The ancients said: It makes sense not to say that words are full and things are not done. Life has the rules of life, the workplace has workplace routines, you can not apply, but can not not know.
Let's share an imperial heart technique today.
One
Our growth takes time, just like the little emperor Wanli, who is less than 10 years old, who holds a Zhu pen every day and folds it, just like practicing calligraphy, and writes three words: I know.
At this time, the difference between not understanding the rules and understanding the rules will appear, you are like Xiao Wanli, you may not understand it now, but you will understand it in the future, and you will gradually deepen your understanding with age.
In the eyes of people who don't understand the rules, "knowing" means knowing, and it is not a big deal.
But in the eyes of those who understand politics, this difference is greater. Huang Renyu wrote in the "FifteenTh Year of the Wanli Calendar": "I know", the actual meaning is that the suggestions in this chapter are not accepted, but there is no need to reprimand the suggesters.
What does that mean? "Got it" means, I don't accept it, but I don't say it directly. First, to avoid embarrassment, and second, to deliberately not let people know what they think.
Meet and stay a line, see you in the future.
However, the Ming Dynasty Wenchen, like your colleagues, really like to trouble others, every three to five times of harassment, intolerable, a magical scene appeared, the adult Wanli Emperor did not go to the dynasty for 20 consecutive years, obviously seeing that the Wenchen Group was not pleasing to the eye, but did not say, every day in the deep palace tirelessly graffiti "know",
"You think I accepted the repertoire, but in fact I refused."
Two
Is the Wanli Emperor's "knowing" just a case? Not really. As we all know, the Qianlong Emperor was a man who loved literature and art, for example, he wrote 40,000 poems in his lifetime, however, what is unknown is that in fact, he also had great achievements in calligraphy.
Some professionals have studied the "Qing Dynasty Palace Folding File and Military Aircraft Department File Folding Catalogue Index", and grabbed nearly 100,000 pieces of data on Qianlong Folding, and came up with an interesting law.
The Qianlong Emperor wrote more than twice as many poems in his lifetime. However, most of the 70% of the Folded Zhu Batches end with the three words "know".
Presumably, in the calligraphy world, Qianlong can write the three words "know" with pure fire, and Qianlong can be regarded as a generation of famous artists. However, Qianlong's "knowing" is not like the Buddhist system of Wanli, and his "knowing" is more skillful than Wanli's "knowing".
Three
In 1751, Qianlong celebrated his birthday. A scholar named Wang Zhaoji had a sudden idea and wrote a "Tribute to the Longevity Poetry Association" to send to the Shanxi Fenzhou capital Tongzhi Tusang'a.
It was originally a small matter, nothing more than a poor sour student kneeling and licking the emperor. However, after careful study by Tusang'a and Li Guo, the prefect of Fenzhou, he found that there were "disobediences" in this poem and "slandered the sages", so he arrested Wang Zhaoji.
Originally, this matter should have been over, but after Shaanxi Inspector Asha learned of the situation, he was worried that he had not handled it enough, so he asked for a strict investigation of whether there were any party members. After severe torture, it was found that this man was a person who wanted to kneel and lick the emperor. Therefore, the real purpose of Wang Zhaoji was to be a fool who wanted to be an official.
After receiving the recital, Qianlong replied that he "knew."
You think it's over? Obviously, Qianlong was not satisfied with The results of Asha's investigation, and even a little disappointed, and he replied that he "knew." When everyone thinks things are over. However, Qianlong immediately issued an order to "stand up and kill the staff." Wang Zhaoji inexplicably missed his life.
You see, "knowing" has never been a Buddhist chicken soup, and when it comes to Qianlong, it not only has an undeniable meaning, but even the meaning of another diagram.
Four
As we all know, Ah Xin's main business is to study oniguzi, and this imperial mind technique is like oniguzi said, "To change all kinds of things, to say that the meaning is infinite." Wisdom and strategy, each with its own description, or circle or square" teachings.
That is, to use the changing point of view to discuss all things, the truths that are explained are endless. Wisdom and scheming have their own forms. Some are flexible and round, and some are square and straight.
What is the use of understanding this code word for us ordinary people? First, let's do a workplace application problem: One afternoon, Xiaoming was about to leave work. His colleague suddenly came up with a pile of documents and said:
"Please work overtime to help me deal with it." In this case, how should Bob reply?
There are only three words, study Wanli and Qianlong, answer: Got it. What logic is this?
Presumably, you will often see a line of text that can no longer be small on some commercial activity advertisements: the right to explain the activity belongs to the unit.
Although the law does not agree with the legal effect of this line of small characters, it is also very necessary for merchants to do so, in order to seize the "right to interpret" and avoid being led by the nose of consumers.
In fact, the purpose of "knowing" is to compete for the right to explain.
As in the above example, the colleague asked Xiaoming to help himself unconditionally, and as a colleague, face was still to be given. Therefore, Xiaoming can give an irrefutable reply with "knowing".
Face is given, you have said it, as for how he understands, that is his business. At the same time, you also have room to choose and retreat, according to the specific situation, help or not, do or not.
If you feel you can do it, then "knowing" can be understood as, I help you. On the other hand, if you feel that you are not willing to do it, then when the colleague shamelessly comes to the fruit, you can kindly tell him, I just said "I know", but sorry, I did not say "I want to help you", because you did not say enough, so you can go in and out, attack and retreat.
If he still wants to entangle, you can completely help him improve his Chinese listening ability: "Know" and "I help you" are two completely different meanings, they are adults, even this does not understand, what kind of workplace? The truth is in your end, you can theorize with it as you please.
Therefore, if the other party is an old fritter in the workplace, hearing "know", it will naturally play the subjective initiative of the old fritter, no longer entangled, everyone is an understanding person,
See through not to say broken, or good friends.
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