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In a party, Xiao Liu finally recognized the true face of his colleagues.
From then on, he understood that not everyone was worth giving their hearts.
When encountering bad people, we must resolutely stay away, otherwise those who are wronged will eventually be themselves.
Xiao Liu organized the bureau and called several colleagues who had a good relationship to eat, and the relationship between these colleagues was good, but also because Xiao Liu often organized the bureau, deepening the link between them.
At a dinner party, Xiao Liu heard colleagues turning heads and saying bad things about Xiao Liu, and several colleagues actually wreaked havoc behind their backs.
Xiao Liu turned his face with these colleagues in anger, regretting it too much, he knew this earlier, why should he have done it in the first place. As a result, several colleagues really made a miasma in the unit, and they were also dismissed by the leaders one by one soon after.
The writer Han Han once said: "God gives a mouth to eat, even the rice can not be eaten well, what else can you do well?" ”
The liquor bureau is the social bureau, eating with colleagues, people with these 3 performances, less interaction, otherwise the pit is you!
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Goethe said, "A man's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait." ”
In the meal, people who always turn their heads and ears and do not care about the feelings of those around them are undoubtedly not worth interacting with.
This kind of people have low emotional intelligence, do not understand the sophistication of human feelings, and like to fly and camp dogs the most in the unit, do not do the right thing, and use "play politics" as a means, but they do not know how to work hard.
Just like Xiao Liu's friends, it seems that they are all friends, as if they have a heart in the unit, in fact, they have their own abacus, and several people get together, not a team of common will, but a game of you and me.
In the dinner, not turning heads and ears and not telling small secrets is the most basic courtesy to the people present, and it is also the most basic embodiment of emotional intelligence.
When there are always people around you who like to be at the dinner table, drink some wine, start to pull the people around you, start to reveal the little secrets, one day your little secrets will be shaken out, and it is you who suffers.
Writer Jia Pingwa said: "Once people arrive at the table, in the eyes of high people, they are already naked. ”
Your every move, your little abacus, in fact, as early as the eyes of the high people, do not play a little clever in public, this is the really excellent person, the most basic etiquette.
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In the book "Journey to India", it is said that "he eats, eats, ”
He was a knowledgeable professor with a wretched face.
Many people in the workplace are like this, selfish, in the process of dealing with people, they are stingy and pick the door, and they always have only themselves in their hearts and cannot let go of others.
Xiao Wang has met such a person, every time the unit has dinner, Xiao Wang always thinks of the colleague who often greets him, and the colleague also gladly accepts.
At the beginning of the dinner, Xiao Wang still paid on time for the AA system, and then Xiao Wang always refused, even if he participated in the banquet, he did not pay, and when he was about to pay the money, he found an excuse to leave.
This kind of greedy and cheap behavior was soon widely spread in the unit, and the colleague's figure did not appear again at the dinner, and he was isolated.
People who like to rub food and drink are not worthy of deep friendship, they always consider things according to their own interests, and selfishness is synonymous with them.
In the book "How to Establish Good Popularity", it is written: Human popularity is like an echo, what you send out, it will send back, what you sow, you will reap.
The more intelligent people are, the more they understand the principles and bottom lines of dealing with the world, the more they understand the measures between people, and the more they will understand the truth of "giving up" and "getting".
There is such a sentence in "Youlan Cao": "Cooperation is like an orchid, and its fragrance is promoted; it is admired and admired, and it is a win-win situation." ”
People are mutual. Helping others is helping oneself, and mutual benefit can lead to win-win results.
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As the saying goes, "Man has no faith and does not stand, and his karma has no faith and does not prosper." ”
Many people in the dinner, the "untrustworthy" embodiment vividly, either arbitrarily break the appointment, let colleagues and friends fall short; or late and early departure, self-centered.
Over time, people are no longer willing to deal with people who have no credibility, and such people will always be the first to be forgotten about dinner.
Old people often say, "Listen to what he says, and watch his deeds." ”
The most obvious thing about a person's character is whether he can do simple things reliably.
People who even casually break the contract with the small matter of eating are often more unreliable in doing things, and dealing with such people will sooner or later suffer losses.
Some people say: A slap does not make a sound. When you meet such a person, you must reflect on your own shortcomings.
I would like to say that people are different from each other, and flowers have different kinds of red.
Not everyone is worth associating with, and not everyone is of high moral character.
But what we can choose is to associate with a person of high moral character, so that we will become better and better.
China's wine culture has a long history, "no wine, no table", the liquor bureau, is also the best place to show yourself.
In the book "Whether you have a good time or not, you will know if you have a meal", there is a sentence that says:
In the workplace and the business field, people inevitably wear a layer of caution, and the meal is the time when a person is most relaxed and unable to disguise.
Good popularity, not innate, good popularity, not money to buy.
Whether the popularity is good or not is reflected in the sparse and ordinary meal, it is reflected in the social network of pushing cups and changing cups, and the character is accumulated by oneself.
In the usual meal, try to be an excellent person and really win the respect of others.
Today's topic: What do you do when there is only one glass of wine left on the liquor store? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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