In June 2020, a short video of more than ten seconds went viral on the Internet, showing a woman slapping a child with a bicycle on the streets of Xi'an. The two people in the video are mother-daughter relationship, because the family is divorced, the mother pours all the anger and resentment in her heart on her daughter, who is often beaten and abused.
Compared with the daughter in this report, the little heroine Qiu Qiu (Played by Ni Yuanyuan) in this movie 31 years ago is still lucky, although her parents are divorced, but at least Qiu Qiu has not been scolded and abused.
Released in 1990, "Extra Girl" does not have too many contradictions and conflicts in the film, and the story revolves around a 6-year-old girl, Qiu Qiu. Qiu Qiu's parents divorced, her mother formed a new family, and Qiu Qiu lived with her father.
<h1>At her mother's house, Qiu Qiu felt rejected</h1>
Every time Qiu Qiu followed her mother, she had to carry her uncle on her back. Seeing Qiu Qiu appear at home, uncle and mother will quarrel. The uncle even locked his mother in the bathroom and drove the feverish Qiu Qiu out of the house.
Qiu Qiu knew that her uncle hated himself. In this new home of the mother, the mother can not be the master to leave herself, and her own appearance will only make the uncle and the mother have more quarrels. Although my mother still loves herself, my mother still has to take care of her uncle's feelings.
In the mother's house, Qiu Qiu is an unpopular, ostracized child.
<h1>In front of Daddy's girlfriend, Qiu Qiu is a hidden existence</h1>
Dad's new girlfriend, not looking for a man with kids. In order to have a family again, Qiu Qiu's existence was concealed by his father.
Qiu Qiu, who wants to go home, sees his father's panicked appearance and can only claim to be the child of the neighbor's family. Although Dad loves Qiu Qiu,
But the existence of Autumn and Autumn has become a stumbling block to Dad's establishment of a new family.
<h1>At Grandma's house, autumn is superfluous</h1>
Dad is busy in love, has no time to take care of Qiu Qiu, and does not have the energy to hide the existence of Qiu Qiu all the time, so he can only ask colleagues to help send Qiu Qiu to Grandma's house.
Qiu Qiu is a girl who cannot be valued by her grandparents, and what they like is still their grandchildren. Several uncles have several children and do not have the energy to take care of Qiu Qiu. Not only did the children bully Qiu Qiu; several uncles and aunts also quarreled because they took care of Qiu Qiu.
Grandma said that the newborn daughter of the uncle's family was superfluous, and Qiu Qiu naturally thought of herself. The same girls, the same lack of love.
Grandma's family values sons over daughters, and regards Qiu Qiu as a burden, which makes Qiu Qiu feel that she is superfluous.
Fortunately, at the end of the film, through the departure of Qiu Qiu, dad finally woke up to the fact that raising Qiu Qiu is more important than re-establishing a family. And Dad's girlfriend also accepted the existence of Qiu Qiu, which can be described as a happy ending.
Autumn in the movie is lucky. But in reality, many parents divorced "autumn autumn" is not so lucky. For example, as mentioned at the beginning of the article, the girl in the video, whose parents are divorced, although she follows her biological mother, is brutally abused. For example, the children exposed on the Internet were beaten by stepmothers and biological fathers.
Parents divorce, and the most hurt is often the children. In the choice between self-happiness and children, parents are most likely to ignore their children's feelings.
Many times, when parents divorce, children become a stumbling block to both parents and seek happiness again.
What is exposed on the Internet may be only a small part of the encounter of "Autumn and Autumn", and more "Autumn and Autumn" may be wandering away from the father's home, the mother's home, the grandmother's home, the grandmother's home, no matter where they go, they are worried about being rejected, and they feel that they are always the superfluous one.
May parents in the world think more about their children, and do not let their children taste the pain of life from an early age.