If Lin Daiyu in "Dream of the Red Chamber" spilled tears into the hearts of readers, Baby Ning in "Chatting with Zai Zhiyi" laughed and laughed to the extreme.
At least on the surface, Bao Ning's life has a happy and perfect ending.
In the years of flowers, she met her infatuated cousin Prince Fu.
Although Wang Zifu was also a weak scholar, he was completely different from Jia Baoyu, a disciple of the Poor.
Prince Fu liked his cousin Baby Ning, and really dared to pursue it; he really dared to confess to his mother that the media was marrying and marrying Baby Ning's cousin into the house.
Baby Ning is a girl who loves to laugh, but at the end of this article, this woman does not laugh.
This is the charm of "Chatting with Zhiyi", as a famous book!
The prince and princess have lived happily ever since, a fairy tale written for children. If the real life is so simple, everyone must compromise with life.
Even the elf-like, smiling girl Baby Ning...
One. Simple life, maintaining the pure nature of baby Ning, she can smile so movingly
The moon is on the willow tip, and the person is about after dusk.
The story of The Prince Costume and Baby Ning also begins on a festival of the First Yuan Dynasty, where the girls can go out of the house and watch the lights and watch the lively days.
As soon as Baby Ning appeared, she was a different girl.
There are girls with concubines, picking a plum blossom branch, RongHua is unique, and the smile is lovely. He was so intent on it that he forgot his scruples.
In ancient times, there were very few girls who could have a bad smile.
Every girl, from birth, is bound by a thousand rules.
Such a life, as if you are old as soon as you are born!
Little girls have no chance to bloom their youth at all, they must be dignified and well-mannered from primary school, so that they can have the so-called feminine morality;
They must learn the female red of the needle from an early age, and they must go to the hall and enter the kitchen, so that they can learn the skills of women;
From an early age, they were required to be cautious in their words and deeds, silent and gentle, so as to meet the standards of feudal morality for women.
A woman walking on the road with a smile was definitely a different kind in ancient times.
Such a smile was enough to attract the scholar prince to fall in love with this girl at first sight.
The prince wanted to ask to marry the girl;
Readers also want to know, what kind of family dares to keep their daughter innocent and innocent, to maintain the purest and most beautiful nature?
The answer was revealed as the prince went to look for the girl.
The valley floor is full of flowers and trees, and there are small drops in the shadows. Descending the mountain into the village, I saw that there were not many houses, all of them were huts, and the meaning was very elegant. A northbound family, in front of the door are silk willows, the walls of peach and apricot are particularly prosperous, between the cultivation of bamboo, wild birds in the grid.
(1) Pu Songling, the author of "Liaozhai", gave Bao Ning a most pure and beautiful growth space.
Baby Ning's home is far away from the human world, it is far away from the hustle and bustle of the world,
(2) Baby Ning's home is simple but close to nature, in his own small world, people and nature coexist in harmony, and only such a paradise can make Baby Ning maintain an innocent smile.
(3) Baby Ning's family has a simple population, except for a few beards, only her mother-in-law guards the only bloodline of her family.
Baby Ning's family is not rich, but she has all the love of her mother.
Only children who grow up in a warm family will have enough security; they will bloom the most innocent smile.
The beauty of childhood, the love of girls' generation, these babies have all been obtained.
When Wang Zifu meets Bao Ning's mother, what kind of meeting will the cousins have with each other:
For a long time, there was laughter outside. Mi called again: "Baby Ning, Uncle Ru is here." 'The outdoors laughed incessantly, and their mouths, laughed uncontrollably.".
From bao Dai's first sight of the heavy feeling with tears is completely different, the meeting between Baby Ning and the prince's clothes is unusually relaxed and bright.
The innocence of this girl does not mean that her mother-in-law is the same.
Baby Ning's mother loves her and will inevitably do it for her.
Two. A compromise of life
At this time, there is an unsolved mystery, Bao Ning's mother cannot accompany her forever, and her mother must find a good mother-in-law for her.
At that time, Baby Ning's mother had been dead for many years.
The prince in front of you is a good candidate!
The Wang family is rich, and Wang Zifu himself is a talent, which are the reasons why Bao Ning's mother can look up to this son-in-law.
Of course, there is a more important point, the mother of the prince and the mother of the baby Ning are sisters. The mother-in-law is her own aunt, which is a good choice for Baby Ning.
Only such a family will not abandon the birth of Baby Ning;
Only such a person will show some sincerity to love Baby Ning.
Baby Ning This girl is Shu out, and not an ordinary Shu out, her birth mother is a fox spirit.
Baby Ning is born like this, ordinary people do not dare to marry at all!
At this time, Baby Ning's mother had already compromised with life, and The prince's love for Baby Ning was afraid that Baby Ning's mother could see it at first sight.
But Baby Ning's mother just pretended to be deaf and dumb, and she allowed the prince to express her heart to Baby Ning.
It was also bao Ning who said the most classic words:
"I'm not used to sleeping with people. ”
At this time, Baby Ning's mother had already compromised with life, there was no parental order, there was no matchmaker's words, Baby Ning's mother allowed the prince to take Baby Ning home.
