Some people say that love can be free, but marriage must be the right door, otherwise, two people who are not right at the door get together, and over time there will be various contradictions and differences, especially in the case of the woman's superiority and strength, and the man's preference for weakness.
From the various examples in life, such a situation exists, but it is not absolute, in fact, there are countless examples of superior women marrying and always respecting each other, which depends entirely on the attitude of men and women to marriage, and those who know how to cherish are happy everywhere they go.
Speaking of Hong Kong actresses, especially well-known Hong Kong actresses, after fading out of the screen, they often marry into the giants, Li Jiaxin, Qiu Shuzhen, etc., but everything has exceptions, and Guo Xianni is the representative of the exception. Today, let's talk about the story of Guo Xianni's marriage.
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Born in Hong Kong in 1974, her grandfather was British and she is a quarter of British.
Because of her mixed blood, Guo Xianni's appearance is relatively outstanding, after graduating from college, she not only became a flight attendant, but also won the miss Hong Kong championship in 1999.
After that, she entered the show business as she wished, and the first film and television work she participated in was "In Search of Qin".
Gu Tianle's version of "In Search of Qin" has a pivotal position in the entire history of film and television, so Guo Xianni also became popular with this drama.
Then, Guo Xianni became a popular actress in TVB, undertaking one film after another film and television drama, after 2010, with the sudden rise of the inland film and television industry, like many Hong Kong stars, Guo Xianni also went north to pan for gold, and her choice opened a new chapter in her life.
In the mainland, she met her husband, Zhu Shaojie.
Before knowing Zhu Shaojie, Guo Xianni also talked about many loves, but all ended in failure.
In 2003, Guo Xianni met Wen Zhaolun, who was 10 years older than herself, in the drama "Cowherd Weaver Girl", however, the relationship did not last long.
4 years later, Guo Xianni and Tao Dayu, who is 11 years older than herself, had an affair because of the play, however, Tao Dayu is a veritable scumbag, he not only concealed the fact that he had a family, but also played an underground love, and poor Guo Xianni was crowned with the title of "Little Three", and his reputation and career plummeted. This is also one of the reasons why Guo Xianni later went north to pan for gold.
Guo Xianni is very beautiful and has a very peaceful personality, however, because of this relationship with Tao Dayu, she is often caught by some media, and because of this, many people who have a crush on her and do not know her are discouraged and scattered behind. As soon as she came and went, she became a leftover woman in other people's populations.
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In 2010, Guo Xianni was 36 years old, still alone, and her mother, who was dependent on her, was anxious in her heart.
However, she saw it very openly, and in her words, she had no illusions about marriage, and it was a big deal to live with her mother for a lifetime.
This also shows how much Tao Dayu hurt her.
However, she did not expect that the god of fate would soon take care of her.
In the same year, she took over the filming of "Gong Suo Xin Yu", played the role of a concubine in the play, on the first day of entering the crew, she saw a person similar to Zhang Jiahui, she thought it was Zhang Jiahui, so she went up to say hello, it turned out that it was not, the director told her that this young man's name was Zhu Shaojie, who was a martial arts instructor.
For this "misidentification", Guo Xianni did not pay attention to it, but a few days later, Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie met again in close proximity, when Guo Xianni filmed a skating scene, and it was Zhu Shaojie who gave her a demonstration.
In this work, Zhu Shaojie not only carefully guided Guo Xianni's actions, but also cared about Guo Xianni, because during the shooting process, Guo Xianni shot more than 20 times before passing the pass, and her body fell blue and purple. In this case, Zhu Shaojie's concern for Guo Xianni is also reasonable, and how many men do not know how to pity Xiang Xiang and cherish jade?
After the filming of this scene, Zhu Shaojie went to busy with other things again, and the two people did not see each other for more than a month, but one thing is certain, Guo Xianni left a deep impression in Zhu Shaojie's heart, and this impression is beyond ordinary friendship. Of course, at this time, Guo Xianni only regarded Zhu Shaojie as an ordinary colleague.
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When the drama "Gong Suo Xin Yu" was finished, Deng Xibin, the artist coordinator of the play, suddenly found Guo Xianni, this time, he did not come to discuss the work, but acted as a matchmaker, saying that there is a good man, and guo Xianni must be let go to see.
Guo Xianni, out of friendship with Deng Xibin, was stubborn, so she agreed to meet the next day, of course, this is more of a perfunctory.
The next day, Guo Xianni accompanied Deng Xibin to the agreed café, and Guo Xianni found that the man who came to the blind date was no one else, it was Zhu Shaojie.
Although Deng Xibin did not explain much, but Guo Xianni and Zhu Shaojie's meeting this time, obviously not fate, it should be since the last cooperation, Zhu Shaojie liked Guo Xianni, so he specially invited Deng Xibin to be a matchmaker.
After a brief understanding, Guo Xianni has figured out the details of Zhu Shaojie, Zhu Shaojie, a native of Zhengzhou, Henan (the countryside below Zhengzhou), born in 1980, like Wang Baoqiang, who practiced martial arts in the Shaolin Temple, and began in 2007 as a martial arts instructor, which can also be regarded as a figure of grassroots counterattack.
