Everyone is born actively or passively discarding something and getting something.
We are stagnant at the crossroads of life, difficult to make choices, afraid of loss, and afraid of missing some opportunities.
But in fact, no matter how you weigh and think, you will eventually miss something, after all, people can only choose one path, and it is impossible to take several completely opposite roads at the same time.
People who live thoroughly, or people who succeed, actually know two words: willing to give. Not reluctantly, small houses are small, big houses are big.
If people want to get something that they didn't have, they have to give up something that they already have or will have.
It is not difficult to find that successful people in life have given up many things that ordinary people are difficult to give up or cannot think of giving up at all.
This is related to the ability of individuals to understand, some people are smart and witty, do things vigorously, success will naturally find him, but some people are too greedy, the fate of the single choice question as a multi-choice question to do, and finally all wrong, nothing was found.
Fate gives people different choice questions, but it is similar, whether you want to make a choice or not, fate will push you to your own life trajectory, just like the car arrives at the station, you have to get off the car and run to the next target point, you can't hesitate to be sad.
All the pain and anxiety in life stems from one's own reluctance. Remember, life must first have "giving" before there is "gain".
01
In life, you must first be willing to spend time learning before you can get knowledge.
The ocean of knowledge is very vast, some people like such a vast ocean, they are willing to spend time on learning, and eventually become the praise of others.
And some people are very afraid of knowledge, they are pushed down the ocean of knowledge by the public, but they can't swim, they don't know how to ask others for help, they struggle with themselves, they refuse to give up their worthless face, and eventually sink into the deep seabed.
Those who are willing to spend time on learning are very intelligent, and they have realized the truth of "giving up to get" at a very early age.
So when Fate released the multiple choice question, they immediately chose the answer that was most suitable for them, and then quickly entered their own life track.
Some people stagnate in front of multiple choice questions, and do not reluctantly make a choice until the end of the answer time, but others have already entered the next choice intersection.
This is how the gap between people is widened, some people always like to be a little ahead, and some people like to make a choice when the deadline is approaching.
02
In life, we must first give up greed that should not exist, in order to get a peaceful and comfortable life.
Many people say that they just want to live their ordinary lives well, but their actions are not like this, and their greed and desire are expressed in their actions.
They always say that they want to return to the mountains and feel the beauty of nature, but they refuse to give up their desire for power, and they are not even willing to go from the crowded cities to the quiet and pleasant mountain villages.
Perhaps they understand the truth of "willingness", but they still choose greed, give up comfort, choose to continue to grow desire, and give up a dull life.
If you want to have a good time, let go of unwanted desires and embrace sincere nature.
Don't complain about the helplessness of life one day and continue to lie in this tempting environment.
03
In life, we must first be willing to suffer losses, and only then will we get the help of precious experience and nobles.
No one should dare to stand up and say that they have never suffered losses, if anyone really dares, it is either overconfident or dishonest.
No matter which field the best people must have suffered losses, but also because of the loss of a lot of things, sometimes loss is just to get, people who have never lost, do not dare to say that they really got something.
On the one hand, they have a good mentality and never feel that they are bullied; on the other hand, they will gain experience because of losses, and some luck can also get help from nobles.
Life is a process of continuous summarization, loss is the most important link in this process, there is no born success, there is no eternal failure, balance the two well, you can create a miracle.
epilogue:
Giving up something may not be able to get what you want most, but if you don't give it at all, you can't grasp anything, and this principle is the same as people looking for a way out.
When people lose their way on an unfamiliar road, if they stay in the same place and do not walk, they may be starved to death, or other accidents, but if people dare to take the step of searching, there is a great chance of getting lost and finding the right truth.
Only by abandoning fear and embarking on an uncertain path can we get the right guidance.
Embark on the road of life, then you must have the courage to make a choice, have the ability to bear the pain of loss, never give up on yourself, never give up the passion to learn new knowledge, such a life is truly valuable, but also the most fun.
People will lose a lot of things in this life, but they must not lose themselves, and people who give up on themselves will never get half of the pity and help of others, and will only get worse and worse.
Life is a vast life, life does not bring, death does not bring, look down on gains and losses, is the biggest gain of your life.