Text/Wu Qi's World
There are two kinds of people in the world who are the most hateful and the most hateful.
One is to be confused, not knowing what their role is, and always doing something harmful to others.
The other is that the three views are not correct, never know the problem of reflection, and when they are hurt, they blame others for all the problems.
In "28 Years of Wrong Life", Xiong Lei, the wife of Yao Ce, who has passed away, has taken advantage of both points.
On May 8, after Xu Min's family added Du Xinzhi as defendant and increased the compensation to more than 7.9 million, Xiong Lei issued two or three articles in succession.
In the text, it is not to make any explanation of the truth of the matter, but to make various accusations against Xu Min and expose Xu Min and his family.
In the previous article, she also retained a little bottom line, and the name of Xu Min was carried by the word "mother".
However, just yesterday in her more article, she directly removed the word "mother", called Xu Min by his name, and publicly accused Xu Min of letting her die by "Internet violence".
People who have watched the movie "Search" know that being searched for human flesh and online violence is a very painful thing, and people who have not experienced it will probably never be able to empathize.
I also believe that xiong Lei must have had a peaceful life since the Yao Ce incident, and it is not easy to be at home and outside the home.
But why do people not sympathize with her at all, a woman who has lost her husband and raised her young son, is it because people's three views are not correct, or is it a loss of compassion?
Looking at Xiong Lei's behavior before and after, we know that she has today, and a large part of the reason is caused by herself.
Look at her post yesterday, the first paragraph shows her attitude, from the second paragraph, directly to Xu Min's name, and in a very emotional tone, thank Xu Min in a negative way, and blame Everything she has endured on Xu Min.
In fact, from her first sentence, a huge loophole was seen.
She said Xu Min had "ruthlessly hurt" her "son" who had been raising her for 28 years.
Obviously, this is a sick sentence.
Anyone who has been a mother knows that after 28 years of raising her child, even if the child causes great harm to the mother, the mother will forgive the son.
While acknowledging that Xu Min raised Yao Ce for 28 years, she also said that Xu Min was ruthless and hurt Yao Ce.
After Xu Min learned that Yao Ce was not his own son, what Xu Min did, we have no way of knowing, what we saw and heard was only Xiong Lei's or Min's statements, which were unfair.
However, when Xu Min did not find out that Yao Ce was not her son, her nurturing and dedication to Yao Ce was beyond doubt.
A mother has been deceived for 28 years, and what she has done is difficult for normal people's intellect to predict.
Therefore, Xiong Lei took the "mother-child love" to do the article, which is really stupid.
This is the first point that Xiong Lei can't clearly understand, making a fuss about family affection, sensationalism, and sympathy are all beyond reproach, but to question a mother, it will naturally be criticized by the public.
At the end of this paragraph, she says that Xu Min soon forced yao ce to return to the house after her death.
As we all know, a house in China, almost to consume a family's energy for more than ten years, this house, Xu Min gave to her own son, but Yao Ce is not her biological son, Xiong Lei and her, is even more unrelated, there is no need to let a person who has nothing to do with it, live in the house he paid for.
Therefore, whether it is in line with the law or not to return to the house, it is understandable that it is reasonable.
Even if Xu Min's family has endless gold and silver mountains, if she does not want to do charity and go to live in a house for people who have nothing to do with it, at least, logically speaking, she can ask Xiong Lei for a house.
Moreover, the matter of asking for a house was already raised by Xu Min before Yao Ce's death, and it was not after Yao Ce's death that Xu Min opened his mouth.
For Xiong Lei, it was already giving her time to think and prepare, but Xiong Lei was resolutely unwilling to return the house.
It is also from the house that her contradiction with Xu Min is irreconcilable, and every three to five years on the Internet to expose Xu Min and her family's material.
This is the second point that Xu Min is unclear and the three views are not correct, and he cannot look at the house from the direction of reason, but is blinded by interests and says that he believes in the law.
As an ordinary person, I don't know if Xu Min can return to the house in the end, but Xiong Lei's insistence on keeping the house and directly attacking has already touched the bottom line of most people, even if she finally gets the house, she will be scolded by everyone.
In this case, the pressure on her was not small, but her confusion sent herself to the focus of public opinion, and undoubtedly put herself on the fire.
Taking ten thousand steps back, even if Xu Min is using social groups, if she does not take the recruitment, or change her identity, do not carry it so hard, it should be much better than now.
Throughout this article, Xiong Lei's emotions are very excited, and he threatens to fight Xu Min to the end.
All I can say is that she's still too young.
It doesn't mean she's going to lose, it's not that she's going to win.
So far, Xu Min's basic process is a formal process, and her ideas and views are basically in line with the mainstream group, but what Xiong Lei has done has always been in a state of attack, that is, like a fight between children, you do the first year for me today, I will do fifteen to you tomorrow.
The key to this matter is not whether Xu Min chases after the house, but the wrong exchange of Yao Ce and Guo Wei, whether it is artificial or loophole, and what people hope to see is also a truth that people have no doubt about.
However, in Xiong Lei's text, her unspoken meaning has been accusing Xu Min, one is that his son is not biological, he is forced to die, regardless of years of family affection, and the other is that Xu Min's actions are all for money.
However, she never mentioned the house, only said that Xu Min forced her to return the house, but never said her own views and attitudes towards the house.
It feels like the house is where I live and you should give it to me.
And she also said that Xu Min was looking for milk powder money and medical expenses, according to previous reports, Xu Min and his family had been chasing Yao Ce's treatment fees at the beginning, and there was not much to argue about the maintenance fees.
In fact, from Xu Min's point of view, even if she really wants to calculate the maintenance fee, it is beyond reproach, naturally, Du Xinzhi can also say to Xu Min that she has also raised Guo Wei for 28 years, and she has also paid time and energy.
Therefore, people who understand know at a glance that for these two families, if the facts are "wrongly exchanged", they will calculate the child support, and it is not clear.
However, when Xu Min made additional compensation, it was only established on the premise that Du Xinzhi was added as the defendant and that the "wrong change" was "secretly exchanged".
It's just that Xiong Lei has been unclear about this, and has been exploding Xu Min's material without a bottom line.
In fact, no one is perfect, even if Xiong Lei said Xu Min's explosion, it is a fact, and it does not affect the fact that this matter is necessary to have a truth.
I hope that Xiong Lei can already understand, carry a little clearer, find his own position in this matter, and not such an unprovoked fight, and constantly enlarge his own problems.
I also hope that the truth will come out as soon as possible and give the public and the parties an explanation.