Today's single elderly people, the concept of marriage and love has changed faster than the young people, and they are still ahead of time.
A while ago, I wandered around, went to the blind date corner of several parks, and wanted to inquire about the blind date situation in the park for a single relative, and by the way, look for whether there are suitable candidates and ways.
Walking into the dense and slightly crowded crowd, on the ground or some people with personal brief information and related requirements hanging on their chests, it is really concise and clear at a glance.
Carefully read the resume from the beginning one by one, looked at a dozen eyes and spent, the neck could not be overwhelmed. At this time, there was a middle-aged woman, the badge marked Teacher Hao, and there were dozens of blind date resumes on the ground around where she was sitting.
I talked to her without a word, and only then did I learn that she was from a marriage agency, often going in and out of the blind dates of various parks to match single men and women. From her mouth, she learned that the success rate of the blind date angle is not very high, and there are several kinds of people who come here. There are those who are sincere in looking for a partner, there are those who are looking for objects for their children, there are those who hang out for fun, and there are also a few who touch fish in muddy water.
Unfortunately, Tiangong is not beautiful, a torrential rain has scattered people, and everyone hastily picked up the marriage materials with plastic covers and ran around to avoid the rain.
I wanted to go to the blind date corner again, one is to complete the entrusted task. The second is to understand more about the situation, accumulate some materials, and find that some stories are collected, but due to the reasons of the clock, the trip has not yet been made.
One day, when looking through the backpack, I suddenly found a business card, and looked closely, is this not Teacher Hao? How did I forget to ask for a business card!
So, according to the business card, I added WeChat with Teacher Hao, and she told me two stories.
Story 1:
There was a rural woman named Jiang Li, in her forties, who, after her child was admitted to college, resolutely divorced a man who was addicted to alcohol and often practiced domestic violence. Later, at the recommendation of others, he went to the city to become a live-in nanny, providing food and housing, with a monthly salary of more than 4,000 yuan.
Because of her dignified and beautiful appearance, clean work, not lazy, peaceful, well-received by employers. Over the past few years, I have changed several employers, and my monthly salary has risen to more than 6,000 yuan.
But once, she found Teacher Hao and wanted to find a suitable person to marry. She said that although the nanny has a high income, she does not have a sense of belonging, and she cannot waste all the good times. The most interesting sentence is that raising pigs and cattle is not the same as raising a retired old man.
With the efforts of Teacher Hao, Jiang Li finally got her wish, rose from a farmer to a citizen, and lived a happy life.
Story 2:
The retired white brother of the department-level official, his wife died early, his conditions are good, not only has a good culture, good health, but also has a car and a house, and his life is comfortable and rich. Of course, there are many people who propose this condition, but he just does not take this stubble.
He said there was a lot of trouble with remarriage. Opinions of children, division of property, whether people are considerable and so on. His routine is to hire a nanny, not only to solve the problem of housework, but also to accompany the nagging, in his words, there is a car and a room, and a nanny to accompany the bed, why not enjoy it!
In any way, the elderly can find their own happiness, it can be said that the progress of society, the inevitability of the times, may the single elderly sunset infinitely good, happy and youthful.
