On July 6, 2000, Zhang Aijia was making a new movie.
Suddenly, she received a phone call:
"Son Oscar has been kidnapped!"
The voice of her husband, Wang Jingxiong, was extremely panicked.
Zhang Aijia listened and almost fainted. She rushed home in a hurry.
At noon, Zhang Aijia had just stepped into the door of the house, and the phone at home rang again.
"Uncle wants money."
It was the voice of his son Oscar, crying with fear.
"Oscar, Oscar..."
Zhang Aijia shouted anxiously, trying to determine if her son was safe.
Unexpectedly, the phone was hung up.
She was instantly paralyzed on the ground, tears falling like rain.
In her mind, in addition to Oscar's crying, there is also the kidnapper's threat: prepare 20 million ransom in 3 days, do not call the police, or tear up the ticket.
Wang Jingxiong hurriedly picked up his wife. The two began to discuss whether to call the police.
Zhang Aijia only felt afraid.
Because, not long ago, Bai Bingbing's daughter Bai Xiaoyan was also kidnapped, Bai Bingbing called the police, the kidnappers tore up the ticket, and Bai Xiaoyan never returned.
Do you seek police help, or do you pay the ransom in person?
It is a matter of deciding the life and death of a son.
In the end, Zhang Aijia and her husband decided to call the police.
The police received an alarm call and secretly operated to lock in the kidnapping suspect.
Luckily, Oscar was rescued.
At this time, 6 days and 6 nights and 144 hours have passed since he was kidnapped.
When Zhang Aijia saw her son, she hugged her and cried so much that she almost fainted.
On the same day, she left Hong Kong with Oscar and took a plane to a foreign country.
On the plane, Zhang Aijia regretted and feared.
In tears, she recalled bits and pieces of the past.
Before the kidnapping, Zhang Aijiatian was not afraid.
Love to wander.
Love freedom.
More love to fall in love.
Before the age of 13, Zhang Aijia followed her mother to live in New York.
Exposed to Western-style education too early, she rebelled for a time and fell in love with hippies.
Zhang Aijia, a teenager, learned from a group of street teenagers, wore shorts, dyed colorful hair, and fell in love like crazy.
Talk about one, inappropriate, break up.
Talk about one more, no fun, and separate.
The mother saw that she was addicted to love all day, and she was a little worried, and warned Zhang Aijia:
"I'll send you back if you do this again!"
"Then you'll send me back."
Zhang Aijia looked indifferent.
Her mother really sent her home.
However, the pluralism and rebellion of the "hippies" have been deeply imprinted in Zhang Aijia's heart.
She was affected, "The woman I admired most when I was a child was a very free woman. ”
For the rest of her life, she pursued freedom all the way.
On the road to acting is.
In love, even more so.
At the age of 19, Zhang Aijia officially entered the entertainment industry.
Because of his beautiful appearance and elegant temperament, he has become the darling of film and television dramas.
She was photographed by Qiong Yao and starred in "BiyunTian".
Perhaps it is her talent, her performance in the play, overshadows the protagonist Lin Fengjiao.
Zhang Aijia relied on this drama to win the Best Supporting Actress Award at the Golden Horse Awards.
Her acting path slowly unfolds.
Later, she starred in literary films such as "The Story of Ah Lang".
Strange to say, each one is very pleasing.
Zhang Aijia has become a well-deserved goddess of literary and art films.
However, she is loose in nature and does not cling to fame and fortune for a while.
She is like a lion out of reins, never resting on her laurels, but bent on trying territory that has never been set foot.
At the age of 26, Zhang Aijia got married.
Very caught off guard.
She married Li Youlin.
He was the hong Kong bureau chief of the Associated Press at the time.
He is 16 years older than Zhang Aijia.
Typical father-daughter love.
But Zhang Aijia was infatuated with the warmth given by this man.
She had lost her father at an early age and had never seen him.
When she was one year old, her father died in an air crash. Since then, Zhang Aijia's impression of her father has only been an old yellowed photo.
She was so short of love.
Too much to know what it's like to be loved.
However, Zhang Aijia was too naïve after all.
She did not yet have the ability and experience to subdue an old man who had been in the red dust for a long time.
Different ideas, very different ways of life, have become grounds for quarrels.
Soon after marriage, they often quarreled.
Later, there was a quarrel, and no one would pay attention to anyone.
Six years later, Zhang Aijia returned to singlehood and became a person.
The marriage, in her words, had only the word "hasty."
"At that time, I was young, exuberant, energetic, and I didn't realize what kind of life I wanted, so I got married in a hurry."