Although born in the grassroots, but Zhu Shaojie is self-motivated, and many grassroots have a little money on the lights and wine, paper drunken gold fans are not the same, Zhu Shaojie is more willing to put time on calligraphy, tao cultivation of sentiment, therefore, the whole person Kong Wu powerful behind, permeated with a bit of elegance, which is different from the actors guo Xianni has previously contacted and cooperated with.
The two chatted, very speculative, Guo Xianni also had a secret affection for the young man in front of her, of course, she still asked the last question, she said: "The media often reports my scandals, are you not afraid?" ”
Obviously, this passage has scared away many people who have a crush on Guo Xianni, and Guo Xianni also knows that her love affair with Tao Dayu is the "stain" of her life.
However, a passage by Zhu Shaojie impressed Guo Xianni, who said: "After this period of contact, I think you are a kind, peaceful, and low-key person. ”
As the saying goes, seeing is believing in the ears and hearing is false, Zhu Shaojie is very familiar with the urine nature of the media, he believes in what he sees and hears, and believes in his own judgment.
Finally, he also said: "If you give me a chance, I am willing to take care of you for the rest of my life." ”
This blind date can be said to be very successful, Guo Xianni recognized Zhu Shaojie's sincerity and kindness, and decided to interact with the other party for a while.
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After filming "Gong Suo Xin Yu", Guo Xianni returned to Hong Kong and talked to her mother about this matter, her mother did not explicitly oppose it, but only raised several questions, first, the two separated two places, what to do if they are married? Second, where to settle down, Hong Kong or inland? Third, both of them are so busy, what will the child do in the future, and who will take care of it?
These questions are very realistic for the older generation, but Guo Xianni's thinking is different from the older generation, she said: "As long as you really love each other, these are not problems." ”
Love is like that, and a lot of times it doesn't take much sanity.
After that, Guo Xianni went to Beijing to participate in an event, Guo Xianni accompanied her throughout the whole process, after the event, Zhu Shaojie expressed her love to Guo Xianni, hoping that Guo Xianni could give herself a chance. Guo Xianni smiled: "Aren't we already lovers?" ”
The next thing is love, what Zhu Shaojie did not expect is that unlike many actresses who spend money like flowing water, Guo Xianni is very diligent and thrifty.
Once, the two were shopping, Guo Xianni saw a dress, very liked, but, a look at the price, in a few thousand yuan, she pulled Zhu Shaojie away. Zhu Shaojie naturally understands the heart of women who love beauty, and he insists on buying this dress, in his words, the economic strength to buy a skirt is there.
But Ms. Guo refused, believing it to be too wasteful, and she said she and her mother were renting a house in Hong Kong, and many of her clothes were cheap items bought online.
Guo Xianni's words are facts, but also words, the most fundamental reason, she understands that love is not to ask, but to understand and cherish each other. This is probably the lesson that Tao Dayu taught her! A person will really change himself for the sake of love.
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In the Spring Festival of 2011, Zhu Shaojie went to visit Guo Xianni's mother, and after finding that Guo Xianni and her mother were renting a house outside, he proposed to buy a house for Guo's mother, so that Guo's mother would not have to move frequently. So, the two took out their savings and bought a suite for Guo Mu, after this incident, Guo Mu determined that Zhu Shaojie was a reliable man, and the previous realistic considerations disappeared.
In April, the two returned to Zhu Shaojie's hometown in Henan, where the Zhu family's parents were very fond of the Hong Kong actress because she did not have any shelves, let alone the superiority of the people in the city.
In fact, like Guo's mother, before Guo Xianni came to Henan, the Zhu family's parents also had some worries, they thought that Guo Xianni was better than Zhu Shaojie in terms of fame and financial resources, how could she look up to her son. However, Zhu Shaojie insisted on identifying Guo Xianni's character.
After the family passed the pass, the two naturally married in October of that year, and after marriage, the two lived in a small house in Beijing, where Zhu Shaojie had previously purchased.
Although the living conditions are limited, there are no mansion villas, and there are no luxury cars, Guo Xianni has no complaints, on the contrary, she is very happy, and this happiness is not available before.
Guo Xianni seems to be born with the style of a virtuous wife and mother, she loves her husband, cares about her in-laws, playing money, giving gifts, this is a small meaning, after the material conditions are further improved, she offered to buy a house for her in-laws in Zhengzhou, and then the husband and wife really bought, seeing her in-laws living in a new home, she mentioned how happy she was.
The Zhu family's parents' kindness to Guo Xianni is in their eyes, in their hearts, and in their mouths, they often say to people: "My Hong Kong daughter-in-law is very filial, and treats us better than our daughters, which is a blessing that we have cultivated in our past lives." ”
Some people said that the difference between the two was too big, the marriage would not last long, and even some people said that the marriage between the two would not exceed 3 years, and some people highly praised Guo Xianni, saying that she was not a good woman who loved the rich and blessed the two.
In fact, the two have been married for 10 years, still respect each other, with the support of Guo Xianni, Zhu Shaojie's career is getting smoother and smoother, in addition, the two also have a daughter, the family is happy and harmonious. I have to say, good woman, Wang Sandai.