Book Title: Fun in the World
Author: Cai Lan
Reading time: 3.5 hours
Recommended Index: ☆☆☆☆☆
Self-prologue Life is really fun
Young people, always have a little ideal, always have a little ambition, always have a little bit of want to do, do it as much as possible!
Paper bags
It is a great pleasure to see the rise of Japanese women, who have been suppressed for thousands of years, and in the twenty-first century, in a civilized, developed, and open society, it is a big joke that women are still slaves.
Write signboards
Whenever you encounter troubles, you write the Heart Sutra. Beforehand, I will be respectful and respectful, sit down, copy it word by word, and after writing it, it is like a cloud opening to the moon, a hundred flowers blooming, and the body and mind are comfortable.
Dragonflies are capricious
The hatching process of some dragonflies may last from three to five years, but once they are dehulled and grown, they only have a few months of lifespan, flying all day and playing all day, which is really good.
Not only can it stop, but dragonflies are the only flying animals that can fly backwards and can also fly up and down left and right.
Cat phase
Whether a cat is cute or not depends on its head, and the one with the big head will make people like it; the one with the small head will be annoying.
Luminous clocks
Punctuality is a virtue that my father taught me and observes to this day.
Sugar Tachibana
When you have a stomach full of resentment, it is best to go to the market. Early this morning, when I arrived at Chunyang Street, I saw everyone buying vegetables and felt a burst of warmth, which was sent out by the people who loved life. This is one of the cheapest wet markets in Hong Kong, and the so-called wet market is not concentrated in a single building, but the vegetable stalls and fish stalls on both sides of the road, with a large number of customers.
Noodle soup
Second-rate restaurants, vacuum-packed for guests to eat, better than making their own. Shark fin soup is expensive, but replacing it with cheap canned shark fin soup is, on the one hand, also negative environmental protection, and it is not necessary to kill so many sharks.
cherry
Occasional indulgence is a good thing. But to indulge, first learn to clean up. Will not clean up, is not qualified to indulge.
Noble clothes
Making money is a skill, and spending money is art.
People still have to live elegantly to be eligible to wear good materials, and people who live elegantly, the figure remains unchanged, this kind of person, a good material clothes can be worn for decades. Expensive clothes, no longer expensive.
Delicious in the world
Any of the most common ingredients can make a delicious dish, the problem is whether you will take the time to find it, whether you will spend the effort to do it. Being able to turn ordinary food into a delicacy is art, not inferior to painting, literature and music. Life enjoyment also.
The medicine of nature
Li Yu said: "Something that is particularly liked by nature can be used as medicine. ”
As soon as a person is happy, the body will produce a hormone to cure the disease.
Don't think that satisfying a momentary desire is a bad thing, in fact, it is a kind of physical and psychological medicine, which can definitely prolong life. Even if it doesn't work, you will die happily.
Men with depressed personalities and dry speech have no medicine, because there is no such thing in the world that they like, they are an infectious disease in themselves, they will suck your energy dry, and when they encounter such people, they can avoid it.
Will eat
The way of cooking is by no means high-tech, failure once or twice, must be successful, so don't be afraid to try, anyone will learn it.
A lot of people say, "You can really eat." I said modestly, "I won't eat, I'll just compare." ”
see
In principle, it can be seen that the more unpalatable things are eaten, the more you can see.
Incandescent
There is a simple way to try, that is, the pot should be large, roll a pot of water, put some oil and salt, cut the meat into thin slices and throw it in. The water is stirred by the cold meat, and it does not roll. At this time, use an iron mesh spoon to scoop up the meat, wait for the water to roll again, throw the meat in, and immediately extinguish the fire. The residual heat will make the meat just enough to cook, which is perfect white burning.
Talk about eating
People who like to talk about food must have good living conditions and rich products, but there is not much money left, and there is no need for that kind. Only upstarts in big cities devour abalone wings, caviar or black fungus. Leisurely people, chatting around, at most the fish skin dumplings made by the mother.
Talk about drinking
When someone advises him to drink, drink when he is happy, don't drink if you are not happy, and leave him alone.
Mainland talents do not eat this set, do not let them know that you can drink, otherwise it will be poured until you are drunk. It's best to pretend you won't drink it and say you're sick.
