Recently I don't know why there are more and more bloggers selling emotional courses now, there may not be anything wrong with its existence, the world is big, there are no surprises, but there are more and more young people willing to buy such courses, and is this really a good phenomenon? From the ambiguous period, the hot love period, the breakup period will have the corresponding tutor teaching, this feeling is like their own life has been manipulated, making people feel terrible, although CCTV has exposed that some of the emotional retention masters in the network platform belong to network fraud.
This kind of behavior is slowly decreasing, let me take you back to reality, to see if such people in real life can get love and happiness.
Two days ago, a friend of mine, Vivi, told me that recently a boy pursued her, but she had clearly rejected him, but after being rejected again, the boy was still not dead hearted, and also found an emotional master from the Internet channel to help.
Opened a new round of pursuit of her, in a fortuitous situation, Wei Wei knew about the emotional master, resolutely left, deleted the other party's number, contact information, and never met him again, Wei Wei felt terrible, you said that even love needs others to teach people, he shows only the look that most girls like, think of a person who sleeps with himself, but can never see how terrible things he is, love is born from like, and use other means to achieve love, Will simply like into possession, through their own efforts to please you but also want to harvest the same return, this is not the embodiment of liking, very fortunate That Vivi found, but also admire her decisiveness, like is originally I like you, I will let you feel, if you like each other is lucky, if you don't like me, it doesn't matter, you are happy is very good, this should be the real meaning of liking, not the possession of all means.
Remembering an old movie I once watched: "National Love Enemy", Shish is a "love expert", full-time for all kinds of men to solve emotional problems, the protagonist of the movie Albert is his client, is an accountant, ordinary and a little rubbing Albert liked the goddess level female star Cole, under the hands-on teaching of Shish, he chased Cole as desired, but the lie will always be exposed, when the two people live happily, he is a Shish customer, but the matter was accidentally exposed, Cole felt that he was deceived, Fooled, immediately chose to break up with him, and cut off all contact, Albert was very sad, did not know how to deal with this matter, felt guilty Shish found Cole, apologized to her, in the process of chatting, Cole said that Albert was personable, but she loved indeed the clumsy Albert, not Hirth's trained Albert, and finally the misunderstanding was lifted, and Albert and Cole got back together. Love is not that you become the best appearance in front of me, but two people sincerely wait to slowly get along with the emotions of the rub out, the illusion can not be permanent, only sincerity is the cornerstone of the long-term feelings, you do not need to deliberately change, some people just love your true appearance.
I can understand the feeling of powerlessness when the people I like don't like themselves, I can also understand the feelings of some people, if you really love her, please be gentle, sincere, you have worked hard to fight, do not get and do not regret, one day you will also meet a person, he crossed the mountains just to see you,
He may be clumsy, he may not be very good at talking, he may not be romantic enough, but he is also just loving you in his own way, a little more inclusive, a little more considerate.
You just have to be yourself and there will always be someone who loves you.