She was the Hong Kong actress who jin yong called the most like "little dragon girl" before Li Ruotong.
Her love history is colorful, there are men and women among lovers, Chow Yun Fat once lost control" because of her, Andy Lau never forgot her, and now at the age of 60, she is alone.
If you can't stay in a hurry, you may wish to slow down a little, there is a story waiting for you.
Hello everyone, I'm Deer Nan
Today, I would like to talk to you about the story of Chen Yulian, the "Little Dragon Girl".
Born in 1960 in Tiu Kwang Ling, Hong Kong, Chen Yulian lived with more than 100 children in addition to her five siblings.
The more than 100 children are all students studying nearby, and because the family is relatively poor, the mother will wash and cook for these children to subsidize the expenses.
Some of the parents of these children will bear the cost of living, and some of them will be poor at home, and those who cannot afford money will also provide them with food and housing.
Life is a bit tight, but there are a group of friends playing together every day, chen Yulian never feels bitter.
Although Chen Yulian is sensible and well-behaved, reading is a headache for her, because she is good-looking and her grades are not ideal, and she often goes to the magazine where her eldest sister works to take fashion photos.
Chen Yulian never dreamed of being an actress when she was a teenager, and the day she took fashion photos for the magazine was the closest she was to the entertainment industry.
As for why he finally embarked on the road of actors, it was all because of the encouragement of the eldest sister.
In 1977, 17-year-old Chen Yulian, with the support of her eldest sister, was successfully admitted to the TVB Artist Training Class, and became the sixth batch of students with Lu Liangwei, Liao Weixiong and others.
Her father, who was from the military, was more rigid in his thinking, and although he was a little annoyed, he finally respected his daughter's decision.
Father Chen was worried that his daughter, who grew up in the countryside, would learn badly when she entered this circle, so he stayed at the top of the mountain every day and waited for Chen Yulian to leave work and walk home for half an hour together.
After graduation, he officially signed a contract with TVB under the recommendation of director Tan Jiaming, and then starred as a mental patient in a short drama.
However, the first work did not make Chen Yulian a hit, but with her own pure and stubborn temperament, she still got the recommendation of TVB.
At this time, there was a young man in the company, who starred in more than 30 TV dramas and 10 movies in 3 years, but he was still lonely and unknown.
Chen Baolian, who has just debuted, will meet and fall in love with this man named Zhou Runfa a year later.
In 1978, Chen Yulian played a female secretary in the TVB drama "Tycoon", and Chow Yun Fat was also involved.
Before that, the two had a relationship at a banquet, and in the process of cooperation with "Tycoon", Zhou Runfa became more and more fond of Chen Yulian.
Just when he was undecided, a rich man ran to the crew with a valuable gift prepared and confessed to Chen Yulian in front of the whole crew.
This scene made Zhou Runfa confused, and he could not be shy, so he held a bouquet of red roses that night and expressed his heart to Chen Yulian.
And Chen Yulian also had a good feeling for the tall and handsome young man in front of her, so the two handsome men and women who had already had feelings for each other came together.
Years later, Wen Bixia, who had intersected with them, recalled: "At that time, they were young and beautiful, a handsome and dashing one, and Zhou Runfa often sent Chen Yulian home and looked at the back of them walking together, like a picture scroll. ”
It can be seen how well the two are matched, it is simply a pair of golden children and jade girls created by heaven and earth, perhaps because of the blessing of love, which makes Zhou Runfa's career more and more prosperous after love.
Chen Yulian has reduced her work, in order to protect this beautiful love, Chen Yulian deliberately faded out of the show business circle, perhaps compared to the career, she is more eager for the warmth of the family.
But what Zhou Runfa couldn't imagine was that the love at first sight for Chen Yulian needed him to spend a lifetime to pay it off, and he almost took his life because of it.
In 1982, it was reported that a man was drinking dish soap at home and was rescued after several hours of rescue, the man named Zhou Runfa.
It turned out that when the two were ready to talk about marriage, Zhou Runfa's mother said that she did not like Chen Yulian very much, and coupled with the fact that the two gathered less and left more, it also made this relationship lighter.
Chen Yulian saw that Zhou Runfa was torn between love and affection and knew that there was no hope, so she proposed to break up, and the unwilling Fa Brother tried to reunite many times, but chen Yulian refused.
