Workplace growth dramas have also been broadcast a lot, and the previous "I am very good in other places" has received a lot of responses.
And Zhou Yutong also starred in "The Coolest World" again, in which he is also a North Drifter, Teng Xiaoxiao,
Shen Ying, played by Guan Xin, is also a person who is wandering in Beijing together.
Everyone in the play who struggles in the workplace has a life and career dissatisfaction, and in the broadcast plot, we see shen Ying's family life, how unsatisfactory and scary.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > Shen Ying</h1> character
Shen Ying, the "North Drifter", not only has to experience the cruelty and change of the workplace, but also faces various difficulties from her original family.
But the good thing is that Shen Ying she does not succumb to her own family, nor is she an air bag, she wants to stay in Beijing, for her parents' demands and threats, but also resist, Shen Ying wants to develop well for her future, but the obstruction of the original family also brings her a lot of trouble, like this time also saw the misfortune of her native family and the terror of her parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" > Shen Ying's original family misfortune</h1>
In the play, you can see that Shen Ying's family is not good, and Shen Ying, who had a job before, will send money to her home every month. After losing his job, he also did not send money home for four months, which also made Shen Ying's parents find the door.
(1) Parents come to Beijing
Shen Ying learned that her parents had come to Beijing and sent a message to Teng Xiaoxiao, and when Teng Xiaoxiao came to her house, Shen Ying also broke down and cried, saying that her parents had come to Beijing and did not want to live. Because her parents did not let her stay in Beijing, let her go back to her hometown to get married, and then gave all the dowry money to her brother and bought a house for him to get married.
Teng Xiaoxiao comforted her, and Shen Ying was also very afraid of her parents and kept crying. This also shows that Shen Ying is very afraid of her parents, and it seems that the family also has a great influence on Shen Ying.
(2) See your parents
Shen Ying went out to pick up her parents accompanied by Fuji Xiaoxiao, after she saw her parents, like a sheep seeing a wolf, she thought that Shen Ying's mother had lost her temper, but no, Teng Xiaoxiao explained why she would not answer the phone, because Shen Ying had a fever, but her mother did not accept this reason, directly slapped Shen Ying's face, and said how not to burn you.
What a hatred this must be, saying this to his own daughter, but also to see that Shen Ying's mother does not like this daughter, that is, a patriarchal family, Shen Ying is very afraid of her mother, but also because her mother is not good to her, either beating or scolding.
(3) Forced marriage
After playing Shen Ying, he also directly dragged her away, saying that her company was about to collapse, and he was still spending money, regardless of himself, nor did he care about his brother. He also said how Shen Ying was so selfish. This mother is also very good, she also does not care about the child at all, Shen Ying has a fever but does not ask, from the beginning is to accuse Shen Ying, but also said that she is selfish. After saying that, he also kept dragging Shen Ying away, to take her back to her hometown to get married, and forcing Shen Ying to get married was also for the bride price, because his son was going to get married and needed a house.
This kind of behavior, isn't this just selling the daughter, there is no money to force the daughter to give, there is really no money, you have to do this kind of thing. This also made Shen Ying feel cold to her family.
(4) The words of parents
Because of the dispute, it was also taken back to the police station by the police who rushed to the police station. And Shen Ying's parents spoke also made people speechless. They offered their daughter to college, it was a lot of money, but why did they make this kind of forced marriage behavior, and scolded her, opened her mouth and said that her daughter was selfish, Shen Ying would also send money if she had a job, but she herself was about to open the pot, and her parents were still blindly accusing her. Harm, this idea of favoring sons over daughters is also difficult to eliminate, the older generation of people are also maintaining this traditional concept, for Shen Ying, this family is undoubtedly unfortunate, her life and career are also unsatisfactory.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > summary</h1>
(1) Shen Ying's parents' forced marriage behavior, in fact, when they saw the TV series, many people felt very bloody, but the reality was far more frightening than this. Shen Ying's original family is that kind of thinking is very traditional, for the daughter is either beaten or scolded, at home is also very spoiled son.
This time, because Shen Ying's father could not go to work, and Shen Ying did not send money. The son is going to get married, and he has no money, so he can only come to take Shen Ying away, just for the bride price.
This practice is undoubtedly chilling, when Shen Ying received a call from her parents, she was already very scared, which showed that her parents left a great psychological shadow on her.
(2) Son preference also exists in real life. It's not illegal, it's just unreasonable.
For the family, the preference for sons is undoubtedly a grind for two children. The phenomenon of son preference will bring a lot of influence to girls, such as growing up will be more inferior, because it is always ignored, also treated differently, rarely encouraged, and grow up without self-confidence.
Look down on yourself, growing up in this environment, girls will feel that they are nothing, in the process of interpersonal communication is also suspicious of themselves, easy to look down on themselves, personality is also too introverted.
(3) Boys who grow up in a patriarchal family are also difficult to have a career, and boys who grow up in this environment generally lack a sense of responsibility, and they are not willing to do things down-to-earth, and they will want to sit back and enjoy their success.
If parents favor boys, children will be disrespectful and like to cause trouble. Because the psychology of boys is generated, even if they do anything, they will have parents and sisters to clean up the mess, and it is difficult to become a big tool.
In many patriarchal families, it is common to treat daughters badly and spoil sons. The son who is pampered and proud will become a person who is idle all day and does nothing.
Becoming a moth in the family, the psychology of this kind of person will not be distressed by parents and family, and the parents who prefer sons to daughters will be very desolate and unwelcome in their old age. Son preference is not a sin, it is just unreasonable, and it is not good for yourself and your children.
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