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You who have a goal really make people laugh off their teeth

author:Shen Bing

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Hi everyone, I'm Vest Line writer Shen Bing.

1. 2020 is the year I hit the most face

In 2020,

I accomplished a lot of goals,

I also did a lot of face punching.

For example, I accomplished these things:

Renovated a new house he bought;

Renovated the old house for his parents;

The new book "Detonating the Power of Writing" is on the list;

Deeply read 200 books and did the work of lecturing;

Study of fat loss and shaping,

Slimming from 53kg to 47kg in 2 months,

With the gilet line;

Made a 200 fat loss meal;

Quietly received a marriage license.

But my career was delayed.

From June-October 2020,

The article is no more,

The video was not filmed,

The curriculum was not developed,

The company's basic 0 profit,

Because I install 2 houses at the same time,

There is no time to work;

Later I said take everyone to fitness punch card for 100 days,

As a result, the decoration moved things and sprained the waist,

It can only be quietly raised for 3 months.

I'm skinny,

But I promised to shoot videos and practice for everyone but I didn't do it.

It's a slap in the face!

I was particularly reluctant to admit it before:

"My energy is limited" thing.

Until I read the book "Willpower",

I admit it.

For I cannot exist contrary to objective facts,

No one is Superman,

There are limits to what can be accomplished,

Sometimes life will even add fuel to your vinegar.

Looking back at the annual target for 2019,

I actually wrote 10 huge goals,

Examples include:

Write 2 high-quality books every year and sell 1 million copies;

Develop 5 blockbuster courses every year and sell 50 million sales;

Intensive reading of 365 books per year and writing reading notes;

Write 365 quality articles per year;

……

Goals like this,

I wrote 10 to myself,

The end result?

Pia Pia punched in the face.

I'm not an inefficient person.

After all, I once completed it in a year:

Developed 3 courses and sold 30 million sales

Completed 120,000 words of book writing,

Insist on fitness for 1.5H a day,

Stick to the 200 fat-loss meals

Lead the Haozan team from 0 to 1000W annual revenue.

Even so I,

In 2020, Pia pia still punched in the face,

The reason why it is important is that "there is no goal".

everyman

Randomly set goals,

The price is just "living a chicken feather".

And as the founder of a company,

The price is not just "living in one place",

He also nearly broke the company.

Unfortunately,

Yesterday I also saw a student "Xiao Jia" (pseudonym),

Wrote the "2021 Dream List",

It's the same as me before,

There are 12 goals written in it,

And it's not small,

Like what:

Achieve an annual salary of 100W in 2021,

Travel to 24 countries,

Read 100 good books,

Learn to manage money,

Looked at this list of dreams

I laughed at the screen,

It was as if I had seen myself yesterday.

Really a little worried about her stepping on the pit.

So

Want to give yourself,

I also want to tell "Little Jia" the "Buffett Story".

2. Buffett and the story of employees

A few days ago, I saw such a true story on Weibo:

Mike Flint was a private pilot for Buffett for 10 years.

To help Mike clarify his career goals,

Buffett asked Mike to do 3 things:

1. Write down 25 long- or short-term goals;

2nd, prioritize the targets, leaving only the 5 most important;

Third, think about how to deal with the remaining 20 goals.

You who have a goal really make people laugh off their teeth

(Shen Bing| Cat Sister's target list example)

Mike practiced and pondered and replied:

The first 5 are my most important goals,

The remaining 20 followed,

I will complete these 5 tasks,

Take the time to complete another 20.

At this time, Buffett's expression was slightly solemn and said:

No, you're mistaken!

Before completing these 5 goals,

You will flee like a plague,

Dodge the remaining 20 targets.

This is the famous 5/25 anti-distraction rule.

Now let's reflect on the list of goals of "Xiao Jia" and my students,

10 large goals,

How ridiculous.

Man's energy is so limited,

And we're still allowing "chores" to distract us.

So when setting goals, keep in mind:

Select the 5 most important goals at the moment,

In order to step into the positive cycle of "always doing the right thing".

As Pareto put it:

The most critical few things,

Can achieve most of the benefits for us.

Less is more,

Learning to make trade-offs means better results,

Wanting everything means getting nothing.

3. Ensure the successful completion of the goal

But I also want to ask you a more heartfelt question:

Even if the target is reduced to 5,

Can you do all 5 of them?

I don't think that's necessarily true.

Many students' flags will fall every year.

In recent years, at the end of each year,

The Internet will set off a wave of "customized annual goals",

Then in March of the following year, the discussion began:

1/3 of this year has passed,

The students who had not yet acted raised their hands.

The comment areas of major websites are crowded with:

Raise your hand to blame your baby.

This states:

Not only do people not set goals,

And I don't know how to ensure the successful completion of the goal.

Regarding the method of ensuring the successful completion of the objectives,

I think best-selling author Sharma's approach is the best.

She said:

In 90 days,

In the first 90 minutes of each weekday,

Focus on doing the 1 most important thing,

That's how progress can be made.

This is the 90/90/1 rule.

For example:

I have identified the 5 most important goals at the moment:

Reading, writing, video, lecturing, fitness.

Of these 5 goals,

I think the most important thing at the moment is to read books,

Then I should be in the last 3 months,

Do the "reading" thing for the first 90 minutes of every day.

I did this practice for the first 3 months.

The final result is:

3 months of intensive reading of 50 books,

And wrote a lecture manuscript to explain.

presently

3 days to listen to the book column to complete the update,

The 365-day listening column is also about to be launched,

It looks like the results are still good.

About goal management,

There are two rules to keep in mind:

The 5/25 rule can help you make sure your goals are correct.

The 90/90/1 rule can help you make sure you're making progress on your goals.

Today's sharing is here~

See you tomorrow, good night!