Episode 1. 100,000 dowries and 100,000 dowries
Zhao Yiyi and Du Yuan's love has been talking for 8 years, but Du Yuan has not yet expressed the intention of getting married, no matter how Zhao Yiyi explicitly hints, Du Yuan's reaction is always hippie smiley face quip: Why are you afraid that I will not marry you?
New Year's Zhao Yiyi returned home, Zhao Father Zhao Mother asked about her marriage again, after all, she is a girl in her 30s, and she must have an explanation if she succeeds. Zhao Yiyi decided to have a good talk with Du Yuan, because she couldn't wait any longer, and if there was no result, then break up.
Du Yuan actually does not want to get married, but getting married means buying a house, which means having to give a dowry, where he comes from so much money, his parents and sisters are farming, and it really can't help anything.
One weekend a year later, Zhao Yiyi made a few specialties in her and Du Yuan's rental house, bought a dozen beers, and she said she wanted to talk to Du Yuan, and Du Yuan knew that she couldn't hide.
Zhao Yiyi said: Du Yuan, let's talk about it, do you have any plans to get married, if you have, give me a specific time, no, I have packed my luggage, today I will move away, let's break up.
Du Yuan saw the two large suitcases that had been packed up in the direction of Zhao Yiyi's fingers, and he was shocked in his heart, he did not expect that Zhao Yiyi was real this time.
Du Yuan said: I also want to get married, but you also know that my parents have no money, and the company has just started.
My savings over the past few years have been invested, I don't want to wronged you, you wait for me for two more years?
Zhao Yiyi said: I am more than 30 years old, I can't wait, the house can not be bought for the time being, but our family needs a dowry of 100,000, this is your respect for me, our family will also pay 100,000 dowry. Also, my parents said they would break up this year without getting married, and I think they were right.
Du Yuan whispered: "There is no dowry of 100,000 yuan."
Zhao Yiyi said: What do you say?
Du Yuan said: I didn't say anything, I told my parents. In fact, the main reason why Du Yuan was willing to tell his parents was that Zhao Yiyi said that his family would pay a dowry of 100,000 yuan. His company is running out of money that.
The next day, Du Yuan called Du Yuan, wanting to take apart the right amount of silver to pretend to be the future father-in-law and mother-in-law, and then return it. Du Mu, as the financial chief of the family, is not highly educated, but she is very shrewd, only in and out, and finally even if Du Yuan wears out her mouth, Du Mu agreed to take 30,000 out. In Du Mu's eyes, Zhao Yiyi, who had lived with her son for several years, was already worthless, and she wanted a bride price. Finally, Du Mu did not forget to instruct her son: If Yi Yi is pregnant, see if she still wants a bride price? It was their house that was in a hurry.
Du Yuan hung up the phone and sat in the office, remembering Zhao Yiyi's kindness to him, thinking of the dowry of 100,000 yuan, he decided to get married as soon as possible.
Everything went well, but the arrival of the epidemic disrupted the plans of the parents of both sides to meet, and Du Mu suggested that she should get a license first. Of course, Zhao Yiyi's parents were not happy, the bride price, the three gold were not, the parents did not meet, so what is the matter with rushing to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate?
Mother Zhao repeatedly instructed her daughter: You can get pregnant before marriage, you can't get a certificate first and then take the bride price, if you don't obey, you will be eaten to death by your in-laws for the rest of your life.
Zhao Yiyi did not understand, Mother Zhao said: If the dowry and dowry are given to you before receiving the certificate, it is your premarital property, you can dispose of it freely, if you give it to you after marriage, it is the joint property of the husband and wife. A girl married even the bride price does not want that is upside down, upside down is not valuable, know your know that you are for the sake of Du Yuan's family, do not know that you think you have a disability that?
Zhao Yiyi felt that what Mother Zhao said was reasonable, so after returning home from work, she said to Du Yuan: My parents have already given me a dowry of 100,000 yuan yesterday.
Shunshi, Zhao Yiyi opened the electronic bank to show Du Yuan the 100,000 dowry transferred by his parents, and Du Huan was embarrassed to push it away again, saying: Two days after tomorrow, my parents will transfer the dowry money.
Zhao Yiyi said: Then go directly to my card, how about my parents' dowry and your parents' bride price in one card?
Du Yuan nodded.
The next day, Du Yuan transferred the borrowed 70,000 yuan to Du Mu's bank card and instructed his mother to transfer the 100,000 dowry to Zhao Yiyi tomorrow. Although Du Mu was distressed, she thought that the money could be returned and agreed.
On the third day, Zhao Yiyi first received a call from Du Mu, the two people were polite on the phone, and soon after hanging up, Zhao Yiyi received a bank SMS reminder: 100,000 to the account.
Zhao Yiyi told his mother that Du Yuan's family had given a dowry of 100,000 yuan. Mother Zhao instructed her daughter on the phone: Yiyi, this bank card for the dowry and dowry must be distinguished from the bank card you spend every day, and do not cause confusion. The bride price and dowry are your premarital possessions. Mom also suggested that you transfer all your money from other banks to the card of the dowry before you get your license. From the day you and Du Yuan received the license, the income of the two of you is the joint property of the husband and wife. Doing so is to allow you to make a clear distinction between what is your premarital property and what is the joint property of both of you. Mother wants you to live forever, but marriage is chai rice oil and salt, and you still have to be rational in doing things.
Zhao Yiyi reassured Mother Zhao and said that she remembered. Soon she and Du Yuan officially received a marriage license at the Civil Affairs Bureau and became a legal couple, but what Zhao Yiyi did not know was that 70,000 of the 100,000 dowry given by Du Mu was borrowed by Du Yuan, and she did not know that Du Mu was waiting to take back the thirty thousand she had given, Du Yuanna, he thought that the 200,000 yuan in Zhao Yiyi's account was also his, and he was preparing to let Zhao Yiyi take the money out as the liquidity of his company after receiving the license. All these "don't know" and "think" lay the groundwork for future contradictions...
Knowledge points: The dowry and dowry before obtaining the certificate belong to the woman's premarital property, in order to clearly distinguish between premarital property and joint property of husband and wife, it is recommended to put the premarital property independently in a bank card, which is not used for future daily consumption.