni.
The words of parents, the fate of matchmakers.
But Lu Yanni took over the position of her mother-in-law Liu San like a needle in the sea god, stabilizing the big business and not messing up at all.
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What kind of woman is Lu Yanni?
Other tycoons in Hong Kong have more or less had scandals in which wives and concubines compete for favors and concubines compete for property, and only the Huo family's three wives have more than ten children, and the surprising harmony depends on Lu Yanni to preside over the overall situation.
The Lu family and the Huo family are neighbors, Liu San grew up watching Lü Yanni grow up, she is not beautiful but absolutely sharp, fresh-minded, and has a good family.
When she married Huo Yingdong, Huo Yingdong could not see the appearance of the future nobility, and when she got married, Liu San instructed his son: "If you marry her, you will respect her for a lifetime, and the man who is sorry for his wife will not have a good end." ”
Huo Yingdong always remembered his mother's words.
In 1948, Fok Yingdong went to Dongsha Island to do a joint venture with people to do the business of salvaging sea people's grass, and the family's 2-year-old son Huo Zhenting, his mother and daughter and the size of the house were all handled by Lu Yanni.
Huo Yingdong's mother praised Lu Yanni, and in her heart, this daughter-in-law did all her due responsibilities.
His mother's approval made Huo Yingdong respect the woman who silently supported him in the rear.
Lu Yanni had three sons and three daughters.
Huo Yingdong's business is getting bigger and bigger, and the people who come and go are all dragons and phoenixes among people.
He repeatedly stepped on the wind, first monopolizing shipping, then dabbling in real estate, and together with his old friend Ho Hung-sun, he won the Macau gambling card and became a top rich man all the way.
Lu Yanni should be regarded as the legendary Wangfu girl.
Looking back at this process, in the days when Huo Yingdong was working outside, Lu Yanni was either pregnant or just gave birth, and it was easy to take care of this big family.
But at this stage, Huo Yingdong confessed to Lu Yanni that he was in love with someone else.
It was Hong Kong in the 1960s and 1970s, the concubinage system had not yet been abolished, and Fok Yingdong was talking about someone else who was his first love, Feng Jianni.
They grew up young, because their mother Liu San did not like Feng Jianni, so in the end the two chose to marry each other.
After many years of meeting again, Feng Jianni has divorced and lives alone with her son, and Huo Yingdong is already rich and rich in the city.
Fok Yingdong insisted on marrying her, including the son brought by Feng Jianni, who was willing to treat him as his own.
This is true love without a doubt.
After knowing this, Lu Yanni was also sad and disappointed, and she was reluctant to talk to Fok Yingdong for half a year.
Unsurprisingly, the mother-in-law Liu San shot again, when Feng Jianni was the eldest daughter of Huanghua, she did not like it, and now she is even less pleased with the second marriage and children.
Huo Yingdong was embarrassed, at this time It was Lu Yanni who came to talk with Huo Yingdong, and she came forward to do her mother-in-law's work, but Huo Yingdong had to promise not to be like his friend He Hongshen, and the aunt and wife were fighting for favors.
In the end, Huo Yingdong made a rule, only the children born to Lu Yanni can inherit the family business, and other children can divide the family property, but they can only work as doctors, lawyers, teachers and other professions, and never do business!
You try to put yourself in Lu Yanni's place, which is already the best result she can achieve in the big environment at that time.
With the friendship between Fok Yingdong and He Hongshen, the encounter of the He family's big house was definitely clear to Lu Yanni, and Huo Yingdong's status at that time was another concubine, and everything was legal.
This guarantee that Lu Yanni got was already the trump card of the long house.
Later, Huo Yingdong married the third wife, Lin Shuduan. This lady is more low-key, because the Huo family always adheres to a rule, and the long house is respected.
Judging from the characters in the names of the children in the three rooms of the Huo family, Huo Yingdong obviously has different treatment for the children, the sons of the long house use the word "zhen", the sons of the second room use the word "Wen", and the third room is the "xian" generation, so they will quickly type the five words of "you are not the same" on the public screen.