The aunt's family has abundant land and can raise redundant people. And to the other place, the primary school poetry ceremony, but also good things Weng Gu. That is, the annoying aunt chooses a good match for Ru!
From that moment on, Baby Ning was no longer a little girl in her own home who could do whatever she wanted.
Life was extremely cruel to her, and the first lesson in her life was to learn to compromise with life.
And this lesson is the truth that other girls have understood since childhood.
Wang Zifu really likes Baby Ning, and Baby Ning can be regarded as the niece of the Queen Mother, and their marriage is very smooth, and the Ming Media is marrying.
After that, Baby Ning is still sunny and maintains her smiling nature.
However, Baby Ning, who grew up in a simple environment, never knew the darkness and filth of human nature.
Her brilliance is moving; her love is love to laugh; her beauty can easily arouse the covetousness of others!
The neighbor's son covets Baby Ning's beauty, and Baby Ning still maintains a state of love to laugh, so that the neighbor's son mistakenly thinks that Baby Ning is interested in him.
As a consequence of this incident, the neighbor's son thought that a tree was a baby ning who had come to meet him privately, but was stung by a poisonous scorpion in the tree.
And then what? Things are going in unexpected directions:
Neighbors sue, and the baby is strange. Yi Zaisu looked up to shengcai, and knew that his loyal practitioners were slanderous and blamed the staff. Born to beg, released one by one. The mother said to the daughter: "Crazy Er, I already know that I am happy and worried." Yi Ling is a god, fortunately not involved; if you set up a hur to attack the officials, you will arrest women and hold hostages in the court, how can my son see Qili? The woman was smiling.
The neighbor thinks that Baby Ning is a monster and asks her to sue.
In ancient times, the moral standards for women were many times higher than those of men.
In the eyes of outsiders, Baby Ning is a loss of virtue.
Baby Ning's mother-in-law, reprimanded her for reprimanding her for being wrong?
From the perspective of a parent, Baby Ning's mother-in-law's reprimand of Baby Ning is completely out of a motherly heart.
At that time, Baby Ning had to start learning to compromise with life.
So Baby Ning didn't laugh!
Pu Songling cherished the character of Baby Ning very much, and then the plot was that The prince served to bury Baby Ning's mother with his father, and Baby Ning gave birth to a son, inheriting her characteristics of love of laughter, and the story ended in the love of both loyalty and filial piety and husband and wife.
But real people, where can it be so simple.
Three. Masks in disguise
Sometimes, adults really envy babies. Because these children cry when they want to, and laugh when they want to.
And adults can't!
Every adult must put on a mask of disguise for himself, and on certain occasions, even if he does not want to laugh, he must pretend to be a smiley face to greet everyone.
This is the helplessness of life.
Baby Ning didn't smile, it was just the first step in her life's compromise.
As her life goes on, she must also learn to laugh compromisingly.
The Wang family is quite wealthy, naturally has a huge circle of contacts, when it is necessary for Baby Ning to go to human contact, does she dare not laugh, can she not laugh!
If she doesn't laugh at the wedding feast, God knows what those mothers-in-law will say!
Sometimes the mouth is shoveled and the bones are destroyed. Don't say that Bao Ning, such an ordinary person, is the rich daughter-in-law Wang Xifeng in "Dream of the Red Chamber", and sometimes she has to live a life with a smiley face.
Because that's life.
And Baby Ning's husband, Prince Fu, will never be willing to be a show talent for a lifetime.
He will continue to study the examination and perhaps have the opportunity to enter the examination.
In the process, the prince suit will expand the network. At that time, the mentor of the prince's suit, in the same year, would also have a personal relationship with the prince's suit.
Those people are all the connections of the future development of the prince service. When dealing with the women of those families, did Baby Ning dare to put on a face, did she dare not smile?
The answer, of course, is no, at that time, Baby Ning was pretending, and she had to pretend to be a smiley face.
Time is easy to pass, red face is easy to age!
The former prince dress, in his heart, there was only baby Ning alone. But with the passage of time, this man will also take concubines.
At that time, Baby Ning also had to come up with a smiling face.
Otherwise, she is not virtuous;
Otherwise, she is jealous.
Even if it is a house fight, Baby Ning must also learn, with a smile on his face and a tripwire under his feet; learn to be bitter with a sweet mouth, two sides and three knives.
When Baby Ning's son grows up, in order for his son to have a good master, so that his son can have a good future, Baby Ning also has to make all kinds of maneuvers and all kinds of smiling faces.
No laughter, such a tough thing, no one can do it!
The reason why Baby Ning's laughter touches the reader's heart so much is because in everyone's heart, they all retain the once innocent self.
Readers cherish the smiling baby Ning, as if they really loved themselves at that time.
But every reader understands that such an innocent life can only exist in the stage of childhood.
Every reader must grow up, and so must Baby Ning. So Baby Ning! Every reader understands her pain, because the pain of growing up is in every reader.
Every reader will only sigh for her sadness, because this is the helplessness of life and cannot be changed.