The pressure of work, coupled with the dilemma of family affection and love, made Zhou Runfa collapse, and in the middle of the night he carried a bottle of dish soap that did not know how many pounds to Lian Mei's apartment, only to see a few bottles of gollum to see the bottom.
Fortunately, his move was discovered in time and he was immediately sent to the hospital for rescue, which did not cause irreparable damage.
During his hospitalization, Chen Yulian took care of Zhou Runfa incomprehensibly, until he fully recovered and quietly left.
Zhou Runfa's practice further strengthened Chen Yulian's determination to break up, and when he made another request for a reunion at the hospital, Lian Mei refused.
She said that she knew that Zhou Runfa was a person who was very filial to her mother, and if they continued to be together, it was bound to go against Zhou Runfa's mother's wishes, and the marriage that was not recognized by her relatives would not be happy for a long time.
Chen Yulian's words made Zhou Runfa understand that they would never go back to the past, and the stupid things he did also strengthened his determination to break up with the other party.
This 5-year-long relationship also came to an end, Chen Yulian also loved, but Zhou Runfa made her feel threatened.
However, Chen Yulian's departure did not make Fa Ge stop his madness, and a month after the breakup, Zhou Runfa and Yu An'an were lightning married.
But Yu An'an is only a passer-by in Zhou Run's fate after all, and Fa Ge has always been plagued by scandals, and when filming Xu Anhua's "Love in the City", he had a scandal with the famous actress Miao Qianren.
However, this is not the first time that Fa Ge and Miao Qianren have been rumored to be ambiguous, as early as their debut, the two were called "screen lovers" by the outside world.
Such rumors obviously made Yu An'an, who was in his early 20s, unacceptable, so the two often quarreled, and it was rumored that Yu An'an had been thrown out of the house twice by Zhou Runfa.
In the end, after the two were together for 10 months, from friends to the palace, The marriage of Yu An'an and Zhou Runfa ended in divorce.
Perhaps in the darkness of the heavens, Zhou Runfa met Chen Huilian, who was only one word away from Chen Yulian.
It has been more than thirty years together, and although there are no children, the two are still very affectionate.
Some people say that Zhou Runfa gave the purest love to Chen Yulian, the worst self to Yu An'an, and the eternity to Chen Huilian.
Fa Ge once said that Chen Yulian was a beautiful dream for him, and he felt that trying to give up his life was like a dream, but the time of recollection was still beautiful, and he never regretted the decision at that time.
In 1983, Chen Yulian starred in the most classic role of her acting career, Mr. Jin Yong's martial arts drama "Divine Eagle Hero", in which she played the little dragon girl who does not eat human fireworks.
Although the little dragon girl played by Li Ruotong and Liu Yifei was also widely loved by the audience, Mr. Jin Yong felt that the most satisfied with the little dragon girl was Chen Yulian.
He once said: "Chen Yulian is the closest to the original xiaolongnü. ”
It can be seen that Mr. Jin Yong's evaluation of Chen Yulian is high, but how much weight this sentence is unknown, it seems that Mr. Jin Lao's evaluation of the heroine of each of his works is such an evaluation.
Although the 83rd edition of "Divine Eagle Hero" is not as well-made as the scenes and costumes of the later versions, perhaps because of Chen Yulian's cold temperament and moving wind and bones, she has been shocked without powder, it is almost like coming straight out of the book.
Therefore, this version is Mr. Jin Yong's favorite version, and it is also the white moonlight in the minds of movie fans.
However, there is one thing to say, Andy Lau's yang Guo played in this drama is really a bit black and fat.
It is also this time of cooperation that makes the lively and cheerful Andy Lau involuntarily like Chen Yulian, others want to finish work early, only Andy Lau is looking forward to going to work all the time in order to get along with Chen Yulian more.
When on the set, Andy Lau racked his brains to find a way to tease Chen Yulian, just to win the hearts of the beauties, and his purpose was also achieved, Chen Yulian was amused by her to smile and smile every day.
Unfortunately, Chen Yulian liked mature and stable people, not people who needed to take care of themselves, and Andy Lau was still too young at that time.
Later, when Chen Yulian performed on stage, Andy Lau also knelt on one knee and presented flowers for her, which shows that Andy Lau has always been obsessed with her.
He said that Chen Yulian's beauty does not belong to the lively metropolis, her beauty is idyllic, without any aggression, making people feel very comfortable, she is as fresh and beautiful as the fairy Xiafan, not stained with red dust, do not eat fireworks, in their own small world with the world without dispute.
