Many people after reading the title, may think that such a person, must be a person who is not easy to get along with, must be a bad temper, a bad personality, even no morality, or is recognized as the most difficult person to get along with, if we can also get along well with such a person, but also with such a person for an afternoon, it shows that we are very mature.
Why? Because if a person is not mature, getting along with such a person will definitely quarrel and even fight, and only mature people can hold their breath, tolerate each other, tolerate each other, otherwise how to spend an afternoon with him?
You know, with a person you don't like, a person who is very disgusted, a person who is very annoying, staying for a second, you feel tormented, uncomfortable, and even goosebumps, but you have to stay for an afternoon, it is better to kill him, that is torture him, and this kind of torture is very painful.
But then again, many people are really with some people who are very difficult to get along with, exercise their perseverance and temper, once young, love to lose their temper at every turn, and even fight with their hands and feet, you see how many people out of society, get along with all kinds of people in society, there will always be some people they don't like, looking at the people who are a bag, aren't they all coming? Haven't many people become mature in society today?
It can be seen that if a person is willing to get along with some people with bad character and very bad character, it is a kind of exercise for himself, and his soul will be sublimated. Just like some people find a very bad wife, but they also get along well, and they have become very tolerant, this is a kind of growth and maturity.
Speaking of which, if you don't think much of the above analysis, you may wish to read yasunari Kawabata's quotations together, and say when you can spend an afternoon with such a person, indicating that you have matured! The text is as follows:
When you can spend an afternoon with an old man and listen with great interest to his wonderful or un wonderful life story, it shows that you have matured. ——Yasunari Kawabata #Yasunari Kawabata Quotes #
After reading this quotation by Yasunari Kawabata, it can be said that it is also very reasonable, most immature people do not have the patience to listen to the nagging of the elderly, because people love to nag in their old age, like to talk about their past, or some truth. From Yasunari Kawabata's quotation, if we don't feel that they are nagging when we face our grandparents, or do not feel that they are nagging in the face of our parents, it also shows a truth, that we are mature.
And a mature person can be interested in listening to the story of the old man, and can also absorb some experiences that are beneficial to himself, because everyone's story and experience are like an interesting book, as long as you listen with your heart and understand with your heart, you will gain a lot.
This truth, like a general who can fight, cannot always sum up his own experience of defeat, but also learn from the experience of others' defeat in order to stand in an invincible position. If we are not interested in the life of others that are not wonderful, the life of failure, it is difficult for us to grow and mature.
Today, I have the honor to read such a quotation as Yasunari Kawabata with you, and we will use this quotation to analyze it in more depth, discuss it, and reflect on it.
Carnegie also said, "The first step toward maturity should be to dare to take responsibility." When we live in the world, we have to face many responsibilities in life. For those who are immature, they can always find some reason to relieve themselves of certain shortcomings or misfortunes. It is important to transform people's lives for the better, rather than indulging in the abyss of self-pity. Take responsibility for the consequences of your actions and take responsibility for your actions, not just kick the chair! ”
Yes, each of us has many responsibilities in life, patience with the elderly, but also a responsibility, patience to listen to them, listen to them, and do what is right, wrong, do not insist on saying the elderly, criticizing the elderly, this is also a kind of filial piety.
You see people in our era, are busy making money, on the other side of the patience to listen to their parents, listen to their parents, even with their parents for an afternoon feel very difficult, even with their parents to eat a meal, are very little, unless the New Year, all year round, will also return to the countryside to gather with their parents, which is also a very happy thing for their parents, but we could have done better, but because of various excuses to delay, we are also shirking our responsibility for the company of the elderly. People with hearts can go back to the countryside to accompany their parents on weekends and listen to their parents' nagging, why can't you do it?
Yasunari Kawabata: When you can spend an afternoon with such a person shows that you have matured