"Only women and villains are difficult to raise" This is an old saying, once quite confusing, villains are difficult to raise well to understand, how can women be difficult to raise???
I am not highly educated, and if I have a crooked understanding, I will not spray the officials.
During the feudal period, the social status of women was not high, and there were not many opportunities for ordinary women to learn cultural knowledge (poor families are exempt from talking). Most of them accept three from four virtues, the door is right, the words of the matchmaker, marrying a chicken with a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog, passing on the generations, not filial piety has three, no queen is great, no talent is the indoctrination of feudal ideas such as morality... The status of men and women is hugely different, and a woman is a woman.
There are also some court officials and eunuchs, rich landlords, and women from well-off families who have the conditions to receive cultural education, piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and music, can broaden their horizons, have their own thoughts and subjective judgment awareness, that is, intellectual women, such women are called women (personal foolishness, do not spray).
"Only women and villains are difficult to raise." Does the ancients' sentence that ranks women before villains mean that women are more difficult to raise? I don't know how many years this phrase has been around. I don't know who said this.
Well-known women from ancient times to the present are listed: Dai Ji, Bao Ji, Fei Yan, Hede, Lü Yan, Xi Shi, Sable Cicada, Yu Huan, Zhaojun, Mei Niang, Qing Zhao, Shi Niang, Xiao Zhuang, Xi Fei, Cixi... Villains, all the dynasties and dynasties have (not to repeat)......... Their legends, their influences... As later generations know, women and villains are involved in a wide range, some are government, some are civil, some are contributing, some are destructive, some are benevolent, some are cruel, some are clean, some are dirty, some are famous and leave history, some are disasters to the country and the people... Was this sentence made up by the ancients without evidence and catching the wind and catching shadows?? I think it's the crystallization of wisdom!
In the course of China's thousands of years of historical inheritance, wars and chaos have been continuous, people are difficult to talk about, foreign enemies have invaded, killing and slaughtering, and the population is growing positively, so that China has become a big country. Nowadays, peace and prosperity, equality between men and women, there is an embarrassing situation of population decline, and it turns out that it is not the fault of men.
Just 100 years so far, divorced, unmarried, leftover women, otaku, no birth, mother cannon, lying flat... Strange social phenomena emerge endlessly, are men becoming villains, or women becoming women? So hard to raise?
Women marry, men marry too!
Women leftovers also! Villain waste also!
"Only women and villains are difficult to raise"