Later, In an interview, Andy Lau also generously admitted that he really admired Chen Yulian at that time.
In 1984, Chen Yulian wore a wedding dress she made herself and married Chen Chaowu, a Chinese businessman who had not known her for a long time.
It turned out that Chen Chaowu was introduced to Chen Dianxia shortly after Chen Yulian and Zhou Runfa broke up, and Chen Yulian, who had just broken up, naturally did not agree to him.
But in the end, the spirited woman was afraid of pestering, and a few months later, Chen Yulian also wanted to erase the memories of the previous relationship through a new relationship, and in the face of Chen Chaowu, who was bent on pursuing herself, Lian Mei finally compromised.
After marriage, Chen Yulian followed her husband to move abroad, but the moon in foreign countries was not relatively round, because her education was not high, and Chen Yulian, who had just arrived abroad, was often discriminated against by local overseas Chinese because she spoke a lame English.
Later, she really couldn't swallow this breath, and directly replied: "I don't know English, so do you understand Chinese?" You don't understand Chinese and what right do you have to laugh at me, you Chinese. ”
Sometimes discrimination often comes from your own inferiority, even your own people look down on your own people, and who can you expect to look up to?
In addition, due to the relationship between work, Chen Yulian often needs to return to Hong Kong to go to various crews, and the couple has a long-term separation and their married life is not satisfactory.
Lack of running-in, lack of sufficient understanding of each other, contradictions gradually appear, the two argue more and more time.
By 1992, the eight-year marriage had finally come to an end in a growing strife that ended in divorce.
In 1994, Chen Yulian met the advertising director Cai Meishi at a private party, which was a terrible party, and all of them were big beauties with different temperaments.
A year after the party ended, the news of Lian Mei and Cai Meishi's love affair went away, and the two began to live together in Saigon.
This Cai Meishi is also a strange woman, in addition to Chen Yulian, there have been scandals with Lin Yilian later.
In 2005, because of mutual understanding and respect, Chen Yulian and Cai Meishi ended the 11-year relationship.
Since marrying Chen Chaowu until breaking up with Cai Meishi for more than a decade, Chen Yulian has hardly had any contact with her family.
Just as the so-called "son wants to raise and does not wait", Chen Yulian's approach made her father once think that her daughter was no longer alive.
Two years after breaking up with Cai Meishi, Chen Yulian began to practice with her hair, no longer having any expectations for love and marriage.
In the years since then, Chen Yulian has almost always been present in poor areas such as Yun, Gui, and Sichuan in China, and she has begun to devote herself to public welfare undertakings.
During this period, she received almost no donations, and all the expenses and donated supplies were with her own and her friends' money.
In 2008, Master encouraged her to go to the red dust again to check her cultivation achievements over the years and see what had changed in the outside world.
So Chen Yulian, who has been in the film for 14 years, returned to the spotlight again and co-starred with Liu Songren in "Originally In Love with a Thief".
Because of the reasons for her practice, Chen Yulian asked that she could not kiss, hug, or have intimate scenes when filming, which caused TVB's dissatisfaction.
In 2020, fans specially held a 60th birthday party for Chen Yulian, although it has reached the age of Jiazi, the figure of Chen Yulian in the photo is as slender as before, still has an extraordinary temperament, but it is less cold when she was young, more approachable, and people can't help but want to be closer.
For Chen Yulian, when she was a child, her parents' love for boarding children made her feel deeply at a young age, so she has always had compassion.
Later, in the entertainment industry, there were ups and downs and emotional twists and turns, so Chen Yulian would finally choose to give up fame and fortune, no longer hope for love, nor hope for marriage, to pursue her own "cultivation path".
Chen Yulian is a very self-centered, self-assertive woman, in a relationship, men often like women to change according to their own ideas, hoping that women can run into their own personality.
Most of the time, it is often women who choose to compromise, and Chen Yulian's intransigence has also created a tragedy for her and Zhou Runfa.
Some people may feel that Chen Yulian was sad in her later years, there were men and women in several love histories, but now she is alone, but she does not need to worry about marriage, love and work.
People's life is not necessarily for the house, work and love, the most important thing is to understand what they want.
Chen Yulian is not as unbearable as outsiders think, she is just doing what she likes.
There is a saying called is hard to eat, people are difficult to do, life in the world can not help themselves, in fact, it is easy to be a person, but it is difficult to be yourself.