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Today, I have been working for a new company for just half a month. This means that I have been working overtime for half a month. During the day, I followed my colleagues to think of copywriting, dragged my tired body back to my residence alone at night, and walked around the streets of Xiamen on weekends, running around to find a house and tossing and moving. Life is so monotonous that it seems that there is only one color left.
My friend was distressed and helpless several times: You really killed yourself alive. Good state-owned enterprises do not wait, comfortable days, but choose to live hard.
This stem has to start from the end of March. At that time, two offers were held in hand. On one side are state-owned enterprises that are stable and comfortable, working 7 hours a day. On the one side is the Internet company that is called "overtime maniac". Choosing the former can at least save me a lot of running and turning. The latter will undoubtedly be an end to extreme overdraft of brain cells and exhaustion of the lungs.
There have also been entanglements. Asked relatives and friends, the saying is the same: "You are a girl's family, don't think about being a strong woman, choose a state-owned enterprise, the reputation is good, and it is easy to find someone." For several days in a row, a man hid in his room thinking about it. Choosing state-owned enterprises, you can meet a smooth future: there may not be too many opportunities for promotion and salary increases, but the days will be smooth. The Internet will certainly be difficult and challenging, but it will be followed by faster growth and more professional skills.
In this world, many things can be confused, but the inner voice cannot be deceived and cannot escape.
"I'm only in my twenties, and if I keep pursuing ease from now on, how will I live the remaining decades of my life?" I am afraid of walking on the road of seeing the future every day, afraid of being accidentally eliminated by society, afraid of numbing my life day after day without surprises. In the end, I resolutely chose the "bitter" Internet company.
Despite the "scolding" in his heart, he still proudly sent a big "ox fork" to himself, turned around and plunged into the overtime torrent, leaving a gorgeous back.
After work at 11:30 last night, A person walked in the community, surrounded by silence, dizzy hair, weak body, but there was an indescribable satisfaction and steadfastness in my heart. Tired? Tired. Happy? Very happy.
Work and life is not an easy task, there are many things to fuck, but if you want to keep your inner pleasure, only one reason is enough. Because love is the existence of more than all the good things in this world.
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There will be many friends who will come out to refute: what is wrong with working in a stable and comfortable company? What's wrong with being a full-time housewife at home?
I would like to say that the so-called ease refers to the loss of "courage to fight", which is too easy to settle for the status quo and does not have the courage to take unexpected risks. It has nothing to do with your current occupation and nothing to do with your role in society. I just want to say that at an age when you can still dream, please don't choose to compromise easily.
Work is stable and easy, just choose to cultivate a love of your own in your spare time. It may be a dream that you have been longing for when you were young, but you can't reach it because of external forces such as economy and school. It may be writing, dancing, music, or even skating.
As long as it is what you like, can make you better, can improve your happiness index, should be supported, once practiced, you can boldly exclude yourself from the "muddy" circle.
What a beautiful housewife with a dream? You can always understand the home information for the first time, and dress up the nest warmly and stylishly. While you are taking children, you do not forget to pay attention to education and knowledge, and at the same time raise children, you become a more knowledgeable and reasonable self. Although you live in the palace, you can know the world's affairs through the Internet and other channels.
You also have your own hobbies and dreams, whether it is writing, micro-business or something else, a way to make you financially independent. Such "ease" is not a kind of "ease" that deserves to be vigorously promoted?
In short: all the "ease" that makes you different is "pseudo-ease". The tears and pain behind this ease are not felt by many people, but you bravely choose to persevere.
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Why refuse to have a so-called comfortable life? Because of the fear of the tragedy of "the body is still there, the heart dies first".
At an age when you can still dream, you will definitely choose "dreamless" wandering. Repeated daily monotony, the young brain becomes a decaying machine. No desire and no demand, named "indifferent", but also full of pride: I am in a good state of mind. However, what is the essential difference between such a life and the walking dead?
Why do I refuse to have a so-called comfortable life? Because I want to save the capital that is really comfortable in old age when I still have the strength to toss hard. Because, all your future can only be paid for by yourself. The ease of the present will surely be the tragic end of old age and weakness and vicissitudes.
Why refuse to have a so-called comfortable life? Because life is only once, short and unique. I don't want to leave on any day, full of regrets, I don't want to look at it. In order to be able to create their own infinite value in a limited life. In order to satisfy the curiosity of the heart about the world step by step, he left safely at the end of his life.
The things that make me truly appreciate the meaning of life and make me physically and mentally happy, I want to try it hard in the best years, even if it is full of scars, so what.
At an age when you can still dream, do you really not feel sorry for choosing to give up so easily?