For women, is marriage a foothold that can be established, or a bottomless abyss?
I think that to find the most appropriate answer, you can only experience it yourself, in order to truly read a woman's heart.
From knowing and loving each other to entering the palace of marriage, this may be what every woman looks forward to most deeply: "get married and stay together for a lifetime."
The road ahead is for two people to move forward hand in hand, no matter the wind and rain, not to abandon, is the best interpretation of marriage, because love meets, and because of commitment to keep.
This may seem like a very beautiful thing, but as time goes on, this group of once simple little girls has suddenly become old girls, and they have gradually begun to awaken.
Living in the country of men, let them live like a thin ice, but also bored with the current life, they began to yearn for respect, is eager to realize their own value, this time they decided to change, with their own meager strength to defend their position.
"The Woman Who Escaped" is such a film about "how women achieve self-awakening", and director Hong Shangxiu has really entered the hearts of women, and he has substituted himself into it to pursue the real needs of women.
This film is also the story in the form of dialogue, the plot is like a cup of boiled water, the first taste may feel dull and tasteless, but the more you taste it, the more sweet you will find, which may be the charm of director Hong Shangxiu.
This film is extremely ironic, hierarchical and progressive processing, reflecting the relationship between women and men from three female exchanges, in the film, you will also find that the world of men and women is upside down.
When women are alone, men are kept out of the door and you can barely see them in the same space, and the women in the room are always talking about men.
Men outside the house, on the other hand, always want to condescend to intrude into the world of women, in their world, women are accessories, they are needed all the time, and thus conclude that they are inseparable from themselves.
In the space where women are alone, after they stop talking about men, the whole atmosphere becomes relaxed and they come alive.
The women who fled are also the real descriptions of this group of women, and when they fled and found the most suitable space, they really found themselves
And the heroine is such an escaped woman, she visited three friends and talked about her married life.
Several of the other protagonists are also women who have escaped, and everyone makes a choice in the marriage. The first nameless separation, the second nominal separation, the third nominal and real separation, just like the three states of singleness, when there is a problem with emotions, what choice should the heroine make?
She always repeats a few words: "I think, I am happy, my husband and I have never been separated when we got married", and the heroine has always emphasized that not separating is true love.
On the surface, the heroine lives a happy and satisfying life, but in fact, she can't tell whether what she is saying now is true or false, she is stating that her feelings with her husband are indestructible, and she is asking, should such a love life come to an end?
The heroine is lonely, constantly weaving her own happiness, she expresses her life to people over and over again, and at the same time, her tangled heart wants to escape, no one knows her story, and no one knows the reason why she wants to escape.
She is also in constant communication with friends, and she also sees three, potential, different versions of herself in three people.
Essentially they are the same, both escaping from the man's world. For the heroine, she saw a ray of hope in her friend.
After the first friend escapes, it shows how a woman lives alone after losing her marriage, just like after experiencing a big dream, she suddenly realized it.
Her story symbolizes the self, how a woman finds herself in a failed marriage, and at the same time, has the courage to face the unknown life.
And the marriage of the second friend, although it has died in name only, is facing a collapse. However, she is comfortable and comfortable, and her story also conveys an idea to the heroine, if you want to continue, even if your life is bad, you have to smile and face it.
The story of this woman also reveals the real women who, for various reasons, have not been able to completely escape the world of men.
Some of them are for their children, their families and some for themselves, no matter what, these reasons hinder their inability to make decisive choices, and they can only live in this step-by-step manner, which may not be a good choice, but for them, the current life can also be wonderful.
One of the most special is the third woman, her husband is the heroine's ex-boyfriend, there is such a layer of entanglement, the heroine still chose to face it calmly.
After a brief reminiscence with her love rival, she was also thinking, if she had been with her ex-boyfriend at that time, would she have become a person like her and become a famous writer?
But with a deeper understanding of each other, the heroine finally denied her own thoughts, the original self-departure is the best decision, the ex-boyfriend is vain and selfish, such a person is also unacceptable to her.
The third woman is more like the heroine herself, seemingly gorgeous life, but in fact, it has long been full of holes.
The three women symbolize the state of mind of the heroine, she sees hope in these three choices, but also sees the future self, each choice corresponds to a different life, which also means that the heroine's choice is particularly important.
What does she really need in this marriage, and for what is she fleeing for?
At the end of the story, the heroine has also made a choice, she seems to have truly read the marriage, realized that a momentary escape, will not let herself relax, on the contrary, it will become heavier, perhaps, the escape is only the heart.
"The woman who escapes is escaping from her own life, not as a visitor but as a breaker, to make marriage choices, and to make her own real inner choices."
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