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A 16-month-old life, gone.
Just on January 2 this year, South Korea reported a news story that spread directly from the local area to China.
The girl, Zheng Ren, died 271 days after being adopted by her adoptive parents, and doctors diagnosed that what Zheng Ren experienced before his death was enough to reach the level of textbooks.
When Zheng Ren was just eight days old, he was abandoned by his parents at the door of the church, and then he was taken in by the adoption center and was well taken care of.
By the time she was seven months old, her adoptive parents showed up, and the couple took Zheng Ren to the house with a 4-year-old daughter who knew how to take care of the children.
Not only did they receive an adoption fee of 1 million won, equivalent to 6,000 yuan, but they also received a monthly childcare allowance of 250,000 won, which is 1,500 yuan.
And a real purgatory on earth begins here.
When Zheng Ren was nine months old, her adoptive parents would lock her neck with their arms and clamp her up.
In order to look in the mirror, the adoptive parents put her on a handle that was only more than 20 centimeters.
When hungry, Zheng Ren also eats chili sauce.
After 7 p.m., he was locked up in a small dark room, crying and falling asleep.
Grinding teeth with the key from the shoe cabinet, the cry will be put into the stroller and hit the wall.
The family went out to the restaurant, and Zheng Ren was locked in the car alone for several hours.
Biological parents are not things, and the adoptive parents encountered are also of the animal level. How old is the child, can you bear such a mess?
Zheng Ren's adoptive mother once revealed to a friend: "Raising a child is not as simple as we think." The meaning of this statement is obvious, isn't it regret?
Don't want to raise children, regret it, throw a strange pity, after all, you can still expect her to get some subsidies, but the more you look at it, the more upset you are.
Fight, fight to the death.
The first time the police received a report, it was Zheng Ren's kindergarten teacher who found that the child's body was bruised. But her adoptive father explained to the police that it was caused by giving her a massage. It's not pretty facetious, but the police believe it.
The second time they called the police, it was a friend of the adoptive parents who said they had seen their children locked in the car many times, and the couple once again denied it, and the police, who had not found evidence, had to leave.
The third time I called the police, Zheng Ren came to the kindergarten again after two months, malnourished enough to be unable to walk, and the adoptive mother at this time had just completed a beautiful breast augmentation operation.
In the face of the police's questioning, the explanation given by the adoptive father was that the child was picky eaters and looked aggrieved: Is it because we are adoptive families that we are so suspicious?
Until later, the child was completely unable to bear it and was sent to the hospital.
Zheng Ren, who was 16 months old at the time, was only 8.5 kilograms, lighter than cats and dogs.
Not only that, but there were also multiple fractures throughout her body, ruptured internal organs, blood in her abdomen, and ruptured pancreas.
How severe is the rupture of the pancreas? It is the equivalent of an adult, jumping from a high place and then stomping hard.
While rescuing in the hospital, Zheng Ren had three cardiac arrests, while her adoptive mother was now shopping online passionately.
After the rescue failed, the family held a red wine party to celebrate his father's birthday.
With all due respect, neither a biological parent nor an adoptive parent is a good thing. When you want to have a child, you are hot-blooded, and you regret that you will leave the bone scum of the child's abuse.
Is the cost of being a mom and dad so low now? If you look like a person, come over and make a scene?
Whether you are willing or not, and whether you deserve it or not, are two different things.
This is a human life, the happiness and pain of this little life will be closely related to you, if you don't think about it well and can't pay the responsibility, don't let him suffer in this world.
Before deciding to be a parent, use your brain more, not move your sperm and eggs.
How these children are so miserable, born by themselves, and death is only between the thoughts of their parents.
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I don't know what happened to the baby girl who was thrown from a tall building twice by her parents a while ago.
She was not even 4 months old, wearing only one diaper on her body, and after falling from the 5th floor, the protective net smashed out of a large pit.
However, the child's father was light and breezy: "There is a net underneath, and it is not dead to fall from here." "Can't die, so you threw the child down?" Is there still a conscience?
That's the meat that fell from your own body, how can it be as casual as throwing a plastic bag?
The hospital's diagnosis was a brain hemorrhage, damage to the lungs, and terrible that her father refused to let the child seek medical treatment.
"People should be blessed, so many people accompany her, she is not worth it."
Their own flesh and blood, their lives are going to be gone, but when the father comes to say that the child is not worthy, does this not make people feel chilled?
What is the blessing that should be cherished, and such a father on the stall is the real suffering.
After returning home, he didn't bother to feed the child frequently, simply feeding three or four hundred milliliters of milk powder at a time, and the milk powder was mixed with insects and melon seed skins.
