There are many factors that affect people's success, there are objective factors, there are subjective reasons, objective is often not easy to change, and the subjective main lies in themselves, such as: everyone's subsection will affect a person's success, sometimes bring frustration, even harm, that is, the subsection determines the success or failure of the truth, Xiaobian will collect 40 daily subsections, hoping to bring inspiration to everyone.
1． "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up" was put forward by Confucius.
2． The basic requirements for dress for different occasions are as follows: official occasions should be solemn and conservative, social occasions should be fashionable and personalized, and leisure occasions should be comfortable and natural.
3． The three-color principle is the basic principle of choosing the color of formal wear, and its meaning is: the color of formal wear should be less in general, and it is best to control it within three colors.
4． When men wear suits, they should pay attention to the "Trinity Law", shoes, belts, briefcases should be controlled in one color, and black is the first choice. When men wear suits, the color should be dark, preferably dark blue; the color of the shirt, the best color is white.
5． On formal occasions, when men wear single-breasted suit tops, two buttons should be tied with one on the top, and three buttons should be tied in the middle or two, and unbuttoned when sitting down; When a woman wears a suit and skirt, the buttons of the top should be fully buttoned.
6． In principle, there should be no more than three types of jewelry to wear, and each should not exceed two pieces.
7． After the tie is tied, its outside side should be longer than the inside. Its standard length should be that the lower end just touches the upper end of the belt buckle, and on formal occasions, the men's belt cannot hang anything.
8． Cases where ties should not be worn include: when wearing a short-sleeved shirt, when wearing a jacket, when wearing a long-sleeved shirt alone, and when wearing a buttoned collar shirt. Exceptions are made for uniforms.
9． When using salutations in interpersonal communication, we must avoid the following 6 kinds of disrespectful and wrong practices: wrong salutations, outdated salutations, unconventional salutations, inappropriate industry salutations, vulgar and low-level salutations, and nicknames.
10． When introducing others, the "principle of giving priority to his holiness to understand the situation" should be observed, and the order of introduction should be: first introduce the younger to the elderly; first introduce the junior to the elderly; first introduce the man to the lady; first introduce the unmarried to the married; first introduce the family to colleagues and friends; first introduce the host to the guest; first introduce the latecomer to the first; first introduce the subordinate to the superior; First introduce the position and the low status to the position and the high status.
11． As the reception staff of the conference, when the guests and the host meet for the first time, they should not distinguish between men and women, regardless of age, regardless of the level of the position, and should first introduce the host to the guests, so that the guests can understand the situation first.
12． According to the norms of social etiquette, when shaking hands, His Holiness first extends his hand to "initiate" the handshake.
13． The main taboos of shaking hands: do not shake hands with others with your left hand; do not wear gloves, sunglasses, and hats when shaking hands; do not hold things in the other hand while shaking hands and refuse to put them down; do not talk at length when shaking hands; do not only hold the tip of each other's fingers when shaking hands; do not wipe your palms immediately after shaking hands with people; do not refuse to shake hands with others.
14． When you deliver a business card to someone, you should face it head-on.
15． In normal social interaction, the etiquette requirements that should be followed when talking to people are: do not interrupt each other, do not supplement each other, do not correct each other, do not question each other, and do not ridicule each other.
16． In talking to people, we must pay attention not to talk about content that is biased and wrong, not to talk about content that involves the privacy of others, not to talk about content involving state and industry secrets, and not to talk about vulgar and low-level content.
17． After the phone is connected, the person answering the phone should first greet the caller politely, and in general, His Holiness hangs up the phone first.
18． When making a phone call, you should observe the etiquette: the time is appropriate, the content is concise, and the performance is civilized. When answering the phone, the etiquette that should be observed: timely answering, active greeting, response to modesty, and clear priority.
19． When the chief guest is traveling, the two are parallel, and the right is honored; the three people are parallel, and the middle is honored; the three people walk forward and backward, and the former is honored.
20． When going out in a car with others, his Holiness usually goes first when getting on the bus, and generally after His Holiness when getting off the bus.
21． As a receptionist, if the guest is familiar with the environment, the reception staff walks behind the guest; if the guest is not familiar with the environment, the reception staff walks in front of the guest's left.