The psychology of drinking alcohol comes entirely from being competitive, and admitting defeat is not so difficult to accept. The first time you concede defeat, the second time the dough is thick.
How to eat crepes
But you are a person of any place, what taste is suitable, and you can't blame each other.
People are fun
No one can tie your mind. Occasional indulgence is a good thing. But to indulge, first learn to clean up. Will not clean up, is not qualified to indulge. Indulgence that cannot be contained is an instinctive impulse. The indulgence that will be packed up is improvisation.
play
"Playthings? What's so bad about that? Teacher Feng Kanghou said, "It is better to be able to attach style and elegance, and modern people just can't play, and even the style is not willing to attach."
As long as you are willing to play, you have the heart to play, there are expensive ones, and cheap ones can be easily picked up.
Admire the Suzhou men, when they are extremely bored, scoop a few small pieces of duckweed by the lake, put them into a teacup, and watch them increase every day, which is also a lot of fun. We have to play with this mentality, and we have to further study how many kinds of duckweed there are in the world. Stretching from duckweed to other plants, even large trees, and finally constantly observing the tree's canopy, fascinated by it.
Slowly, I also have some unique views, great joy, when I call myself an expert, I saw another book, which the ancients had known hundreds of years ago, and only then did they understand what shame was, and from then on they were more modest.
There is a strong interest in a thing, how hard, but also to learn, when you become a, or half an expert, you can make a living from it, do not have to work for others.
The experts who teach you how to make money are more, open the financial section of the newspaper every day for your guidance, and the successful boss will make remarks to show off. The bookstore is full of memoirs and biographies of rich guys, and if you read them all, you may not be able to develop them.
Or teach you how to play the book, more beautiful, human beings live to old death, do not play sorry for themselves. Life is not fair to us, we are born to cry, life is troubled and literate, when we grow up, we are not satisfied with things, only by playing, we can get psychological balance.
Buy some daily necessities that make yourself pleasing to the eye, it will not be too expensive, it is definitely not a plaything to lose its mind, but a plaything to nourish its ambition.
Life is easy
Europe still has negative assets, and there are a lot of unemployed people, but their poor life seems to be a little easier than that of the Orientals.
age
"Good women don't get old."
Taste can increase their charm, like the matching of clothes color, making people comfortable to see. Like not talking about people's right and wrong, it is not annoying. The eight wives and the good women are here.
Good women plant flowers, admire some works of art, idyllic and faint, wrinkles are reduced, it is really difficult to see how old they are.
There are still some sweaty hairs on the back of the neck, and they will not grow old; those who do not have sweat hairs must have been over three. Friends often use this method to see nightclub women, which is quite tasteless. Knowing that is, why debunk it? I think they won't grow old, they won't grow old.
Talented
The talented women of the day must be immersed in the metropolis: Shanghai, London, Paris, etc. Chinese, it is impossible to live in Hong Kong for a period of time, which was once a concentration of China's top figures.
The eyes are opened, and when they come into contact with men and women who are smarter than them, they understand what modesty is, and their temperament is raised to another level, which is materially impossible to have.
In addition to these metropolises, India, Nepal, Africa, the Middle East, Southeast Asia, and even the North and South Poles have to walk around, learn how people live, and know what is wonderful.
Talented women must love life, be full of curiosity, and enjoy pain and pleasure in the backpacking era.
The foundation should be laid well, whether it is painting, literature, film or music, we must start from the classical, and the foundation must be stable. Take a helicopter all at once, first abstraction, stream of consciousness, new wave and Rap, think that it is the best, and go astray, never transcendent.
Love to eat, more inevitable, this is the most primitive part of life, have to taste more. Try the world's delicious, fang know what is the best, because there is a comparison.
Of course, you can learn from books, but in real life, making more friends of the opposite sex is not a bad thing.
Girl
Being able to be a person is not a very bad thing, but being too good at being a person is equal to hypocrisy.
If I can be a person for a long time, I am not a person, I am a bug, I am a liar. Unconsciously, I couldn't change, thinking I was alone.
Writing articles do not seek to stay in the world, work as a pastime, what to say, things are not good to say that it is not delicious, this kind of truth-telling costs, I spent decades savings back, now do not use, no time to use.