On another level, in this off-track, Zhang Aijia recognized the way forward.
After the divorce, she devoted herself to her career.
It was also during this period of hard work that Zhang Aijia had the most influential love history.
"She loves musical talent."
Even now, when people mention Zhang Aijia, they call her a "talent harvester".
truly.
As free as she is, she has been involved with many big names in the music world.
First yang Dechang. That is, Cai Qin's ex-husband.
In those years, Yang Dechang was called a "movie scalpel".
Talented.
Insightful.
Zhang Aijia's name is intertwined with such a man, and there is indeed a story.
But Zhang Aijia denied it.
She said, "There was a chance, but it stopped." ”
"Good friend, good partner at work."
Then there is Li Zongsheng, who has spread the word.
When Zhang Aijia met Li Zongsheng, Li Zongsheng was not yet famous.
At that time, he was not the big brother of the music world, but the unknown "Little Li".
Zhang Aijia admired his talent and recommended him to well-known musicians, which cast the legend of Li Zongsheng.
In those years, the two walked very close.
Li Zongsheng also wrote "The Price of Love" for Zhang Aijia.
The Price of Love Zhang Aijia - Movie "Nian Nian"
It is said that when he wrote this song, he completely understood Zhang Aijia's life and pursuits.
The song is light and gentle.
The lyrics are poignant.
Later, it became an enduring classic. I have to say that Li Zongsheng really understands women's hearts.
I don't know when, the rumors began to spread that Li Zongsheng fell in love with Zhang Aijia.
Zhang Aijia did not shy away from it.
At a concert, she sang "The Price of Love" with Li Zongsheng.
Zhang Aijia boldly and bluntly asked Li Zongsheng: "Have you ever loved me?" ”
Li Zongsheng said lightly: "Big sister." ”
There was no response to her.
I turned around and sang "The Price of Love" again.
Singing and singing, sobbs flowing.
He couldn't resist wiping it with his hand.
Years later, Lu Yu also asked Zhang Aijia:
"Has Big Brother Li Zongsheng ever liked you?"
"At that time, I felt that I was not the kind of woman that Li Zongsheng loved, and he liked that kind of girl who was particularly gentle..."
Later, in "Kangxi Is Coming", Zhang Aijia also denied the rumors of love with Li Zongsheng.
"It really isn't."
Whether it is true or not, people who are willing to believe it are speculating.
And those who do not believe have long set their sights on Zhang Aijia's next rumor.
After successively denying her love affair with Yang Dechang and Li Zongsheng, Zhang Aijia boldly admitted that she and Luo Dayou had fallen in love.
They are all romantic talents.
Luo Dayou wrote "Childhood" for Zhang Aijia.
"No one knows why,
The sun always goes down to the other side of the mountain,
No one can tell me,
There are no gods living in the mountains. ”
He also wrote "Little Sister" because of Zhang Aijia.
"We have a warm past,
Confused now
with the unknown future. ”
However, this love affair of the talented and beautiful person ended after a year.
"We had a lot of feelings together, but at some point his mind began to shift elsewhere."
Years later, Zhang Aijia has never let go.
Why break up?
Remember Abramović saying, "Never fall in love with an artist." ”
The same goes for musicians.
Similar souls are easy to attract, but also easy to hurt each other.
Feelings are a metaphysics.
When the hormones dissipate, what else is there to sustain them?
This answer, Zhang Aijia thought for a long time.
She once confessed on a show, "I'm in pain, but I'm not the one who stands still, so I'm going to go forward and let that pain, to a certain extent, it won't hurt anymore." ”
I don't know how many years later she woke up:
"I know very well who can marry and who can only fall in love."
Falling head in the relationship again, this time, Zhang Aijia's posture was much calmer.
She left her comfort zone as an actress and began to dabble in the ranks of directors and become a singer.
In 1985, Zhang Aijia's career had reached its second peak.
In the same year, she won the Academy Award and the Golden Horse Award for the movie "The Favourite", becoming a double film queen.
At the same time, Zhang Aijia was in love again.
The object was Wang Jingxiong.
She is also her current husband.
Zhang Aijia, who is full of glory, is once again deeply trapped in the quagmire of love.
She knew Wang Jingxiong and was said to have been introduced by a friend.
The friend had no intention of planting flowers, but it really contributed to the marriage.
But this love has also become a stain on Zhang Aijia's life.
Wang Jingxiong is a businessman. Be humble and low-key.
But he is married.
And two sons.