22． When the elevator is manned, the reception staff should enter and exit; When taking an unattended elevator, the reception staff should go first and back in order to control the elevator. Accompany guests to take unmanaged elevators, in order to show courtesy, guests should be allowed to enter the elevator afterwards.
23． The etiquette norms that should be followed in public places are: observing order, neat appearance, paying attention to hygiene, respecting the elderly and loving children, and courteous to ladies.
24． Participants should pay attention to the etiquette: dress neatly, behave generously; enter on time, enter and exit in an orderly manner; listen carefully to the lecture and record in time; applaud and greet whenever the speech is wonderful or ending; leave the venue halfway, light hands and feet, do not disturb others; when the meeting is in progress, the mobile phone should be turned off or adjusted to silent mode. Take your seat from the left side of your seat when you are seated.
25． To watch the game, you must enter early or on time, abide by the order, queue up to enter, and you cannot move around freely during the game. When watching the game, if the audience thinks that the referee is unfair, it should be treated rationally and with restraint.
26． It is not advisable to leave the show in the theater, if you need to leave the show, it should be arranged between the curtains or after the end of a program.
27． Visiting museums and art galleries is generally forbidden to take pictures, and those who are allowed to take pictures are also prohibited from using flash, so when visiting, we must pay attention to complying with relevant regulations.
28． You cannot use your mobile phone while driving in a car or while flying, and you cannot use your mobile phone at a gas station.
29． When participating in the buffet banquet, when picking up dishes again, you should not use the plates that have already been used, but use the new plates.
30． When using chopsticks to take dishes and eat, you need to pay attention to: do not "lick", "contain" chopsticks, do not "cross" chopsticks, do not "insert" chopsticks, do not "dance" chopsticks.
31． On official occasions, when individuals enter and exit the room, they should gently push, gently pull, and close the door with their hands, and must not do the work for other parts of the body.
32． It is more appropriate to visit others in 15-30 minutes. The host should generally send the guest out of view and then turn away.
33． When queuing, it is best to maintain a spacing of 0.5-1 meters between people, and cannot be close to another person, with the front chest against the back.
34． The "six civilizations" activities mainly refer to: civilized service, civilized law enforcement, civilized management, civilized transportation, civilized tourism, and civilized dining table.
35． "Six civilized traffic behaviors" refers to: motor vehicles give way to zebra crossings, motor vehicles queue up in order, motor vehicles park in an orderly manner, civilized use of headlights, pedestrians and non-motorized vehicles go their own way, pedestrians, non-motorized vehicles cross the street to comply with the signal.
36． The "six major traffic habits" refer to: motor vehicles arbitrarily changing lanes, occupying emergency lanes, driving mobile phones, not wearing seat belts, driving motorcycles without helmets, and pedestrians crossing the street across isolation facilities.
37． "Ten civilized tourism behaviors" refers to: maintaining environmental sanitation; abiding by public order; protecting the ecological environment; loving cultural relics and monuments; cherishing public facilities; and respecting the rights of others; Pay attention to treating people with courtesy; pay attention to fire safety; advocate healthy entertainment; respect local customs and habits.
38． The "Top Ten Bad Tourist Habits" refers to: scribbling and scribbling on cultural relics and monuments; cultural relics and monuments not taking pictures according to regulations; lack of time concept of collective action; unorganized and chaotic queues; spitting and defecating on the ground at any time; foul language and fighting; littering; noisy and loud conversation; trampling on the lawn to pick flowers and fruits; defacing guest room supplies and damaging public facilities.
39． Civilized dining advocates green consumption and achieves rational consumption: order on demand, practice economy, oppose waste, do not leaveovers, and eat incomplete packaging.
40． Table civilized etiquette includes: etiquette and order when sitting down; civility and courtesy when eating, pay attention to hygiene; use more "public chopsticks and spoons", less use of disposable chopsticks; consciously abide by public moral norms, do not wantonly make noise, do not drink alcohol, do not persuade alcohol, and do not drink when driving, do not drive after drinking.
Finally, Xiaobian hopes that these 40 small energy savings will bring you another scene in your life and career.