Auntie is a woman
Before the body is healthy, the spirit must be healthy first, this dare not eat, that dare not touch, there is already a problem in the spirit, of course, affecting the body.
The interest in reading is completely spontaneous, and whether or not it can get ahead is not important to the children at all. Why not tell them to live as happily as possible?
Don't worry, die, you're dead!
Native
Just don't understand why you only look at the scenery and don't contact the locals? Don't look at how people live?
Travel, the best native products, should be memories.
It turns out that people can die like this! In Mexico, where people die a lot, death is celebrated as a festival and fireworks are set off at funerals. Death is not terrible. It turns out that people can be so happy! In Spain, tomorrow is tomorrow's business, so why worry about the country and the people? On your next trip, come back with a little more souvenir.
Find fun
To be a person, it is indeed to find happiness, is to be positive, happiness is created by yourself, books, music, planting flowers, raising fish, are the source of happiness.
Happiness or no, determined entirely by innate personality, is useless no matter how hard you try.
In retrospect, what makes you laugh? Well, repeat it! Absolutely.
Living better than a day is an improvement in the quality of life, not necessarily relying on money, but it takes effort, spending time studying anything, and the end can become an expert, and once you become an expert, you can sell money.
Think more about the things that make you happy, think, it doesn't cost money, everyone is looking for happiness to go.
minion
But it is no longer the era of the emperor, the old ancestor who said the wrong thing will not catch you for beheading, the east family does not fight the west family, for a profession, there is no need to be a slave.
There is nothing wrong with a boss, when the other person is an elder, and listening to their teachings. You must not be complimented, as soon as they know that you are a bully, they will come to trample on you.
Not humble, the most correct. The other party knows that you have a bit of personality, and will also use you more heavily, because you are the kind of person who has a proposition.
Writing your opinions into memos is a trick that few people are willing to do. If I could do it, I could always say afterwards that I was aware of it and that you didn't listen. If what is written on the memo proves to be wrong, then bravely admit that the boss has more vision, and the other party will appreciate it.
future
It is normal for young people to be confused and use anger to cover up their uneasiness.
Most young people today do not have these conditions, like a spoiled and small child. Books are not read, and there is no temperament to speak of. From their wrinkled faces had seen their dying old future, pitifully.
fear
When you meet a rich guy, just like you and I, the identity is equal. You think he has money and will be left to you when he dies?
Big belly pot and big belly
The Japanese language is becoming more feminine, and it is even more unforgivable. Hurry to the cinema every day, pick a film starring Yujiro Ishihara, watch him for two weeks, watch four times a day, the same movie, the dialogue is very ripe, exported into chapters. Fourteen days later, the Japanese language was already majestic.
Everything has a cause and effect, your timidity is the cause, tiredness is the effect; being strong is also the cause, and the peace you get is the effect.
To live a pleasant life, to be a person again, it is not difficult, to lower the conditions a little, contentment, and happiness.
There must always be a goal to be a person, and after you are determined, you will go to this goal.
I think when the money is enough, you don't have to spend too much time worrying about it, because it's not worth it.
It's me playing the world, not the world playing me.
I think it's enough to keep a passion all the time. Why bother? You will definitely meet people who appreciate you.
Human beings have affection
Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, when making friends with people, we have to look at his good side, if you keep digging up his sores and shortcomings, it will only make yourself hard, and you will not make friends.
finale
The memorial service must be held before the death. Everyone has a party together, eats and drinks and then leaves, and from then on, they are anonymous and do not involve the world, do not see acquaintances, and die.
Letter to Yishu
Indeed, there is no one who knows who is not busy, busy with something, whether there are achievements, it does not matter, the most important thing is busy, busy is a little survival value.
I think that the ultimate goal of Hong Kong people's busyness is the right to "not be busy" at any time and anywhere.
Tree Root Brother
In recent years, the tree root brother read a lot, proficient in history, and there are painting exhibitions must arrive, in the painting of a lot of hard work, especially charcoal painting, very deep research, relatives and friends as long as a little description of their ancestors, tree root brother can be like a god to paint the portrait.