Zhang Aijia ignored it and resolutely fell in love with Wang Jingxiong.
At the age of 37, he gave birth to a son Oscar for Wang Jingxiong.
This is a big scandal.
When the popular actress is a little third, she is still unmarried and has a child, which is simply a shattered three views.
After this scandal was exposed, it almost ruined Zhang Aijia's star path.
But she has always been determined, not afraid of any gossip, and still determined to love.
A year later, Wang Jingxiong divorced his original partner and turned around and married Zhang Aijia, which calmed public opinion.
Why do a generation of talented women insist on being a third party and risk ruining their careers to have children?
Zhang Aijia explained to Yang Lan:
"When I first made this choice myself, I thought about saying that maybe my career would be over from now on.
But for the sake of my children, will I do it? I do. So I chose to do it. ”
"Is it that simple?"
"Yes!"
She was resolute.
I have to say that if you throw away the little three scandal, this marriage is indeed very suitable for her.
It is also Zhang Aijia who has been looking for a long time.
Wang Jingxiong is a businessman with an active mind and a broad vision, giving Zhang Aijia many new ways of thinking.
Most importantly, he gave Zhang Aijia the freedom he wanted.
In Wang Jingxiong's body, Zhang Aijia really felt the feeling of home.
Wang Jingxiong also told Zhang Aijia, "The two people must not be too sticky together. ”
At first, Zhang Aijia thought that her husband did not love him and was very angry.
But then she gradually understood, "This sentence makes too much sense, because everyone comes and goes alone, and they are all lonely... We shouldn't depend on each other for all our happiness. ”
Looking back on the past now, Zhang Aijia is always very emotional.
"When I was young, I especially liked talented people, and I really liked people who could play music...
But it's great to be friends with them, and if I'm a close lover, I'm going to be very hard.
Being a husband and wife means giving up a lot of yourself. ”
Passing by countless people, she finally saw herself, and the partner she wanted was a confident, independent, mountain-like man.
But the happy times are too short.
When Zhang Aijia thought that since then, when life was a harmonious day, life came to a storm.
Her son Oscar was kidnapped.
It is exactly the scene that happened at the beginning of the article.
Since this incident, Zhang Aijia has given up all glory and accompanied her son.
She took her son on a tour of the world, seeing majestic mountains, drifting snow, meteors passing in an instant...
She hopes that her son will come out of his grief and fear, believe again, and be lively again.
But the son was always autistic and didn't want to pay attention to anyone.
Until they went to the desert, his son Oscar suddenly said softly to Zhang Aijia:
"Mom, thank you."
Zhang Aijia's tears were hazy.
This mom, she waited too long too long.
This sentence made her think more deeply about life.
Later, Zhang Aijia was enthusiastic about charity and went to Africa to help children in need.
Over the next decade or so, she visited many areas of extreme poverty.
Seven children of different colours were also sponsored.
The process of helping these children also healed herself.
She tried to let go of past hurts.
"I never thought about what fairness and unfairness is, maybe it's because I've traveled more in Africa myself, and I've gone to this kind of poor place, and you don't want to be fair and unfair at all."
Also try to have a new understanding of the child.
"I used to be very impulsive to go to prison to see these [son kidnappers], they were very young, in their 20s,
They all come from a broken family.
Their level of education and environment allows them to take quick money and make fast money. ”
On Mother's Day 2006, the online vote was "The Most Perfect Mother in My Heart." ”
Zhang Aijia is the first place.
But she said:
"Being a happy woman comes at a cost."
This price is also the price of Love.
Now Zhang Aijia has looked down on many things, whether it is flashy or wind and rain, it is all over the clouds.
She was always on the road, writing, directing, and publishing books.
When she was 62 years old, she went to Lu Yu's show to promote her latest film.
At that time, Lu Yu asked her three questions, and Zhang Aijia's answer touched the audience.
The first question is, "What do you think is most important for a woman?" ”
"Beautiful. The heart is beautiful, the appearance must be beautiful. ”
The second question is, "What do you feel most regrettable so far?" ”
"Nothing!"
The applause from the audience was endless.
Lu Yu couldn't help but shout, "Cow." ”
The third question, "How do you describe Zhang Aijia?" ”
"I've got enough in my life."
At the time of the new year, After walking through the ups and downs of life, Zhang Aijia, who said that "life is enough", has a rare tenderness in her eyes.
There is also the maturity of enlightenment.
The most complete life should be like this, the scenery is seen through, and the lover is by his side. There are no dangers, loss and recovery, a lifetime is enough.