It is a good thing that children have talent, but if they do not work hard the day after tomorrow, it is a regret for a lifetime!
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Do you remember the child star Wang Xinyi who played the male protagonist when he was a child in "Dolphin Bay Lovers"?
Wang Xinyi can be said to be a talented actor, he not only has a cute appearance, but also vivid acting skills.
When on a variety show, he can even cry within 10 seconds, which is something that many adult actors can't do, and for a while, he was called a "genius child star".
Successively starred in "Green Light Forest", "Treasure Island Girl Success", "Bullfight", "Pawnshop No. 8"...
Just when everyone thought that his future must be bright, he fell in love with a female fan who was 2 years older than himself at the age of 12, and even filmed indecent videos.
Since then, he seems to have changed into a person, not only skipping class, dating, smoking and drinking, fighting violently, and even joining the Taiwanese gang "Bamboo Gang".
In 2016, 21-year-old Wang Xinyi and several so-called brothers joined forces to cut a teenager under the age of 16 into serious injuries, and eventually the teenager died.
And he did it to help one of his friends out.
He was eventually sentenced to 17 years in prison.
When his parents discovered their children's talent in acting, they did not teach their children well and let them continue to study hard, but blindly took their children around to make money.
This causes the child to become more and more rebellious and embark on the road of no return.
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In addition to him, there is also Xiao Xiaobin, who we all know, who debuted at the age of 2 because he looked exactly like his father when he was a child, and was affectionately called Xiao Xiaobin by everyone.
As soon as he entered the circle, he was favored by the director and starred in "The Stars Know My Heart 2007", because he had talent in acting, and then he starred in "Just Want to Rely on You".
After acting in this play, because of the wonderful interpretation in the play, he gradually became more familiar with more people, and the script continued to pour into him.
In the movie "New Born Pair", he played a little boy waiting to be reunited with his father.
The realistic acting skills of the desire for father's love have made many people praise him as a "genius child star", and he is in the limelight for a while, and his value is as high as tens of millions.
Unfortunately, Xiao Xiaobin's father did not cultivate Xiao Xiaobin well, but was bent on using Xiao Xiaobin to earn money.
In order to make Xiao Xiaobin earn more money, his father let him constantly take leave of absence from class to make a special film, resulting in Xiao Xiaobin not only falling behind in his studies, but also becoming worse and worse.
When Xiao Xiaobin was in elementary school, he didn't even know the basic letters, and the pronunciation was not clear, compared with his peers, the difference was not a star and a half!
It is still so small, it cannot rest well, and the body naturally cannot bear it.
Xiao Xiaobin gradually grew up, because he stayed up late for a long time to shoot dramas, resulting in him being shorter than his peers, and his appearance did not return to the cute innocence of his childhood.
The scenes have also become very few, there are almost no scenes to shoot, and they have not studied well before, so Xiao Xiaobin can be said to be far behind his peers.
Although his father made a lot of money by xiao xiaobin, he bought luxury houses and cars, lived a luxurious life, and did not cultivate xiaoxiaobin well.
After watching the experience of these 2 genius child stars, I think they will sigh endlessly, obviously have great prospects, but they did not expect to become like this.
In the final analysis, their parents do not pay attention to the cultivation of their children, but just blindly squeeze out the wealth brought by the children's talents.
You know, over time, gifts from heaven will naturally be recycled!
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So how do we find out what gifts children have? And how to cultivate it?
Before the People's Daily, there was a self-examination table of children's talents, and I think you can take a look:
When the child meets the above 3 conditions at the same time, it indicates that the child has relevant potential:
This is actually a "multifaceted" test of Dr. Robert Sternberg of Yale University in the United States.
Through this test, can you know where your child's talent is? How should parents be groomed?
The most important thing is that we must be patient and persevere.
Constantly encourage and motivate children to study hard, and even help children push at critical times to let children go further.