Fok Yingdong also had a very wise choice, he completed the distribution of the estate early.
Two rooms, three rooms compared to long rooms, everyone knows the difference between the two rooms.
Perhaps because she received enough support and respect from her mother-in-law, Lu Yanni passed this love for her juniors to her daughter-in-law Zhu Lingling.
As the long-term daughter-in-law of a rich family, Zhu Lingling has received all the honors and favors that her identity deserves.
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Zhu Lingling came from a wealthy family, but her family was not prominent.
Before Zhu Lingling appeared, Huo Zhenting had talked about several times in love, the objects were all female stars, and the Huo family did not agree.
When Zhu Lingling appeared, Huo Zhenting was 32 years old.
19-year-old Zhu Lingling appeared in the Hong Kong sister beauty pageant, she is well educated, talented, educated, and extremely beautiful and pure, with a healthy temperament, as soon as she took the stage, it caused a sensation.
Huo Yingdong watched the show and sent someone to inquire about Zhu Lingling's background - the family is innocent, well-behaved, healthy, the face of Wangfu Yizi, the eight characters are rich and noble, so, at the suggestion of Fok Yingdong, Huo Zhenting became the guest of honor on the day of the final of the Hong Kong sisters.
Sure enough, Chu Ling Ling won the First Prize and the Most Photogenic Miss Award, becoming the first contestant to win two awards, which caused a sensation in Hong Kong.
Huo Zhenting appeared with a huge flower basket, calming the audience and leaving a mark on the hearts of the beauties.
Huo Zhenting pursued Zhu Lingling with full horsepower, appeared on each set to wait, and finally won the hearts of the beauties.
Zhu Lingling is different from her mother-in-law, when she entered the door, the Huo family was already one of the four major families in Hong Kong.
At that time, Zhu Lingling was only 20 years old, and Huo Jiahao threw a dowry of 10 million yuan to let Zhu Lingling get married.
The wedding is grand and grand.
Many years later, Huo Yingdong admitted that the reason for this operation was because Huo Zhenting did not have much fame at that time, but he needed fame and fame to swim in international affairs, and this wedding was the best time.
Zhu Lingling is the most suitable candidate.
Zhu Lingling gave birth to her eldest son Huo Qigang in the second year after marriage, and then gave birth to three sons in succession, she is the most popular daughter-in-law of the rich.
Zhu Lingling brings her own traffic and attention, she is always decent and calm, smiling and greeting, and she can meet the big leader;
She also came forward to receive the Queen of England.
She was a sincere person, and Huo Zhenting was not worthy of her.
Zhu Lingling lived a life of fine clothes and food, but she was not happy.
On the one hand, the Huo family's family rules are strict, when Huo Qi just went to study abroad, Zhu Lingling also wanted to open a jewelry store abroad, but was rejected by the Huo family on the grounds of "injurious façade".
On the other hand, her husband Huo Zhenting developed a new relationship while going to the mainland to develop his career.
But times have changed.
Zhu Lingling can't stand all this, the rules of the giants are more than she recognizes, but this rule can not only be for women and not for men.
She took her youngest son Huo Qiren out of the Huo family mansion, and the two began to live apart.
At that time, Huo Zhenting was running for an important parliamentarian position, and the separation had a great impact on him.
Huo Yingdong personally came forward to persuade Zhu Lingling.
Zhu Lingling gave enough face, moved back with her son, and still accompanied Huo Zhenting to various public occasions.
Two years later, the situation was settled and she moved away again.
This time it was a real divorce.
However, Zhu Lingling's divorce does not require the separation of family property, she only ended her marriage relationship with Huo Zhenting, but it seems that she is still the most important long-term daughter-in-law of the Huo family.
After the divorce, Zhu Lingling did not say a bad word about the Huo family.
The most gossipy Hong Kong media can't fault her.
Zhu Lingling can do so atmospheric, inseparable from her mother-in-law Lu Yanni.