Treating his own daughter as casually as feeding chickens and ducks, every day the child is around him is like a robbery.
On cold days, he dressed himself warmly, but the child did not even have a single piece of clothing on him.
Others asked him if he would feel indebted to the child and feel sorry for the child?
The father's answer was, "Man suffers when he lives." ”
Obviously, he just felt that the child deserved to fall down to the fifth floor, and he should starve to death and freeze to death.
The child can't remember things and can't speak, no matter how he does the scourge, the pain will still repeat itself the next day when he opens his eyes.
Why is it that some people are not worthy of parenthood, because they can't even be individuals.
Just take care of the birth and raise, just take care of your own cool. The child is like a lump of dead meat in the eyes of these people, happily hugging up and rubbing it a few times, kicking away when he is not happy, and not seeing the heart is not bothered.
Since you choose to be a parent, you must be prepared to grow up with a life, thinking that you are playing here? Can human life be played with?
However, this kind of unconscionable thing is not in the minority.
I once saw a news that a small couple fell in love and gave birth to a baby girl, and the woman regretted it, directly left the child to the man, and returned to her hometown.
The man's heart is even more fierce, he feels that his daughter is a burden, and simply sells the child.
The first time, he sold for 50,000 yuan, and the buyer regretted it because the child could not go to the hukou.
The burden turned again into his own hands, and he hurriedly contacted the next buyer and sold his daughter again at a price of 60,000 yuan.
In this way, the baby girl, who was only 40 days old, was abandoned by her mother once and sold by her father twice.
Born, thrown, kicked around like a ball, no one cares what a little baby feels, she's just a tool for parents to vent their emotions.
From the moment she was born, she was not expected, none of her parents cared about how to raise her, and all she thought about was how to get rid of this hot potato.
A child who can live well seems to have died three times.
But what did she do wrong? Perhaps, the wrong birth is her original sin.
In recent years, innocent victims have been killed one after another.
After giving birth to a child, he found that there was a cleft lip and palate, and turned his head to put the baby into a cardboard box, and whoever wanted to pick it up would pick it up.
Because her daughter stole chicken food, she simply sewed the child's mouth shut, and after she was released from prison, she ran to her daughter's grave and scolded the ashes.
Life is really unequal, not all small lives are highly anticipated to come to the world, they are not only not blessed, but will be cursed by their biological parents.
It's easy to be an irresponsible parent, but it's so hard to be a child who can grow up smoothly.
Some children, at the cost of death, some children grow up and never forget these scars for the rest of their lives.
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It is true that every couple has the right to parenthood, but should some people ask themselves first, are you qualified?
After receiving a marriage license, once the sperm and eggs are combined, they are worthy of being a father and a mother? That's too simple to think about.
Your children, that is, when you are young, don't let your children down, let alone let yourself down.
How to raise him, what kind of life can be given to him, the couple have discussed and prepared?
It is not that everything is ready to be born, but all the psychological construction done by the couple in advance is a process of accumulating love and blessings.
A pair of parents who love their children is the most precious gift to their children, which is more important than giving them life.
What your children will feel, children who grow up in anticipation and love, are really different.
The child's birthday wishes are all related to you: "I want to thank a person, my mother thank you for giving birth to this world, it is hard." ”
In the eyes of children, it is all the good of their parents, and they will respond gently to love.
No child wants to be a burden to their parents, and since they have met, they should cherish it.
There used to be a test online where parents and children rated each other out of 10.
Most parents give 5 or 7 points because their children are too noisy and disobedient.
And almost all the children, they stretched out 10 fingers and scored a perfect score.
In fact, at a time when many people aren't ready to be qualified parents, kids are already trying to be someone who doesn't disappoint their parents.
Perhaps in the child's heart, he is also afraid of being abandoned.
The matter of having and raising a child is not like eating and drinking, and today I am not satisfied with it and can start from the beginning tomorrow.
As soon as this life comes out, there will be joys and sorrows in the future life, and both husband and wife will have to bear the burden and take responsibility.
Of course, there is also a group of people, that is, scum, who have the heart to be a parent and do not have the conscience of being a human being.
In dealing with such persons, our country has clear legal provisions: ill-treatment of wards, if the circumstances are serious, shall be punished by imprisonment for not more than three years or criminal detention.
No one should think of acting recklessly, and no one should take the life of a child seriously, and no one should want to escape.
And what we have to do is to give the children more attention.
If you find that a child has been abused, just like Zheng Ren's kindergarten teacher, call the police in time, even if it can cause a little attention.
Children are ultimately vulnerable in this society, and we can be a part of their voice, more attention, more exposure, it is really possible to reduce a tragedy.
Finally, I also advise those parents in sheep's clothing to stop it.