Society is like a web, and the intertwining points are all composed of nobles, which we call connections. The noble person is the intertwined point of the network. Without nobles, your "net" cannot be stretched.
People will always encounter a lot of noble people in their lives, the so-called noble people refer to the people who give support in your life choices and actions, and help you in some aspects. In the early stage of entrepreneurship, it is difficult to cope with sudden difficulties because of your own weakness, but if you have the help of nobles, then you will definitely add a lot of weight on the road to success.
If a person has the ability, strength, and diligence, but does not meet the nobles who appreciate him, just as a person, although he has traveled through a hard journey to a treasure place, he can only walk around the mountain. Because at this time there was no one to show him the route into the mountain, but if he could meet an immortal at this time, he could take him into the mountain, so that he could be like a tiger and get closer and closer to the treasure.
So in a sense, noble people are a huge asset. If you can catch the nobles, you will create great wealth.
Zeng Xianzi once started a business in Hong Kong with his bare hands, but now he has become the boss of the Jinlilai Group, with a value of hundreds of millions of Hong Kong dollars, although his success is due to his own diligence, but at the same time there is a person who is indispensable - his uncle, uncle is an important nobleman on his road to success.
Zeng Xianzi's father and uncle did business in Thailand in their early years, and later his father died tragically. Business is run by uncles. However, war broke out, resulting in the looting of the Zeng family's property. After the war, his uncle started from the grassroots and continued to do business in Thailand. After a long period of hard work, the business has gradually embarked on a benign development track. Since this time, Zeng Xianzi has been studying in the countryside with his mother and rarely has contact with his uncle.
Later, Zeng Xianzi's brother went to Thailand, and he believed that his uncle's property at this time was the income from the business with his father, so the uncle should return his father's inheritance. The two often quarreled over this matter, and over time the contradictions became deeper and deeper. In order to recover the inheritance from his uncle, his brother urged him to go to Thailand, and soon Zeng Xianzi went to Thailand, and his brother took him to theorize with his uncle, and in the face of the quarrel between his brother and uncle, he always stood aside with shame when he had no intention of competing with his uncle for property. Later, he learned that during the Pacific War, the Zeng family's property was looted, and his uncle's property today was earned by hard work after the war. After Zeng Xianzi learned of this situation, he had no intention of fighting with his uncle for inheritance, and he was even more determined to rely on himself and work hard to start a business. He later returned to Hong Kong to develop.
Because of his abandonment of the inheritance, he left a good impression on his uncle, so before he returned to Hong Kong, his uncle wanted to help him and took the initiative to give him some cloth to make a tie, Zeng Xianzi helped his uncle make a tie of about 900 Hong Kong dollars, but his uncle paid him 10,000 Hong Kong dollars. However, Zeng Xianzi insisted on his principles and did not accept the extra money given by his uncle.
However, soon after returning to Hong Kong, Tsang received another HK$10,000 from his uncle. He also stated that this was a settlement fee for him and his family, hoping that he would accept it. At this time, Zeng Xianzi's family was living in his aunt's house due to poverty, and in this case, Zeng Xianzi accepted the money and told his uncle that he must actively strive to repay his uncle in the future.
So Zeng Xianzi used this money to settle the family degree, and then used all the remaining money as a business start-up fund. However, Zeng Xianzi and his wife in the initial stage were very difficult, and the couple without excess funds could not afford to rent the factory or hire workers, so they could only use the living room of the family as a factory, with one husband and wife responsible for cutting and one responsible for sewing. In order to catch up with work, the couple worked until late at night every day, and then took it out to sell.
The ancients said, "The heavens will descend upon si with great responsibility, and they will first suffer their hearts." Maybe their persistent efforts touched the heavens, and then they finally got through the difficulties and the business development took a turn for the better.
At this time, in order to keep up with the market trend, Zeng Xianzi decided to use Taisi as a tie, so he asked his uncle in Thailand to help purchase. The uncle was also very optimistic about Zeng Xianzi, so he generously helped him many times and purchased about 30,000 Hong Kong dollars of Taisi for him. Sure enough, the tie made of Taisi received a good effect, and the tie made by Zeng Xianzi was finally sold in the department store. In less than two years, Zeng Xianzi made a profit of more than 30,000 yuan. He immediately went to Thailand to pay his uncle back, but the uncle did not ask for the money, but hoped that he could use the money to make his career bigger. But Zeng Xianzi repeatedly insisted on returning the money to his uncle, who had to accept it.
