In the marriage relationship, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem for eternity, how many couples, originally loved each other, but because they failed to properly handle the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and finally led to a good home, because the two women in the family broke apart! If there is a mother-in-law with a love complex in the family, what kind of storm will be set off... [Cover your face] [Cover your face]
The following tells the experience of a netizen, because it involves personal privacy, the characters in the text use pseudonyms.
My name is Zhou Xiaoxiao, 27 years old, clothing store owner, husband Wang Hai, 28 years old, freelancer. We've been married for two years, we only had a son not long ago, the child is not yet a full moon, and for the past two years, I have been living in a weird family atmosphere and just want to get a divorce as soon as possible.
Three years ago, the 24-year-old fell in love with Wang Hai under the introduction of a friend, Wang Hai was the only son in the family, his father died for many years, his mother was a company worker, and his husband had not remarried after his death. After graduating from college, I started my own business and opened a clothing store in the county, selling branded clothes, earning almost 200,000 a year. My parents have jobs, and my brother has a family, so the money I earn is at my disposal, except for the occasional time I go out to buy goods a little tired, usually I live a more comfortable life.
Wang Hai is very handsome, as a Yan control, I fell when I first saw him, and I decided in my heart that he must be in this life. Therefore, although Wang Hai's conditions were inferior to mine in other aspects, I was desperate to be with him.
After a year of falling in love with Wang Hai, we got married, and when I got married, Wang Hai gave me a dowry of 200,000 yuan, did not buy a wedding house, and lived in a new house that I bought before marriage after marriage. My mother felt that the man should buy a house, but I didn't care, thinking that as long as the two had a good relationship, the rest were floating clouds.
After marriage we had a very sweet day, I run my own clothing store, Wang Hai from time to time with others to do some business, the income is not bad, Wang Hai is good to me, from time to time to create a little romance, I feel that happiness will overflow, if it is not his mother from time to time when we sleep on video calls. Many times, when I was in bed with Wang Hai at night, my mother called a video call, and there was nothing important, people were looking for their son to chat with them! To tell the truth, I am very unhappy in my heart, but there is no way, the old lady who does not answer the phone keeps dialing! [Cover your face] [Cover your face] At that time, if you think about it, will you want to scold people?
Soon, I was pregnant, and as soon as I heard the news of my pregnancy, my mother-in-law immediately packed up her things and moved to my house, saying that she was not at ease and wanted to come and take care of me! To tell the truth, at that time, I was a little moved in my heart, and I did not expect that the arrival of my mother-in-law opened the prelude to the family war...
Every night after dinner, it was my "sweet time" with Wang Hai, we usually went downstairs to the neighborhood for a walk, and then went home tired of sprinkling dog food on the sofa, after the mother-in-law came, everything changed: after dinner, she would wash the dishes three times and five divided by two, and then follow us downstairs for a walk, at the beginning we were very happy, just when we walked, it was interesting, threesomes, I walked behind, the mother-in-law held her son's hand in front, the husband wanted to be with me, then she had to pull the mother with her left hand, and the right hand pulled me! This posture, how to see how weird! Later, I simply did not participate and let them both go. The husband is unwilling, but the mother-in-law is full of excitement every time!
At home, as long as I am tired of being with his son, the mother-in-law will be unhappy, face it, find an excuse to ask his son to do things, shout his son away from me, and sometimes even excuse a headache, go back to the room and lie down, and then call his son to accompany her next to her!
No matter when it is, my mother-in-law enters my bedroom and never knocks on the door, it doesn't matter if she will encounter indecent pictures, Wang Hai communicates with his mother, and people have words: in their own home, what do they want to knock? After that, we still went our own way, so we had to lock the door after entering the room, but this could not stop her! Sometimes when we had just fallen asleep, she would knock on the door outside, saying that there was something wrong, and when the door was opened, people would bring fruit to her son! Dizzy, who eats fruit at this time? Not sure what she meant by tossing it so much.
If only me and my mother-in-law are at home, we can still get along, my mother-in-law will occasionally buy vegetables to cook, chat with me, sometimes the interest comes, our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also go shopping together, but as long as Wang Hai comes home, as long as she sees me and Wang Hai laughing, she will be unhappy, and start to find various reasons to be a demon, I and Wang Hai analyze, this is a typical love complex! It's a disease, it's a cure! But Wang Hai didn't think so, saying that his mother was just not at ease and wanted to take care of us.
As my pregnancy month increased, I no longer went to the clothing store, began to raise a fetus at home, Wang Hai was worried that I was bored at home, every day early home to accompany me, this time, the mother-in-law was even more unhappy, in front of his son's face did not say anything, during the day Wang Hai went out, the mother-in-law found an excuse to go out, did not cook for me, did not do housework, let me take care of myself, and so in the afternoon estimated that Wang Hai was about to go home, the mother-in-law would go home one step ahead of her son, pretending to start mopping the floor, cooking, a very tired look. After dinner, I cried out dizzy, waist pain, to go back to the room to lie down, needless to say, I had to let her son accompany! I was pregnant with a big belly and stayed alone in the living room watching TV [covering her face] [covering her face], and sometimes I slept in bed for a while, and Wang Hai came back from his room and said that he was waiting for his mother to fall asleep before coming over. What do you mean by that? I think it's weird. And Wang Hai has a temper tantrum, he always wants me to be generous, saying that it is not easy for his mother to pull him up alone, there is no other meaning, that is, people are old and lonely. I was really drunk: someone under 60 years old, in good health, and had to sleep with his son at night? Is this normal?