Laugh at the human world
Improve the quality of life, live happier and happier today than yesterday, and live happier and happier tomorrow than today. That's it. This is the meaning of life, the true meaning of living.
Life Chapter
Death is a part of life, and the more you touch, the more thoroughly you see it. Learn from foreigners, Mexicans are poor, death has always accompanied them, so there are death festivals, like the Brazilian carnival, fireworks, children buy skull-shaped white sugar to eat, and death, accustomed, not afraid. We Chinese always don't talk about it. Being too afraid to die is not a good thing.
I love life too much to sleep with it. Life is too lovely to get lost in a hobby or pursuit. To be withdrawn from the realm of life so that nothing can be done. It's me playing the world, not the world playing me.
To be old is to be dignified, and to be clean is to have dignity. If you wear a brand name, or a dress bought on Garden Street, you must be white and straight.
The greatest advantage of copying the Heart Sutra is that when family and friends are sick and feel helpless, they write it and give it to them, which is really "to show their hearts".
Survival chapter
The most important thing a person needs to save in his life is the cost of telling the truth. Young people do not have great ability, you face your colleagues and superiors, how can you casually give people a look? Obviously, when you encounter people and things that don't look good, you only have to be obedient, you have to be a little hypocritical and smooth, and after establishing considerable self-confidence and persuasion, you have the ability to tell the truth.
Migrant workers, there are three ways to go. One is to endure, so mediocre to live a life. The second is to leave, the owner does not fight, hit the west family, but this kind of people who use to leave to escape will be addicted, and there will be no good results in the future when they fight one family after another forever. Finally, there are those who prepare for the back road while fighting a war, and this kind of person has more opportunities to get ahead than others.
Go for it and constantly reduce the number of people above you. To win the one who is the highest of yourself, you have enough power to allocate time, and when you are the highest, there will not be many people who can control and dominate you. When you get the trust of your boss, he will give you a lot of freedom.
There are two kinds of savings, one is spiritual, the other is material, the former is important, I think when the money is enough, you don't have to spend too much time to bother, because it is not worth it.
Life needs to have a skill, so that you can believe that you can live on this. Be confident in yourself and be sure that everything must be done well; learn a little more and your self-confidence will always increase.
Life
The most feared thing in my life is the kind of negativist who sighs long and sighs and does not actively improve his life. In contact with such people, the energy is easily sucked dry. Who hasn't encountered difficulties? Those who have a superficial appearance are only optimistic on the outside. The question is how you face the dilemma. The more you mind the eyes of others, the more unhappy you become. Who do you live for?
People, first of all, must love themselves, without self-love will be finished, under any circumstances, self-loving people always have the opportunity to get ahead. Coupled with hard work, it is not successful, and the sky is gone.
Idols are created by immature people, and when they mature, they are not obsessed with idols, but become appreciative. Appreciation is acceptable, and I appreciate a lot of people. People who are willing to self-study and enrich themselves, I appreciate.
To be a person is to try not to look at other people's faces, and to be a person, there is no need to give others a look. Born, everyone is equal. There must be mutual respect between people. So I don't care what kind of profession the other person is, whether it is old or young, I respect it.
It is human nature to lie, to speak when necessary; without the one who needs it, like the natives of the forest, there is no need to tell lies. Religions, schools, families, people teach us not to lie, and it turns out that this is their best thing, they say the most. Lying is a fact; but facts do not need to be explained by lying. As far as possible, do not hurt the other party.
When I was very young, I knew that I had to do my best and be happy in everything I did, and not to let people know even if I wasn't happy.
People who love life must get up early, like birds, and they are rewarded with a delicious and rich breakfast.
Buddhist stories teach people that you have been deceived and are a debt that should be repaid in the last life. It is better to deceive people now than to deceive people in old age. By the time you get older, the blow is even greater. It is a blessing to be young and suffer this robbery.
Don't think that if you always treat people well, you will definitely get good rewards, and being good to people is an act of "sending", not for "receiving".
Men and women
Spirituality is that you don't look stupid, the eyes, the expression changes a lot; after contact with you, her feelings change a lot, not lifeless thinking about the same thing, every time you talk to her, she has a different posture to attract you, these are called spirituality.
Like saying thank you, but also from the heart, the other party must be able to feel. Sincerity is an inexhaustible magic weapon.