At that time, Zhu Lingling insisted on divorce, and Lu Yanni said to Zhu Lingling, "It is Huo Zhenting who is sorry for you, it is the Huo family who is sorry for you, so Huo Zhenting will never marry again, we will always only recognize you as a daughter-in-law, of course, we will never use this to prevent you from pursuing new happiness." ”
Zhu Lingling's eyes were tearful, at this time, Lu Yanni continued, "If it is possible, we hope that you will be the eternal daughter-in-law of the Huo family." ”
At Huo Yingdong's funeral, Zhu Lingling presided over the funeral ceremony as a righteous daughter and cried more sadly than anyone else.
This cry is a pattern of etiquette, and it is also an emotion that has been spent with each other for many years.
At the wedding of her son Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing, she attended with a high profile, and at the wedding banquet where VIPs gathered, she still sat at the main table with Huo Zhenting to welcome the guests.
The women of the Huo family are not simple.
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In 2020, Lu Yanni passed away unexpectedly.
She and her husband, Fok Ying Tung, were born in the same year and lived a full 14 years longer than her husband.
In the past hundred years, Lu Yanni has seen all the prosperous scenes, and the original match of several major giants in Hong Kong, the big house of Ho Hung Sun, the original match of Li Ka-shing, most of them are miserable, only Lu Yanni has maintained her dignity throughout her life.
On the day of the funeral, Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing came with their three children to send their great-grandmother on her last journey.
The younger daughter is in the arms of the nanny, may not know what happened, the eldest son Huo Zhongxi is 7 years old, after listening to his relatives, he seems to be able to accept reality.
They don't think, like many families, that children shouldn't be present at such occasions.
On the one hand, it is because Grandma loved her grandchildren before she died, and on the other hand, because Guo Jingjing has never paid attention to rules and etiquette, and she pays more attention to feelings.
When Guo Jingjing gave birth to her eldest son Huo Zhongxi, Lu Yanni still visited the hospital at the age of 90, and she usually attached great importance to Guo Jingjing.
In 2012, Guo Jingjing married into the Huo family, their century wedding lasted 8 hours, cost more than 30 million Hong Kong dollars, as many as 1800 guests, Ho Hung-sun, Jackie Chan and other well-known figures were present, and even the three special capitals of Hong Kong came.
Huo Zhenting's first words at the wedding were:
"Thank you Jingjingxia for marrying our Huo family, this is our blessing."
For Huo Qigang, Guo Jingjing is both his favorite wife and a big game of chess.
Many years ago, there was a saying in Hong Kong, "The Huo family will be the chief executive."
Thinking back to that year, when Hong Kong returned to the motherland, the chief executive became a must-compete position for the prominent figures in the city, and the rich would rather give up the hundreds of billions of transactions than compete for this position.
Someone nominated Fok Ying-tung, but Fok Ying-tung saw it clearly, and he chose to support Tung Chee-hwa.
Instead of becoming a fierce competitor, it is better to follow people and sell a big human relationship.
Today, Huo Qigang, the son of the Huo family, has a face like a crown jade, a calm temperament, full of talent, and a bamboo in his chest.
The combination of him and Guo Jingjing can be called a favorable time and place.
If a rich man wants to become a political figure, he must go down the altar of the gods and go deep into the people, and he must be close to the people and pragmatic, these things are natural for Guo Jingjing.
You will see Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang moving out of the mansion with toilet paper milk powder when they are fighting in the house, and you will also see Huo Qigang visiting the supermarket with his wife after work.
Even two couples work together to carry flour.
If you understand, you will know the significance of Guo Jingjing to the Huo family.
You will also know the weight of Guo Jingjing.
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From Liu San to Guo Jingjing, four generations of women have different identities and different era backgrounds.
They are the best of the contemporary women, and comparing their experiences, it is not difficult to see,
"People have to fight for themselves, and once they make achievements, the whole world will be happy with you."
The four generations of women in the Huo family are a history of women's progress, and you can see how women control life little by little, fight for freedom little by little, and become the key to the success or failure of the situation little by little.
At the same time, you must also see that the progress of the times, "home and everything" from the very beginning is completely entrusted by women to the end of the husband and wife to jointly maintain the stability and prosperity of the small family.
You will know that there is hope for everything by going down!