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If it's the first time you're at your girlfriend's house, what's the right thing to bring? China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and many occasions are indispensable to gifts, not to mention the first time to go to the girlfriend's house. According to our local customs, the two stages of the end of the year and the new new month are generally the time to give the most gifts.
A satisfactory gift will make you add a lot of points in the hearts of the other parents, if it is a bad gift, it may lead to negative points, so the gift is actually very exquisite. Next, I will give you 5 examples, you can take a look at them, so that you can easily get your father-in-law and mother-in-law.
<h1>Point 1: The image must be good. </h1>
Especially the hair should be handled well, the clothes should be dressed neatly and cleanly, and it is best not to do any tattoos on the body, etc., I myself will always be the best business card, and the gifts are just a plus. Whether you have money in your pocket or not, dress well and don't have a beard, people's first impression is crucial.
<h1>Point 2: Put a little sweetness in your mouth. </h1>
Meet people to call in time, do not know can ask your girlfriend, especially when encountering relatives and the like, they do not know you very well, but also should take the initiative to say hello, do not "three levers can not beat a fart out." When chatting, it is best to do what he likes, and he will talk to him about what he likes, of course, it is generally based on nagging.
<h1>The third point is that people should be diligent and fast. </h1>
This is not outdated in that dynasty, such as seeing the mother-in-law cooking, you can go over to help pick vegetables, and if there is anything in the family that needs help, take action in time, so that the eyes are fast. Basically, your every move will leave a deep impression on the woman's parents.
<h1>Fourth, respect each other's family tastes and living habits. </h1>
Now are free love, so the two families may be very far away, in the lifestyle and eating habits may be different, this time to pay attention to their words and deeds, especially when eating, eat unaccustomed to words do not say on the spot, so as not to be embarrassed, afterwards you can talk to your girlfriend, so it is not easy to misunderstand and contradictions.
<h1>Point five, bring a good gift, this is quite important</h1>
Gifts are best brought a little better, not too shabby, especially for the first time, which can reflect your financial strength, but also can see how much you attach importance to things, of course, this gift is also built within your ability. Some girls have said: "The first time I came to the door, the most straightforward way was to express his affection for me through etiquette."
So what gift is better? The first time I went to my girlfriend's house, I took these 4 things with me, basically no mistakes, and learned to increase knowledge!
The first gift, tea, generally speaking, you can choose Tieguanyin, or West Lake Longjing, of course, you can also choose a little old Pu'er, if you are not very familiar with tea, directly choose a small pot of tea for gifts, this is a lot of trouble.
The second gift, liquor, if you send liquor, you basically will not make a mistake, but it is recommended to send double numbers not singular, after all, good things are double, liquor to send Wuliangye and Maotai can be, these two kinds of popularity is relatively high, you can also easily see how much the price, father-in-law drink, generally will be very happy.
The third gift, cigarettes, if you do not smoke, it is recommended not to send, after all, now everyone is pursuing health, this can be inquired with your girlfriend in advance, if you smoke, send two Huazi, or send some small boxed cigarettes, the most important thing is that it looks like there must be a grade. If you don't smoke, you can choose your hometown specialties, it is best to choose a relatively high degree of acceptance, not too niche.
The fourth gift, fruit, nuts, pure milk these can be, fruits and nuts have that kind of gift pack, do not make a plastic bag to mention the past, otherwise it will feel very cheap, packaging is extreme, gift-giving will be better.
Choose these 4 gifts to send to your father-in-law and mother-in-law basically will not go wrong, of course, if you know his preferences, it is better to vote for him, this is a general gift, will not give you how many impression points, but will not subtract points, with the above four points to do together, the first impression is certainly no problem.
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