At this age, I see more and more gray hair, and the trend of "local support for the central government" is becoming more and more obvious. Usually thanks to glasses, some wrinkles are covered, but every time you take off your glasses, the wrinkles on your face are in full view!
The blade of time will carve your face into the shape of your age!
As we age, so do the titles. When I was young, I was called uncle by children, and at that time I was still wondering: Am I that old? Later, when going out on a tour, the little tour guide shouted brother in the voice of three + signs with sugar content. Later, he was shouted by various people such as sales ladies, tour guides, sales clerks, and hotel waiters, without any compliments at all. Sometimes even just after answering the phone, the other party opens his mouth and shouts uncle, hey, the original voice can also betray me! Later, when I went to kindergarten, I was shouted by a group of dolls in a childish voice, "Grandpa is good!" I was dumbfounded!
As you go on the journey of years, you need to accept one age-matching title after another.
In order to resist facial aging, there are half-old Xu niangs who are busy doing nursing care and even plastic surgery. The face can be forgiven, but the vicissitudes you have experienced, the injuries you have suffered, and what you think and think are all printed on your cheeks, reflected in your eyes, engraved in the depths of your soul, and can never be deleted, cannot be smoothed out.
Look at the babies again, they have not been in the world, and there is no dirt or dust in their hearts. Their eyes, like a clear lake, are clean, innocent, transparent, revealing their intelligence and charm. So, faces, expressions, and words can be disguised, and the eyes will completely betray your age!
Walking on the road of years, what you lose is delicate skin, and what you get is the heart of vicissitudes.
Years can also change a person's mentality, in the face of the past to think that unfair things, slowly become indifferent; people who are difficult to accept, you can also drink wine; in the past, you will think that you can be passionate, but also become light.
Attending a wedding with a colleague and seeing his expression of envying the young man's marriage, I said you can also make up a wedding photo, he said that when he was twenty years old, he bought a six- or seven-year-old toy, do you think it makes sense?
In fact, in ancient poems, there are also hard descriptions of the mentality of people of different ages: "Teenagers listen to rain songs upstairs, and red candles are dim." In the prime of life, listening to the rain in the passenger boat, the river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind. And now listening to the rain monks, the sideburns have been stars also. Sorrow and joy are always merciless, and before a term of office, it drips until dawn. ”
What a stark contrast! The joy of youth, the vicissitudes of middle age, the enlightenment of old age, at a glance!
The loss of years is often accompanied by the aging of appearance, the vicissitudes of the soul, the change of mentality, and the loss of romantic feelings. In the journey of the years, we must maintain a grateful heart, always have compassion, and face the changes in the world calmly!
The future is unpredictable, the future is unpredictable, and the best time is actually the present!