Women who like independence, the kind of person who supports themselves, it is best to be mature in thought, independent and autonomous, gentle and considerate.
Even if they don't agree with you, they won't argue with you, because they know that it's interesting to have opinions in the world.
Women, when young to give up love is the saddest, old age to give up money is the saddest.
It's good that women are a little more erudite. Associating with erudite women can increase a lot of insight. Good women are always not old. Strangely enough, a forty-year-old woman looked only thirty years old. They are very attractive, young in mind, with large breasts and generous clothing. Vulgar women get old fast, wear makeup and dress up faster every day. Desperate for a facelift? Worse
Love
A person who commits suicide for the sake of love is a person with neurological problems. He doesn't kill himself for you, he kills himself for himself.
As long as you are happy with him, be together; unhappy, separate. As long as he is not married for a day, unfaithful and unfaithful, he can also have a second girlfriend, indiscriminately look at yourself, more boyfriends are not called promiscuity, called a little more choice.
Man fights to live and die, love to die and live, and he looks back every day, and it is not a joke. I realized at a very young age that today's troubles would become tomorrow's jokes, so I enjoyed and indulged, on the principle of not hurting others. Why are people afraid of death? I'm afraid I haven't enjoyed enough.
Men stuffing pocket money to women is a deformed method of paying prostitutes. You can be a little more at ease. Women take their money, and the emotional debt is alleviated. At the same time, the status in the minds of men has also been reduced.
The phrase "love is not having" is that people who do not get love will be so self-soothing. Love is absolutely possessed, with every inch of the other person's skin, all the time, contact, thoughts, flesh.
True love is blind and easily consumed. The power of love decreases again and again until you can no longer have such feelings. At this time, you will not be miserable, but you will not meet true love again.
It's true that men don't value girls who actively pursue themselves. Different personalities are the best companions. Personalities are too similar, which will lead to the end of killing each other. Experienced men in love, do not like women who are rich in love, men are so selfish.
Respect each other and give each other a private space. True love should not be mixed with money and materials, those who have a building in hand, a passbook, and a household registration as a guarantee are not qualified to talk about love.
A woman can really live a life of birth and death, and a woman cannot satisfy them.
Truly love a person, will fall in love with a lifetime, it is good to be together, if that person falls in love with others, you also have to bless and continue to protect, this is called grace, but few people understand what is grace.
Marriage
People should respect each other when they get along with each other. Beating someone has broken the vows, and no one has the right to beat them, whether it is a stranger or a relative. Entangled family ties are always the tip of distress.
Marriage can only be two willing, otherwise it will be finished sooner or later, it is better not to play. A couple doesn't have to be honest and relative, and keeping some of their secrets is definitely not a heinous crime. Cheating on each other, don't go too far, also belongs to the process of the game. When I grow up, there are some things that I would rather hear the other person's lies than accept the cruel facts.
。 Heaven and earth are always made up of novels and movies to deceive people. Because such a thing cannot exist, it is particularly appealing to sing.
Reluctantly with someone who can't get along, boring, you want to stay with him for a lifetime? People don't think so. It has always been a fact that everything is said well before marriage, and after marriage, it becomes more and more unpleasant and cannot be tolerated. People want to change? It is easy to talk about, the so-called three-year-old fixed the country, human nature is innate, and then change will return to the original, only low-energy people will want to change personality.
Friends
Learn to respect, to respect the way of life of others; also learn to be polite, treat people with courtesy, many things can be solved; be humble, not too arrogant, no matter how powerful someone must be stronger than you; to be tolerant, there are really many people who are unfortunate than you, and be tolerant of people.
It would be better to dilute the feelings. The friendship of gentlemen can develop into mutual respect between husband and wife, and the simplest original basis is to treat people with sincerity; when it is not needed, do not do too fake things, so that there will be new friends and new feelings to develop continuously.
The so-called survival is to make friends. And why should people make friends with you? Because you are sincere, material, and very hard at things, when there are many friends, the relationship will come, and then you can start working; no one does not like hard-working people, and gradually, opportunities will come to you.
World Chapter
Everyone's life, the way of life is very simple, travel is to let you see how others live, and then incorporate their advantages into their own lives.
