Two days ago, I saw a video, at three o'clock in the morning, my son played a game without sleeping, and his father called him up and took him to the vegetable market to see a human firework.
At that time, it was raining lightly, but the market at four o'clock in the morning was already brightly lit.
Some people guarded the vegetable stalls with umbrellas, and some people fiddled with fruits and vegetables sent with searchlights on their heads.
More people are burying their heads and stacking the stalls neatly.
Father asked: Do you know why these people don't sleep?
The son replied: For the sake of life, for the sake of making money.
And life is not like this, the world is panicked, but the figure of broken silver a few two, but this broken silver a few two, can solve the world's tens of thousands of panic.
Whether it's a wine table at one o'clock in the morning, a sentry at two o'clock, a farm at three o'clock, a wet market at four o'clock, a street at five o'clock...
Many are people who are running for life, who want to sleep but can't sleep.
There has never been a job in this world that is easy, and there is no job that is not wronged.
I've seen a news like this:
Early in the morning, a takeaway guy slept on the street.
When I asked, he had to get up at 3 o'clock every morning to deliver food, and worked until seven or eight o'clock when the order was less, so that he could squint at the fitness equipment in the park for a while.
So why not go home and rest?
Wouldn't the bed at home be more comfortable?
He said: Because I still have to go to work at ten o'clock. Sleeping like this saves time on the way to and from the road.
Day after day, year after year, I don't know how many more times the delivery guy will have to go through the early morning hours of getting up at three o'clock and how long he will sleep on the park bench.
But I know that the time saved in this way can help him send a few more orders and earn a few more dollars.
What is even more aggrieved is that it is not only possible to rest like this.
When it came to bad customer reviews, the little brother did not hold back for a while and cried out.
He said that for every time a customer gave a bad review, he would be fined 100 yuan.
100 pieces, which is equivalent to a day of white drying.
He has also been fined two or three times, sometimes encountering slow eating businesses, traffic jams on the road, the community does not let in, obviously do not complain about themselves, but no matter how he explains, no one listens.
He covered his eyes helplessly, doing this job, there was no guarantee of making more money and less money, and there were too many grievances.
Can it be done without this grievance?
I remembered a sentence I had read not long ago:
When you are wronged, you want to go home, and if your job is not smooth, you want to resign.
However, home is not to be able to go back if you want to, you have to have money, and you can quit your job if you want to quit, after all, life needs money.
The adult world has never fallen everywhere, and there is a supporting force behind it.
Most of the time, who is not wounded while healing themselves.
There is no job that is not wronged, and no one's life can be smooth.
The salary and growth brought about by every job will always be accompanied by grievances and hardships.
In every job, there are grievances that are difficult to express to outsiders, and hardships that others cannot understand.
Your salary includes a part of the grievance fee.
In the past two days, there is a big brother in Shanghai who is on fire.
Suspected of having a seizure, he did not stand still and fainted in the iron carriage, his face covered in blood.
The subway crew quickly rescued him from the car, and wanted to take him to the hospital, but the first thing the eldest brother said when he woke up was that I wanted to go to work.
Many people can't help but cry when they see the video, remembering their past as workers.
There's a passage that goes like this—
Two people rode into each other and quarreled there.
One said: You rode so fast to go to reincarnation!
Another humorous saying: I can drag on for a minute in a hurry to reincarnate, I am in a hurry to work, and I am late for a minute and a day in vain.
Suddenly, neither of them spoke.
Yes, other things can be delayed, except for the work, the score of the second must be.
The adult world is so much sad that you can't understand it.
It may be a minute late, deducting a month's full attendance award provision.
It may be a subsidy to get up early and be greedy, just to earn two hundred dollars more.
In the face of the pressure of life, we can't even say a word of "take care of the body".
I think of a big brother Liu in Zibo, Shandong, who is engaged in dangerous high-altitude construction work.
Every day, you need to hang a rope and work at a high altitude for 9 hours.
A year later, you can earn sixty or seventy thousand yuan.
Many people don't understand, how dangerous, why so fight.
Brother Liu told the story of his son, who said that his son was in junior high school and ate in the canteen every day and ate very little.
One day he couldn't help but ask his son: Why haven't you eaten?
The son replied: It is not easy for you to earn money outside, so I will eat less.
As he spoke, the 35-year-old couldn't help but blush.
Yes, in order for the child to have a full meal, so that he can study well, he faces the heat and danger.
Work brought him exhaustion, grievances, and dangers, and at the same time gave him the strength to support the life of his whole family.
Many times we say that those who can make a lot of money and can support their families are so powerful, but they ignore that behind every glamorous beauty, there are efforts and persistence that no one knows.
Money is the confidence of adults, and it is also the resistance of adults when facing risks.
I read a survey report asking seniors over the age of 60: What is the one thing you regret the most in your life?
Among them, 75% of the answer is: when they were young, they did not work hard enough, resulting in nothing.
Effort is not so simple to say.
Not only does it require you to overcome inertia and have long- and short-term goals, but more importantly, to be undisturbed by negative emotions.
And this kind of emotion of grievance is the easiest to consume a person's fighting spirit.
I've seen people who, within a few months of joining the company, were criticized by their bosses for leaving.
I've also seen people who swallow grievances, turn them into execution, and move forward ahead.
To put it bluntly, this emotion of grievance is something that no one can avoid.
If we want to have a head in life, if we don't regret it when we are old, the only thing we can do is to convert these bad emotions into execution.
I once heard an entrepreneur talk about his experience.
When he first started his business, many people around him looked down on him, and he went to the lobby of the hotel to shine the shoes of passing guests, the kind of kneeling.
Also because of the entry and exit of various office buildings to promote products, more than once was driven out of the door.
Former classmates watched him on his knees and shined his shoes, laughing at his facelessness behind his back.
He had thought about giving up, but giving up meant achieving nothing, fighting forward, and perhaps there was a glimmer of life.
With the contempt of the people around you, overcoming the inferiority in the depths of your heart, and overcoming the grievances that spread from time to time, it became a must-do thing for a while.
Later, when his career was small, he said to me:
At that time, even if others looked down on me, I tried my best to control myself and not to take care of myself.
With this momentum, he caught the first pot of gold, opened his first store, and promised his wife a good life, and he did it.
Every time I was wronged at work, I always thought of him at that time.
Allow emotions to spread, and in the end, you can only consume your own heart.
Temporarily abandon emotions, turn them into motivation to move forward, and perhaps, you can really get the achievements you want.
The CEO of Logical Thinking said:
There are always a lot of dilemmas in life, if you are entangled between doing and not doing, then, do not repeat the deduction, do it immediately.
Life is never anything that will go on forever, happy, the past is not enough to hang on, optimistic and positive, the future will surely be prosperous.
There is a passage on the Internet that is very true:
Hard work to make money, not because of the love of money.
But in this life, I don't want to be inferior to anyone because of money, and I don't want to embarrass anyone because of money.
I only hope that when my parents are old, I can have the ability to share; when my children need it, I will not be shy.
Working well when you are young and making more money can not only fill your inner troubles, but also bring your family a sense of security.
Life is still a long way, may you adjust your mentality in the remaining days, work hard, work hard for the things you like, do your best for the people you protect, and make your life worthwhile.
Don't forget, work can bring grievances.
But the rewards it brings can cure insecurity.
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