What broke me was after my son was born. Originally, I planned to give birth to a caesarean section during pregnancy, I was afraid of pain, thinking that there was analgesic stick after the caesarean section, and people were less guilty, and Wang Hai also agreed. But when I entered the hospital, my mother-in-law had to insist on a smooth delivery, saying that the child who had a smooth birth was smart, and Wang Hai saw that his mother insisted on a smooth birth, so he came to persuade me, and the doctor also said that my physical condition should be smooth delivery. I also knew that a smooth birth was good for the child, so I didn't insist on it anymore. I didn't expect it to hurt so much to have a baby. I was in pain from six o'clock in the evening to four o'clock in the morning, the child still could not be born, but the person could not continue, and finally the doctor recommended a caesarean section. Therefore, I first experienced labor pain, and then lay down on the operating table and was stabbed, and I was afraid of pain, and I was very resentful of my mother-in-law.
Because my mother-in-law was firmly opposed, we did not ask my sister-in-law, the mother-in-law said that she promised to serve me and the child, my parents had to go to work, there was no way to take care of me, I had to leave me twenty thousand yuan, let the mother-in-law give me more supplements, and repeatedly stressed that we should hire a nanny. However, the mother-in-law has been blocking, and can only give up.
Because of the caesarean section, it was not very convenient for me to move after I was discharged from the hospital, and it was very difficult to hold the child and change the diapers. In the first few days, the mother-in-law was still dedicated, Wang Hai would also help, and their mother and son took care of our mother and son, which was quite harmonious. A few days later, Wang Hai took over a business, leaving his mother-in-law to take care of me and my children every day. During the day, in addition to cooking and washing, the mother-in-law basically did not care about the children. Sometimes I shouted at her a few times and didn't come in, so I could only hold the child myself and coax slowly.
In the evening, Wang Hai went home, and the mother-in-law began to be busy again, helping to hold the child, changing diapers, and "the eldest grandson loves the grandson" shouted non-stop, a face of love. I only rolled my eyes as I looked at it. When it was time to go to bed at night, the mother-in-law proposed that Wang Hai sleep in her room, and she came to sleep with me and the child, on the grounds that Wang Hai had to go to work during the day and could not affect his rest. I was ten thousand unwilling in my heart, so I could only ask Wang Hai for help with my eyes, and Wang Hai also said that he was fine and asked her mother to go back to her room to sleep. The old lady was angry: Are you afraid that I can't take care of the children? Or do you hate me and don't want to share a bed with me? Well, that's what I said. No way, I had to agree.
Then go to sleep. The old lady fell asleep as soon as she dipped her head on the pillow, and her snoring was thunderous! Ten thousand horses ran through that in my heart! How else can I sleep? In the darkness, I lay on the bed, looking at the ceiling with my eyes open, sleeping with my son and my mother-in-law "singing" at the same time. No one can understand the grievances in their hearts. In the middle of the night, my son woke up, to feed, to change the diaper, the mother-in-law did not move, still sleeping sweetly, I could only get up by myself to change the child's diaper. Where is this to take care of me and my children? People are here to sleep!
Wang Hai thought that his mother took good care of our mother and son, and went out early in the morning. I could only hold on to my dizzy body with the child, and during the day I would hurry to sleep while my son was asleep. At night, my mother-in-law wanted to push Wang Hai to her room to sleep, so I said, "Mom, you should sleep in your own room, you are tired during the day, and you have a good rest at night." It's enough for me and Wang Hai over here." "I'm not tired, Wang Hai wants to earn money, can't sleep well, be a woman to know how to hurt men." The child is still young, and I will accompany you in the future to help you with the child. "But when your child wakes up at night, you don't know how to take care of your child." I fell asleep, the child woke up and you called me. ”
I had no choice but to put my son to sleep with my arms around me and continue to endure the thunderous snoring in my ears. My son woke up and cried, and I held the child and coaxed me while shouting at my mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law did not even turn over, and she had no intention of waking up. I know, the old lady is pretending to be asleep! On the third night, I resolutely refused to let Wang Hai go to his mother's room to sleep, so I took my son to sleep and nursed him again. Wang Hai didn't know why I was doing this (I didn't have any time alone with Wang Hai). He thought I was too noisy for the child, so he really agreed to take his son to sleep in his mother's room. And the mother-in-law, immediately agreed to this plan, so the mother-in-law took my son to bed, and my husband slept in a recliner! Looking at the picture of that hot eye, my heart was cold: Even if the mother-in-law is a demon, is Wang Hai dead? Wife confinement, husband and sleep in a room, what is the logic of this TM!
I silently lay back on my bed, secretly thinking in my heart, wait for my son to be full moon, my son is full moon, my body has recovered, and I will divorce Wang Hai! Live with this strange mother and son again, I guess I will go crazy!
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The various behaviors of Wang Hai's mother in the text show that this mother has a very serious love complex, excessive attention to the child's life, afraid that the daughter-in-law will take away the love of the son, and everywhere in life there is a way to hinder the son and daughter-in-law to get along, I have to say that there is such a mother-in-law, the couple's feelings can be good and strange?
And Wang Hai, as a son, understands that it is not easy for his mother to raise himself alone with hard work, and filial piety to his mother, which is right. However, you are not just a son, you are also a husband, don't you really see that your mother is really deliberately trying to make things difficult for your wife? As a husband, if you don't feel sorry for your wife and can't handle the relationship between the old woman and your wife, how can the family be harmonious?
As for the heroine, this month is also enough to sit in a disturbing way. Such a strange mother-in-law, it is estimated that no one can stand it. It is recommended that the heroine find time to communicate with her husband Wang Hai well, clearly put forward her feelings and requirements, and if Wang Hai is willing to work hard to solve the problem, then she can continue to live. If Wang Hai still feels that his mother's behavior is understandable, I think you should still divorce! In the future, such bad things will not be less. Because you're going to compete with his mom for the rest of your life!
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