To go to every place, we must understand the local historical background, at least to know the historical deeds that have happened in the local area, and how it has affected the people's food culture.
You can see the living standards of the locals in the wet market, there are many choices of things to sell, and the living standards are quite high. If there is a very poor supply there, life is not rich. When you know how much a pound of meat is sold locally, then when you talk about business or shopping, you will have a standard in mind, and you will not be deceived, because you can deduce the local standard of living from here.
Go if you want, let go of everything, the world will not run because there is no you, just go, you have no guts, I lend you.
Money
Wealth is unlimited, happiness is limited.
I am a person who attaches great importance to "materialism", can make money, and I do everything. So in order to be happy, young people should make more money.
Money is just an affirmation of what others have said about me, and I am a layman, and I need that affirmation.
To live in capitalist society, man necessarily demands money. Money represents everything, and identity and respect come from this, which is the same truth, we do not have to argue, and we must not dress up. People who hate copper smell can already be put into museums as antiques.
Gastronomy
Choose a high place to sit, look wide, and walk to the flat ground; make a superior wish, and tie the knot to the middle and enjoy the inferior blessings.
People who like good food are more simple, they pursue better food, they don't have time to use their brains to harm people, and it is easy to make friends.
The culprit of the extinction of Chinese cuisine is the "health" that people pay attention to today. Afraid of oil, afraid of salty and afraid of sweet, this does not dare to call that dare not eat, the spirit has a problem. Spiritual problems often affect physical problems, and modern people's problems are not good.
We live in this world and hope to live better and better every day, if you don't even have this requirement, then you will not have requirements for anything, and it is okay to live a mediocre life, but if you ask me, I will not be willing.
Caijia fried rice is to first add the appropriate amount of lard and garlic to the pot and pour in the dried shrimp. Fry until slightly charred on a few layers of facial paper to absorb the oil. Add cold rice to the stir-fry and beat one or two eggs into it. Stir-open the rice, put some lard and fried lard residue in the middle, add raw meat and fry until semi-cooked, cover it with rice. Then add the chopped kale grains, throw the stems first, continue the leaves, add shrimp and stir-fry, when smoking, use the appropriate amount of fish sauce. Finally, the minced black pepper, fried brown shallots and coriander fragments are put down to make the icing on the cake.
Fun
I don't know if I'm a hedonist, I just know that I never do anything to be sorry for myself.
Reading is to do learning. Stupid teachers teach, of course, you can not listen to him, but when you meet a good teacher, he will show you a way to go. Not meeting a good teacher is completely fate, and not meeting a good boyfriend or not meeting a good parent is exactly the same, uncontrolled, and no one can complain.
Buy one you like because it can be used for a lifetime.
There are two kinds of wealth: one is money; the other is to cultivate interest and accumulate life experience. For me, the latter is more important than the former. What others say is that there will be no guarantee in the future, but what are they afraid of? Living in the moment and enjoying it to the fullest is not a regret-free life?
Learn something new, and if you can't find love, it can fill the emptiness in your life, become a kind of learning, and you will find love in it.
I think people who can walk will dance, and people who can hold up pens will write articles. However, if you dance, you must always learn the steps, and you must practice writing. It is useless to speak alone; writing for the sake of publication is always a little lower. If you don't write, you have to look at it, and it doesn't matter if the eye is high or low, at least it's better than even the eye is not high. Half a bucket of water doesn't matter, better than no water.
Open-minded
If you want to be open-minded, you must first work hard when you are young, do everything, learn everything, and do not complain. The more you learn, the more you have confidence. In case the current job is gone, it is also reliable to make a living with other skills. Knowing that they will not starve to death, people are naturally high and naturally open-minded.
The responsibility of the teacher should be responsible for enlightening the personality of the students and encouraging them to work the subjects they are interested in. With a sense of accomplishment, people are happy. Gloomy personality, there is also a chance to correct cheerful.
Each has a unique set of ideas, different, in order to get ahead. This group of people has one thing in common, that is, they are all well-read, like history, only to understand how people in the past failed, how precious freedom is, and honestly make friends, get the confidence of others, and extend a supportive hand.
The only thing I learned in school was knowing that I knew too little, less than I thought I knew.