Book Review: Advice for Life, George. Lorimer this article focuses on the leading idea of the essay "Focus on Subsections".
This book advocates that in human life, small things always lead to great results. Those who do not do small things will not be able to achieve big things; why sweep the world without sweeping a house: those who speak in a young age will talk nonsense for life; those who drink and indulge in small drinks will later become drunkards; those who are impure in their thoughts will be burdened by carnal desires.
This book repeatedly emphasizes: pay attention to sub-sections, we can not ignore the importance of clothing, although no matter how fashionable the style of a hat, how fine the workmanship of a coat, can not make our thoughts and morals get a little sublimation, but do not forget that people always make a first impression through their appearance, and the first impression is difficult to completely indelible in a person's mind. Therefore, if we care about our personal value, we cannot think that the style and personality of the clothing are irrelevant.
A few rude behaviors may only be accidental, but others will also think that you are also vulgar in other aspects. In any case, it is very harmful to turn a blind eye to small problems, and over time, the body will become accustomed to certain vices, and the mind will slowly degenerate, because habitually doing a certain thing will form a mindset in the brain, and even affect a person's soul.
This book reminds people not to think that a small amount of money, a little time, a few gossip, or a slight act of insignificance is a very fatal misconception. At this point, for those who don't care about the subsections and think that small things are irrelevant, I have to quote a very cultivated friend: "I am shocked by those who are not aware of their own problems and do not reflect."
Tomato message: For us, whether in life or work, we should always develop the habit of "paying attention to the subsection", because every unpleasant occurrence in life or the mistakes made at work are the embodiment of our lack of attention to the subsection, and I hope that readers and friends will taste and ponder.
He who has impure thoughts will be burdened by carnal desires. Recently, female netizens and men met for the first time to point 20,000 hot pots, and the incident of men running away triggered a hot discussion on the whole network. The thing is this, Ningbo Ms. Yang and netizens rushed to the two to eat at the so-called most expensive hot pot restaurant in Ningbo, "the most pot". A king crab, a plate of wagyu beef, a bottle of Rafi... One meal down the operation cost a small twenty thousand. The boyfriend excused himself to go to the bathroom and never returned.
From the incident, we learned some identity characteristics, in the circle of friends, the man packaged himself as a gold post-95, in fact, it is just a second-hand car shop staff, a monthly salary of several thousand yuan, per capita consumption of 1200 yuan hot pot restaurant, he can not afford to spend.
The woman, on the other hand, packaged herself as a celebrity, often posting glamorous life and work photos in the self-media, but in fact she was just a flat model. In fact, behind the incident, it can be seen that men's greed and women's greed for money have their own plans.
It can be said that the purpose of the two meetings is not pure in itself, and the woman obviously has the psychology of slaughtering customers, and the result will be burdened by carnal desire.
In the work, do not pay attention to the errors that occur in the subsections. There are many places where problems are more likely to occur in the work, simple examples, the regularity of some important documents in our work, and whether we have developed the habit of storing specific files in a specific location, if not, some important files are stored in the document at will, when we have some days, when we need to take out a glance, will we be busy for a while and can't find where the files are?
At this time, I will not be upset that if I put important files in a specific location, I can find them immediately, in fact, this is one of the series of problems caused by not paying attention to details.
In addition, in the process of editing the text, whether we pay attention to details, check word by word, confirm that there are no typos and sentence problems, and then hand it over to the leader, the evaluation will be very different.
Pay attention to the sub-section in order to get the recognition and reassurance of the leader's trust, which is the goal that our subordinates should tirelessly pursue.
The difference between two toll collectors in the hospital, just from the hairstyle, we can see who pays more attention to the subsection. In life, we must have a strong ability to observe and analyze the great impact of small changes on us.
One day I went to the eye hospital to check my vision, went to the toll window registration, saw two windows of female toll collectors, one is a middle division of hairstyle and their own hair coiled up with clips neatly groomed, hair texture is dark and delicate, giving people a feeling of very capable and diligent, in a lady to register the initiative to ask, do you have any needs? The lady replied, I want to check my vision, and the toll collector asked if you were coming to our eye hospital for the first time? Do you have a registered book? Doctors need to register your visit. The lady replied, well I came for the first time, there is no registered book I want a copy.
And I was in another registration window, this female toll collector, left short hair, very fluffy, hair yellow and messy, giving people a feeling of relatively coarse leaves, only asked me, what number do you hang, I replied to check the vision, she directly swiped the card to point to the direction where the doctor's office is located, let me go, wait until I just arrived at the door of the doctor's office, a nurse asked me, do you bring a registration book? The doctor has a registered book to fill in the diagnostic information for you, if not, you need to go to the registration window for one dollar to buy.
At that time, I was very angry, so that I ran in vain, the toll collector did not ask me if I was the first time, asked me if I needed to buy this, I came to your hospital for the first time and did not understand anything, hey, how does this serve.
In fact, as long as I ask me when registering, this action of paying attention to subsections can save me a lot of time and energy. To bring it up now is to explain to the readers and friends the great significance of paying attention to the subsection for us, and nothing else.
Focus on observing "the eye is the window of the mind" In life I don't know if you have paid attention to the observation, everyone's eyes. Some people have bright eyes, some people have listless eyes, some people have particularly bright eyes, and when you look, it is very attractive to you. Some people's eyes seem to be dim and dull, and you can't raise a little interest when you look at it.
The difference between this can be observed in the "Attention Section". That kind of piercing eyes represent a kind of person- with a poetic and bookish atmosphere in his belly. They have deep thoughts and different pursuits of life, giving the impression that they unconsciously want to get closer and want to understand this magical, different inner world, and then vice versa.
Finally, the advice of life, we should always pay attention to the small sections, to see the big picture of ourselves. Because in life and work, we do not need to pay attention to sub-sections all the time, so that the affairs we deal with are successfully completed and make our lives more comfortable and beautiful.