If there was one thing that your family didn't understand you, would you do it? If the authorities forbid you to do it for personal reasons, will you still do it? If this could save more than 800 lives, but it had nothing to do with you, would you do it? If even the 800 victims don't understand you, or even hate you, then do you still want to do it?
In the face of all kinds of pressures from family, society and people around them, normal people will not choose to do it, after all, more is better than less. Although everyone has a heart to be a hero, no one wants to be a hero who is not understood, let alone a hero who will lose his life. Who in the world will do something that is not gratifying?
There really is, he is the protagonist of the movie "The Fool of the Dangerous Building", Dima Nikitin. "The Fool in the Dangerous Building" is a Russian film that tells the story of dima Nikidin, a plumber who fights with his family and risks his life to confront a corrupt Russian bureaucrat in order to save the lives of more than 800 people in a dangerous building.
We can't avoid danger, but there are always some people in the world who, when everyone flees, not only do not flee, but choose to rush to danger. They are the "retrogrades," the most beautiful people in the world. The medical workers on the front line at the outbreak of the epidemic are all risky "retrogrades", they are guarding us with their lives, we understand them, admire them, and regard them as heroes.
However, there are "retrogrades" that we understand, and there are also "retrogrades" that we do not understand, such as the protagonist of the film, Dima, who still chooses "retrograde" even when the public does not understand. The "retrograde" understood is the hero, but what is the "retrograde" who is not understood? Without seeking fame or profit, or even trying to understand, such people are very few. So, what exactly makes Dima willing to be an understood "retrograde"?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > what is the environment for Dima to grow? </h1>
From ancient times to the present, parents attach great importance to their children's education, both at home and abroad. As a beautiful "retrograde", Dima naturally received a good education.
However, to say that Dima received a good education is not to say that he attended a famous school. Because Dima is just an ordinary plumber, it is conceivable that he received a very average school education, even the kind that many parents did not look up to. Despite this, Dima received the best homeschooling.
After the collapse of the Soviet Union, the entire country's economy collapsed, and the lives of the people were miserable. Living in a dilapidated house, eating and drinking only enough to feed and have a job is good. Although the living situation is already very poor, but the disaster is not alone, the more impoverished, the more it will breed many unscrupulous drunks and addicts, which makes the living environment of the whole society worse.
In this environment, Dima's father seems like an outlier, he works hard, is responsible for the family, and does not have any bad habits. Not only that, but he also takes the initiative to repair the public benches in the community, and he is the kind of person who really takes the community as home. With such a kind and excellent father, it is natural to raise an equally kind and excellent child.
Under the influence of his father, Dima did not sink with society, but grew into a plumber useful to society. Although this job looks ordinary, there are always extraordinary people in ordinary positions, and the behavior of Dima 'retrogrades' is a good illustration of this.
It can be seen that how a child will be in the future does not depend on what kind of school he goes to or what kind of work he does, but on what kind of family he grows up in. Because what kind of parents, what kind of children will have, family education is the best education.
However, with a good family education, the child will become a kind person, but there are many kind people, but not everyone is a "retrograde", let alone an understood "retrograde" like Dima. It can be seen that to become a "retrograde", kindness is only the most basic, in addition to kindness, there must be courage.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="57" > Where does Dima's courage come from? </h1>
Dima's kindness is something parents can teach, but courage parents can't. Because courage does not come from the external environment, but from the self.
You see the Yellow River is raging, drowning a lot of people, if a person dares to swim in the Yellow River, we think he is either stupid or really courageous. Many children just learn to swim and dare to swim in the Yellow River, which seems to be very courageous and cool, but it is actually silly. This is a typical newborn calf who is not afraid of tigers, obviously does not know the dangers of the external environment, but puts on a posture of invincibility in the world, which is stupid, is looking for death, and has no courage to speak of.
In fact, only those who have undergone a lot of training and are really confident in their swimming skills, they take a certain risk to cross the Yellow River, that is called courage. After all, not every swimmer dares to swim in the Yellow River, because the Yellow River is always a dangerous place and may die at any time.
In the film, although Dima is a plumber, he is very interested in architecture, he studies architecture every day, and has a deep understanding of the field of architecture. Therefore, when the water pipe of the building is broken, the general plumber thinks that the water pipe quality problem needs to be replaced.
Only Dima discovered that the water pipe was not an ordinary rupture, but that the load-bearing wall of the building had already undergone a penetrating fracture, so that now the building had begun to tilt, which caused the water pipe to break. After measuring the tilt angle of the building and calculating it precisely, Dima was sure that the building would collapse within 24 hours.
Because Dima knew so much about architecture, he was convinced that his judgment was right, so he had the courage to run to the city government. But anyone who is not skilled in business is not confident enough in his judgment and does not dare to go to the municipal government theory.
You know, courage does not come from the outside world, let alone from blind self-confidence. Dima has courage because of his exquisite business, which makes him dare to take responsibility for his own judgment. With confidence, people dare to really do one thing.
With kindness, people will do good; with superb business technology, people will have the courage to do things. For Dima, however, this is not enough. Because if there was only kindness and courage, then Dima would have taken his family away from the rotten city after being threatened with death by the corrupt mayor. But Dima didn't do that, because Dima not only had kindness and courage, he also had a responsibility.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="58" > when a person has responsibility, he will be invincible. </h1>
In the film, the corrupt mayor does not want to expose the matter, is unwilling to evacuate more than 800 people in the dangerous building, and even wants to kill Dima to kill him, but in the face of hundreds of lives, Dima still does not choose to back down. Is Dima not afraid of death? No, he was afraid of death. He has parents, and a wife and children, and he needs to live.
Well, it would have been a matter of nothing to do with himself, and Dima could have stayed out of it for a normal life. But now, why would he risk his life to save those 800 people? This is not because Dima wants to be a hero and wants to be loved in the community in the future, but because Dima is responsible.
They all live in the community, but the Dima father and son have a different sense of responsibility from the average person, who not only own their own home, but also regard the whole community as their home. Therefore, the father and son always went out of their way to repair the public benches in the community, which in their view were their own home's things, that is, to be repaired for the family to use. This is true for a chair, let alone a person!
Therefore, when the lives of 800 people in the community's dangerous building were in danger, Dima did not hesitate to choose to save them. For Dima, not only is his home home, the home of the community is his home, but the home of the city is his home, and the home of the country is also his home. Dima himself is a member of the extended family, and in his opinion, is it not his duty to save his family? Which parent hesitated to save their loved ones?
It is because of this responsibility that Dima has become fearless. I don't care if my wife doesn't understand, I don't care if 800 people treat each other coldly, punch and kick each other, and I don't care about the death threat of a corrupt mayor.
Responsibility gives Dima the strength to act and the courage to transcend life. At this time, Dima was already invincible to the world, no longer counting gains and losses, and not afraid of any threat. This is the real reason why Dima dares to be an understood "retrograde".
Having kindness can make a person do good; having superb business technology can make a person have the courage to do things; and only with responsibility can people truly be brave and invincible.
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Article author: Lai Buyi, the observer of life, works with you to integrate your understanding of life into the text. @Rebbe's Cabin