Later, the uncle took the initiative to mortgage some of his assets to help Zeng Xianzi buy Taisi, which alleviated Zeng Xianzi's financial difficulties to a certain extent. Over the years, through his own efforts and the strong help of his uncle, Zeng Xianzi's career has become bigger and bigger, and later the couple founded the well-known "Jinlilai (Far East) Co., Ltd." at home and abroad. Break through the boundaries of single-business tie products and expand to suits, shirts, belts and other fields.
On the road to Zeng Xianzi's success, it is undeniable that his uncle is his nobleman. However, the reason why his uncle became his nobleman was because his uncle saw a normal heart that he maintained in his attitude toward money. It can be seen that keeping a kind and normal heart to treat everyone around you, perhaps many people will become noble people in your life and build a bridge for your success.
As the saying goes, "Seven points of effort, three points of luck." We have always believed that "love to fight to win", but some people's efforts and the final result are often disproportionate. The reason is because of the lack of nobles. In the process of climbing to the peak of the career, the help of noble people is absolutely an indispensable link. Having the help of noble people can make you succeed as soon as possible, and even make you soar and soar.
So how do you find the noble one in your life?
First of all, we must pay attention to the accumulation of your "network", now think back, those who bring more or less opportunities to your life, a large part of them are inadvertently brought to you by the people around you, so you must know how to interact with the people around you and establish a noble base.
The appearance of nobles is beyond our control, and you can't see who will become your nobles in the future, so in the process of getting along with people, "Don't ask others what they can do for us?" And first ask yourself what can you do for others?" Have a sincere heart, seize every opportunity to help others, and keep in touch with others without being too utilitarian. Because maybe someone around you will become your "nobleman" in the future!
Han Xin had two important "nobles" in his life, one was an old woman who washed clothes for others. When Han Xin was poor and destitute, it was this old woman who gave him half of her own food every day, which is also the allusion to the famous "grace of one meal" in history. Han Xin's second nobleman was xiahou Bao, the official who beheaded Him, who saved Han Xin when he was about to be beheaded.
Although these two people did not have the status and prestige of nobility, they both gave help to Han Xin when he was in danger, and it can be said that they were nobles in Han Xin's early life.
Therefore, everyone around you may become your nobleman, do not simply think that only the dignitaries are noble, no matter at any time, under any circumstances, you must pay attention to the people around you, they may become noble people who appreciate you.
However, if you want to be appreciated by your people, you also need to do the following:
First of all, be enterprising. If a noble person wants to help you, then he must first measure whether it is valuable, otherwise it will help you, and you will be muddy all day, regardless of the right thing, which will waste time and energy, and the result will not be effective, then it is not equivalent to the bamboo basket hitting the water empty.
Secondly, you must have a clever mind and let your nobles find your shining point. People often say: "To win, you have to win at the starting line", yes, if you want to win without a stable career and no money, you must make your mind smart, and at the same time you must see the nobles, but also let the nobles discover your value through your wisdom, so as to achieve a win-win situation.
Third, be good at making good friends and alienating friends. A good friend is someone who can perfect your character, improve your cultivation, and enrich your connotation, while a friend who is flattering, speaks frivolously, is arrogant and debauched, and teaches people to do bad things, and this kind of person will not only not bring you help, but will lead you to the evil road. Therefore, if you want to find the "noble people" in your life, you must know how to make friends who are good for you, and stay away from those who have lost friends.
In modern complex social relations, in the face of the barriers constructed by various social relations, the use of the strength of others has become a common need for human development, as the saying goes: "a fence three piles, a good man three gangs" do not understand or are not good at using the strength of others, relying solely on the world alone to break through the world, it is difficult to make great achievements in modern society. Therefore, in the modern complex social development, you must know how to use the method of borrowing your personal wealth, so that you will embark on the road of prosperity.