Before apologizing to Yang Mi, I think I should first introduce some stories about me and my ex-wife. Because, the apology to Yang Mi, there is a little connection with my previous marriage.
My ex-wife and I are green plum bamboo horses, two little guesses. My ex-wife is three years older than me. But I suspect she's at least 5 years older than me.
I remember when I was very young, my parents were working in the fields and there was nothing to eat at home, and I told her that I was hungry.
Without saying a word, she found a woven bag, ran to the barn, packed the small half-bag of corn kernels into a woven bag, carried it to the vendor, and exchanged the corn kernels for noodles (during the grain harvest season, in the countryside, there are many, vendors who exchange grain for goods).
I was four or five years old, and she was supposed to be between the ages of 8 and 10. Because, without this age, you don't know how to exchange food for noodles, and you don't know how to bargain with hawkers. Moreover, after eating the noodles, I did not forget to tell me that when the adults came back, don't say that they leaked their mouths.
The next winter, my neighbor's sister came back from working in the SAR and came to visit my house. Touched me, pinched my cheek, and asked me to kiss her. I said, no kiss, my sister has a rouge smell on her face.
The image of the sister next door in the impression
The sister next door giggled: Tell you to kiss you, grow up, you can't find regret medicine.
When I grew up, I learned that it was not rouge, but girls, and the snowflakes used for skin care in winter.
The moment my neighbor's sister pinched my face, my ex-wife hid outside the courtyard door, muttering a small mouth, rolling her eyes, and staring at a pair of big eyes at the neighbor's sister.
After that, for a long time, on the way to school, across the river, and on the mountain road, she never took the initiative to hold my hand again.
My ex-wife and I fell in love and got married, both of which were expected by both families. On the morning of the registration and collection of the certificate, my father and the father of the ex-wife went to the village office (village committee) to issue a marriage certificate, and when it was the turn of the former father-in-law to report the date of birth of the ex-wife, my father asked my former father-in-law: Your girl is only 3 years older than my son?
The former father-in-law hesitated and nodded his head in confirmation. On this marriage certificate, the ex-wife was two or three years younger.
My mother learned that my ex-wife was three years older than me and was as happy as a flower. Everyone said that the female junior held a gold brick.
We people there have such a habit, in winter, early cooking and eating, after the sun sets, men, women and children, gathered in a certain yard, around the fire, while roasting sweet potatoes, while the sky south and north nagging, kanda mountains.
At this time, the ex-wife always stood behind me, put her hands on my shoulders, talked and laughed with the neighbors, and when the sweet potatoes were cooked, she was responsible for peeling, and then the couple, you eat a bite, I take a bite. Show affection. The neighbors praised us and said that if the couple could not go to the head, it must be the heavenly immortal in charge of the marriage line who led the wrong line.
When my ex-wife was young, she was in excellent shape and had a little beauty.
I remember that before I got married, my mother went to my aunt's house. The aunt who was feeding the pig asked, what does your daughter-in-law look like?
The mother thought for a moment, pointed to a pig in the pig pen and said, just like it, round and round, fleshy, white and red.
Recent photo of ex-wife
Shortly after my daughter was born, I went out to work. When my daughter was 8 years old, that is, the year when "Condor Heroes" was popular, I came home and the neighbors asked me, do you love your wife?
I thought about it and asked, Yang Mi, do you know?
The neighbors were inexplicable, shaking their heads and saying they didn't know.
I ask again, does Guo Xiang know? The villagers nodded and said they knew.
"Dun Xiang played by Yang Mi in the drama of the Divine Eagle Hero"
I said, 1.66m tall, super charming Guo Xiang (Yang Mi), I don't marry, just marry my wife (ex-wife), you say, do I love my wife (ex-wife)?
(Picture from the Internet) Yang Mi's life photos that have been ripe
Neighbors say, love your wife, just take your wife out with you! Or, you stay at home and accompany your wife to farm. Stop living the life of a cowherd and weaver girl.
What do the neighbors mean by this? I didn't take it to heart. The next year when I went home for the New Year, my wife (ex-wife) told me solemnly that she and I could not go on, and that she had already decided to go and did not need to be retained.
I don't know what's going on? The ex-wife didn't say either. Two years later, my ex-wife and I dissolved our marriage and went on to work.
After the divorce, I have been in a relationship with my ex-wife. I often ask my ex-wife, what caused the two to go their separate ways?
The ex-wife said that the past goes with the wind, and the past, let it pass! Grasp the present, cherish the present, and live a good life. Others, it doesn't matter anymore.
Years later, anecdotal legend has it that Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, because they were busy with work, the couple gathered less and left more, resulting in a crisis of marital feelings, or that one party in the marriage had a situation, and finally, the immortal couple was forced to dissolve the marriage relationship.
(Picture from the Internet) Yang Mi smiled sideways
Seeing Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, dissolved due to the lack of gathering and leaving more, the marriage situation appeared, and I couldn't help but think of my unfortunate marriage. My ex-wife and I finally parted ways, which should also be because we gathered less and left more. Otherwise, the neighbors wouldn't have asked me about the inexplicable things.
After many years of thinking, I found that the words of the neighbors were very meaningful, but I was young and lacked life experience, and I did not think much about it, but said, Yang Mi is so beautiful, I will not marry, I will marry my ex-wife. It shows that in addition to the profound love of the wife, the rest, such as life experience, life experience, have yet to be accumulated.
The past is like smoke, and the years are like songs. In the blink of an eye, half of life is over, not to say that the more you live, the more you understand. At least it has been found that the sentence of that year was sloppy! Yang Mi, I'm sorry.
To sum up, marital love really can't be separated for a long time. I feel that the sentence that people often hang on their lips in daily life is more philosophical: in-laws and in-laws, the scales are not far away. Marriage and love, it is not advisable not to gather less and leave more.
One person, one story. Friends, the story is coming to an end, life is still going on, let's come together, talk about their respective life experiences! See below in the comments section. Thank you all for reading.