The story of marriage

My girlfriend complained to me that she had been married for more than a year, had not had sex for almost half a year, and her husband hated her for having a big waist and no interest in sex, and attacked her family from time to time.

In order to have a child with him as soon as possible, the girlfriend is still trying to lose weight, but one day, until she saw his husband's mobile phone chat interface with others, he completely woke up.

My girlfriend is 29 years old this year, and her husband Wu Kui met on the marriage network. At that time, she had just passed the age of 27, had just finished her job in Guangzhou, resigned and returned to her hometown to find out.

Wu Kui is 2 years older than her, although the height is only one meter 65, but admitted to the civil service establishment, the family has 2 suites, only children, parents are retired workers, the monthly total of more than 8,000 yuan, almost no pension problem. In their hometown, such a man is very sought-after.

When they first met, the girlfriend presented her family's situation to Wu Kui: she lost her mother at a young age, and after her father remarried, her stepmother gave birth to a younger brother, who treated her coldly and sarcastically, so she longed to have a home of her own.

Probably because her family is too complicated, at first Wu Kui was not cold to her, but when they were separated, he said, you have a good personality, we can get along.

The girlfriend was flattered, and even felt that she had climbed him, and since then, she had some inferiority in this relationship.

So they didn't talk saltily. He called him almost every night, talking about unfairness and complaining about social phenomena in the workplace. She, like a trash can, packed into all his emotions, occasionally enlightened him.

After each conversation, he said very comfortably: "You are really good, I have not said these words to anyone, I can only say to you, it is much more comfortable after saying it."

She had been away from her hometown for many years, and she didn't have any friends here, so whenever she heard him say this, she felt an unprecedented sense of need and happiness!

Within three months, Wu Kui suddenly asked her to get married. Saying that his father was diagnosed with lung cancer and needed surgery as soon as possible, and worried that the risk of surgery was high, the father hoped to see his only son get married before the operation.

"Why choose me, do you love me?" She asked hurriedly, for he had never said anything about loving her. So, the girlfriend almost blurted out a question.

He said: "I have been on a blind date for several years, and I am tired, I think you are the most suitable person, we will be very relaxed in living together."

There is no romantic rhetoric, just suitable for life, and the girlfriend who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for three years is also convinced of this sentence, not to mention the old girl who is almost 30 years old, where she can still withstand the toss and agree.

The wedding was rushed, no engagement, no bride price, not even time to take wedding photos. Because his father had more than ten days to go to surgery, everything was simple, even a little rudimentary.

At the wedding scene, Wu Kui shook his girlfriend's hand and said with tears: Wife, sorry, did not give you the best wedding, I will definitely compensate you in the future.

His vows touched her very lonely and hurt heart, and at that time, she believed that the bitterness would eventually come sweet.

After getting married, the young couple ran for their father-in-law's surgery, the operation went smoothly, and they were discharged from the hospital a month later.

A few months passed, and their lives were uneventful, like two people sharing a room together. Every time it was the girlfriend who took the initiative to ask him for sex, he always resigned for various reasons, even if it was sex, it was also coping. And his reasons are also various, one will feel that her waist is thick and fat, not sexual interest, and the other will laugh at her family conditions are not good, not even a stable job, marrying her is very bad.

She really couldn't figure it out, Wu Kui had said good compensation for me before, said good and appropriate, how to get all out of the way after marriage.

Under his constant blows, she began to suspect that she was really bad. She thought: lose weight well, have a baby, and everything will slowly get better.

So she began to lose weight desperately, running 5 kilometers a day, rain or shine, and suddenly lost 10 kilograms.

We had dinner from my in-laws' house that day and took the bus home. Wu Kui played with his mobile phone and chatted the whole time. She glanced sideways, and the other person asked him: "How did you get married so quickly, didn't you say that you wouldn't get married before you were thirty-five?" Also look for a beautiful woman. ”

He said: "Alas, it is not for the sake of the old man's illness, Chong Xi, I got married, and now I have some regrets." ”

Seeing this, the girlfriend felt an instant chill. It turned out that she was just his punching tool! Turns out he regretted it! It turns out that the so-called "compensation for you" is all deceptive nonsense!

Now think about it, is it true that the intestines are all remorseful, and they still lose weight for him and have children for him?

What is the meaning of marriage?

Who can help her come up with ideas, and what will she do?